Series 1 episode 9

[00:00:01] Speaker A: The best music from the 60s to today. IPL radio. [00:00:07] Speaker B: Welcome. [00:00:07] Speaker A: Hello. [00:00:08] Speaker B: Yes, welcome. For all the things on a Thursday night. [00:00:12] Speaker A: Yeah. God, so good to be back. I've missed you. [00:00:15] Speaker B: I missed you, too. Oh, my gosh. So you're joined by Jen. Jen and Selva. [00:00:19] Speaker A: Yes. It's good to be back. [00:00:21] Speaker B: You've been everywhere, haven't you? [00:00:23] Speaker A: Okay, it's getting a bit of everywhere. Yeah. Trying to cover enough of Australia. [00:00:27] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah, I know, right? [00:00:29] Speaker A: And it's really good, you know, you got to go out and you got to go out where people need you. [00:00:32] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:00:33] Speaker A: And that's it. [00:00:34] Speaker B: That's it. [00:00:34] Speaker A: Wherever they call you. There we go. [00:00:37] Speaker B: There you go. [00:00:38] Speaker A: Try it out. And I actually spent a wonderful time with my husband in Darwin. [00:00:42] Speaker B: Yep. [00:00:42] Speaker A: So I pretended that I was married again for a while. [00:00:45] Speaker B: Oh, yeah? How'd that go? [00:00:46] Speaker A: You know. [00:00:48] Speaker B: Did you behave like newlyweds? [00:00:50] Speaker A: Yes, we did. We did. It was very nice. We went to a Leo Saya concert. [00:00:56] Speaker B: Oh, really? He's 77 and he's still rocking it out. [00:00:59] Speaker A: He is amazing. He's jumping around the stage and. And dancing and singing. You think he's still 20? [00:01:07] Speaker B: No. That's how I'm going to be in my 70s. [00:01:09] Speaker A: Seven. Wow. [00:01:11] Speaker B: That's crazy. Where was that? In Darwin. [00:01:13] Speaker A: In Darwin? Yeah. Yeah. He lives there, so. Oh, does he? Yeah. So he does a concert one day a year. [00:01:17] Speaker B: Is he Australian? He's not. [00:01:19] Speaker A: Is he English? He's. [00:01:20] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. I knew he wasn't Australian, but I didn't know what. [00:01:23] Speaker A: He used to live in Sussex. [00:01:24] Speaker B: Oh, really? [00:01:25] Speaker A: And he told a story how he left Sussex and he said the lover. [00:01:30] Speaker B: Sussex. Yeah. [00:01:31] Speaker A: And I left Sussex and I was a loud mouth, short man, and they wanted someone loud for a rock band. And I thought I could do it because I like screaming and jumping around. [00:01:43] Speaker B: Don't we all? [00:01:45] Speaker A: So he did. [00:01:46] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:01:46] Speaker A: You know, and then he started singing and then he just did just. Here he is today, you know, and he came to Australia in 1974. He moved to Australia. [00:01:55] Speaker B: Really? [00:01:55] Speaker A: And. And he loves it. He just loves it. I mean, when I came to do my concert in Australia in 1974, I said, I got to move here. [00:02:04] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [00:02:05] Speaker A: This is home. [00:02:06] Speaker B: 1974. That's like 51 years ago. [00:02:09] Speaker A: 51 years ago. Wow. The year after I got here. [00:02:12] Speaker B: Oh, wow. [00:02:13] Speaker A: I got here in 73. And he got here in 70. [00:02:15] Speaker B: 74. No. [00:02:16] Speaker A: Yeah. Oh, s. Here. [00:02:17] Speaker B: I should be here. Yeah, yeah. I'm going to move here now. Selva's here. [00:02:24] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:02:24] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:02:25] Speaker A: It Was awesome. [00:02:25] Speaker B: It's really, really awesome. [00:02:27] Speaker A: It's just fantastic that we had a ball and went around and fed the fish as you do. [00:02:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:02:33] Speaker A: You know, look at the crocs. [00:02:35] Speaker B: I haven't been to Darwin. I have to go. I have to come. Yeah. Yeah. [00:02:38] Speaker A: To go to Darwin. Darwin is amazing. It is, actually. There's nothing there, but there's everything. [00:02:44] Speaker B: Yeah. Yep. Yep. You know, I like that. [00:02:46] Speaker A: I like that spiritually. The sunny at this one. Shop. Shop. [00:02:52] Speaker B: Yep. [00:02:53] Speaker A: That's got beautiful crystals. And they don't do readings or nothing. There's just a shot. [00:02:58] Speaker B: Okay. Yep. [00:02:59] Speaker A: It's huge. It's beautiful. [00:03:01] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:02] Speaker A: And there's a healing center as well. [00:03:04] Speaker B: Oh, cool. [00:03:05] Speaker A: And they're both very beautiful. They're really nice people. They support one another. [00:03:09] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:10] Speaker A: And they tend to work together quite well, which is actually amazing. You know, like, it's really, really good. [00:03:14] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:15] Speaker A: To see them working and supporting each other. [00:03:17] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:17] Speaker A: I like that on that space. That was. That was really good. [00:03:19] Speaker B: Well, if you're all part of something bigger and you. You' got the same, you know, goals with helping people and. Yeah, it should be that way. [00:03:27] Speaker A: I mean, I remember when I opened my shopping colleague, my healing center collie. That would have been 45 years ago. [00:03:33] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [00:03:34] Speaker A: I went up to the news agents, and he was selling tarot cards and books and stuff like that. [00:03:39] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:40] Speaker A: So I went up, I went and said, hi, Peter. And Peter Rubin, his name is. I said, look, I'm going to open a little healing center, and I'm planning to sell books and. And cards. [00:03:50] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:03:51] Speaker A: And Christmas. I know you've been the only one selling that stuff. That's why I'm doing the courtesy to let you know I don't want to compete against you, but I'm just letting you know that I am going to stock all the same stuff, kind of more. [00:04:04] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:04:04] Speaker A: And he said, really? Here we go. He says, really? Wait a minute. He went at the back, he got a box. He put all the stock that he had here. I write it off here. I have it. Really? He gave it to me. [00:04:18] Speaker B: Wow. [00:04:19] Speaker A: He says, I don't want it in my shop anyway. [00:04:21] Speaker B: Oh, really? [00:04:23] Speaker A: So thank you. [00:04:24] Speaker B: Oh, thank you. Don't you think it's great how the universe will always deliver like, what is meant for you? [00:04:30] Speaker A: Just did that. And he was great, you know, Promise you you won't sell newspapers. [00:04:36] Speaker B: I go, nah, you got no problem there. Yeah. [00:04:39] Speaker A: He said, okay, I won't sell any of your stuff. [00:04:42] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:04:43] Speaker A: You know. [00:04:43] Speaker B: Okay. Yeah. [00:04:44] Speaker A: So it worked out well. [00:04:45] Speaker B: Yeah. And how long did you have your shop there? [00:04:47] Speaker A: I had to shop there for 42 years. Wow. Yeah. [00:04:50] Speaker B: That's so cool. That is very cool. [00:04:53] Speaker A: 42 years. Yeah. And when I sold it, it was just like, ah. And even now, I miss it. I. I do miss it terribly. I miss Collie. I do miss Collie. [00:05:01] Speaker B: Yeah. You know, I haven't been there either. [00:05:02] Speaker A: Collie is a beautiful little place. [00:05:04] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:06] Speaker A: Collie's like Armadale. You know, everybody tells you horrible stories about Armadale, and then you move to Armadale and it's really beautiful. [00:05:14] Speaker B: Y. I like the comparison. [00:05:15] Speaker A: I love it. No, but it's true. [00:05:17] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:18] Speaker A: It's the same. People will tell you some horror stories about. [00:05:21] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:05:22] Speaker A: But when you go there, if you got the right heart. [00:05:26] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:26] Speaker A: The town will just open. [00:05:27] Speaker B: It will be right. [00:05:28] Speaker A: It's amazing. [00:05:29] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:30] Speaker A: You know? Yeah. [00:05:30] Speaker B: I think that's the same with a lot of the places that everything has a stigma. Even Rockingham has a stigma. [00:05:38] Speaker A: Yes, it does. [00:05:39] Speaker B: It's just like Armadale by the sea, is what they say. But, like, there's good parts, there's bad parts. Yeah. [00:05:44] Speaker A: Everything, you know. And I. I tell you, another place now is Hawaii. I went to Hawaii, of course, and I'm talking about energies now. Not good or bad. [00:05:52] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:05:53] Speaker A: And in Iahu, which is Honolulu. [00:05:56] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, yeah. [00:05:57] Speaker A: When I went to Wahu, I was there. We looked around. It was just that tourist place. Busy. It sort of felt soulless. [00:06:07] Speaker B: Oh, really? [00:06:08] Speaker A: Holding it alone. Right. [00:06:09] Speaker B: It shouldn't feel that way, but. [00:06:10] Speaker A: But then you go to Maui. [00:06:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:06:13] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:06:14] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:06:15] Speaker A: You get off the plane and like, a wave hit me that I got a disease from go. Oh, it actually really hit me. And I know there's a big Hawaiian lady that she goes, oh, the island likes you. [00:06:29] Speaker B: Yeah, Right. [00:06:31] Speaker A: Okay. I guess. [00:06:32] Speaker B: Oh, I just got goosebumps. Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:06:34] Speaker A: So it was just like she was telling me how some people get affected by it immediately and some of them gradually get affected. [00:06:42] Speaker B: Yeah. Is that like Bali? Because that's quite spiritual as well. Similar. [00:06:47] Speaker A: You know, sometimes some people get affected and say, don't. You know, depends what you go there for and what areas of Bali you go to. I mean, there's places in Bali that are very, very spiritual. [00:06:56] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:06:56] Speaker A: And there are places that are very alloting to dark magic. [00:07:01] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay. [00:07:01] Speaker A: There's a lot of dark magic in Bali. [00:07:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:07:04] Speaker A: And then there's the crazy area. [00:07:06] Speaker B: Yeah, the crazy area. Oh, the party place. [00:07:11] Speaker A: The party place. [00:07:12] Speaker B: Okay. Yeah. Yeah. [00:07:13] Speaker A: So, yeah. [00:07:15] Speaker B: I've never been There either. I know. I'm one of those. I'm one of those. [00:07:18] Speaker A: That's okay. You know, you. We love to go there. We have to go there. [00:07:21] Speaker B: Let's go. [00:07:22] Speaker A: Any excuse to travel. [00:07:23] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, no, that's in my. That's in my itinerary for moving forward. It's all about seeing the world explore, you know? [00:07:31] Speaker A: And the thing is, when you go to other country, even. Even in Australia. [00:07:34] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:07:34] Speaker A: When you go to different states. [00:07:36] Speaker B: Yep. [00:07:37] Speaker A: Every state's different. [00:07:39] Speaker B: Right. [00:07:39] Speaker A: All the people are different. They even talk a little bit different. [00:07:42] Speaker B: Yeah, okay. Yeah, they do. They do. I did have this. Yeah. [00:07:45] Speaker A: You go to Queensland and they say a lot of, you know. You know. [00:07:49] Speaker B: You know, I've never been to Queensland, but I do do that. Yeah. [00:07:53] Speaker A: Then you go to Sydney. Got on that level. [00:07:55] Speaker B: Oh, really? On that level. Oh, really? What about Melbourne? [00:08:00] Speaker A: I don't. I don't know. I didn't pick up what was the most common phrase there, but. Oh, yeah, I wasn't there long enough, I think. But it's just incredible, you know, they all talk a little bit different. [00:08:09] Speaker B: They do, they do. And they call things differently, too, because I've only ever been to Melbourne other than Perth. [00:08:13] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:13] Speaker B: Oh, I haven't lived. I haven't. [00:08:17] Speaker A: We've got to do something about that. I know. [00:08:18] Speaker B: I've done 46 years, and only in my 45th year did I leave the state. So I still haven't left the country. [00:08:25] Speaker A: Oh, we've got to do something. [00:08:26] Speaker B: Let's do it. [00:08:27] Speaker A: Have you got a passport? [00:08:29] Speaker B: I'm on to that. [00:08:30] Speaker A: That's. [00:08:30] Speaker B: That's on my to do list. [00:08:32] Speaker A: Get your passport. [00:08:33] Speaker B: Let's do it. [00:08:34] Speaker A: Where we can learn how to do this show remotely. [00:08:36] Speaker B: I know we can. [00:08:38] Speaker A: Bali and do a show from Bali. [00:08:39] Speaker B: I'm so excited for this. [00:08:40] Speaker A: Wouldn't that be good? Yeah. [00:08:42] Speaker B: We've been chatting about this. We can. [00:08:44] Speaker A: We can go anywhere we can. [00:08:45] Speaker B: And we can bring all the things from wherever we are. [00:08:48] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:08:49] Speaker B: Yes. I'm excited about the equipment. [00:08:51] Speaker A: So we can take it, pack it, and take it and do it. [00:08:54] Speaker B: I can see. [00:08:55] Speaker A: Here we are. [00:08:55] Speaker B: Yeah. Hello. [00:08:57] Speaker A: In the Internet. We'll be able to hook in from anywhere. [00:09:00] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. Yep. So this is something we've been chatting about because. Because you're a, you know, traveler. [00:09:06] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:09:06] Speaker B: We need to be able to do these things. [00:09:08] Speaker A: Yeah. And so we can connect from wherever I am. Like I said. I know we love to connect from wherever I am, but even just to. [00:09:14] Speaker B: Pick up on that vibe from wherever you are would be just Amazing. And it would kind of bring us to where you are as well. So we'd get that feel, you know, and just to go with you on your adventures, I would love you always traveling. And I just think, oh, my God, that's so amazing, you know, and just to just even watching your posts and stuff, it's pretty cool. But to be able to broadcast from wherever you go, that would be next level. [00:09:37] Speaker A: That would be cool. I did a show with six pr, actually. I was. I was in Brazil. [00:09:44] Speaker B: All right. [00:09:44] Speaker A: Yeah. And I was doing a show with Chris, he in 6p. And then he rang me in Brazil, you know, and it was so funny, you know, like, he rang me from Australia. He had to record it because 12 hours difference. [00:09:58] Speaker B: All right. Yep, yep. [00:09:59] Speaker A: So he rang me at midnight here in Australia. [00:10:02] Speaker B: Yeah. And it was midday. [00:10:04] Speaker A: And it was midday over there, but I did my show at midnight here in Australia anyway. [00:10:07] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [00:10:08] Speaker A: I used to do midnight to dawn with him. [00:10:10] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [00:10:10] Speaker A: So he rang me at midnight. [00:10:13] Speaker B: Yeah, Six hour show. Yeah, yeah. [00:10:15] Speaker A: And then. And we did that. We did it from Brazil. [00:10:18] Speaker B: Wow, that's so cool. [00:10:20] Speaker A: And it was just so fun. It was fun. [00:10:22] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. Is there any of those recordings on any kind of channel that we can or did they not have that? [00:10:28] Speaker A: Recordings? Oh, there would be all recordings. I mean, we should try and get. [00:10:31] Speaker B: Yeah, we should try and get some. [00:10:33] Speaker A: You know, I never really got any of my recordings from my shows ever. I've never really bothered. [00:10:38] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [00:10:39] Speaker A: No, I think that would be cool. [00:10:41] Speaker B: I reckon we should look into that. [00:10:42] Speaker A: There is one record, no, recording that I heard it was in. I did a movie. [00:10:46] Speaker B: Oh, did you? [00:10:47] Speaker A: Yeah, it was called Dark Karma. [00:10:49] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [00:10:50] Speaker A: And that was the guy. A beautiful guy. Actually, he's passed away now. He was Tommy Sumich. [00:10:55] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:10:55] Speaker A: He was the director. [00:10:57] Speaker B: Right. [00:10:57] Speaker A: Of the movie and that. And I played the psychic. Yeah, the. [00:11:02] Speaker B: It's a good role. Easy role for you to play, though. [00:11:04] Speaker A: It was. [00:11:05] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:11:06] Speaker A: It was interesting because no practice needed. It was a story of a client of mine. [00:11:11] Speaker B: Oh, really? [00:11:12] Speaker A: You know, and the daughter said, yeah, I'll let you do the movie on the condition the Silver plays the psychic. [00:11:17] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay. [00:11:18] Speaker A: So you rang me up, right? [00:11:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:11:21] Speaker A: You rang me up when the Taos got bombed. That was. [00:11:25] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay. 9 11. [00:11:26] Speaker A: 9 11. So you rang me up and he said, hi, my name is Tommy Simage and I'm doing a movie and I would like you to play the part of a psychic I got. Yeah, sure. And I'm the Queen of England and I hanged Up. [00:11:36] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:11:37] Speaker A: Then he rang again. This was at nighttime. He goes, don't hang up. I am Tony's image. I am doing a movie, and I would like you to play the part of a psychic in a movie. [00:11:48] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:11:49] Speaker A: I thought, yeah, sure. [00:11:50] Speaker B: I've got to put this movie title down. Yeah. [00:11:52] Speaker A: You know. [00:11:52] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:11:53] Speaker A: And then I hanged out. [00:11:53] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [00:11:54] Speaker A: And then I said, look, if you really are who you are, you come tomorrow in a limousine and say hello to me and Colleen. [00:12:01] Speaker B: Oh, okay. Yeah. [00:12:02] Speaker A: So we did. [00:12:03] Speaker B: Yeah, Right. [00:12:04] Speaker A: Then I took him seriously. [00:12:06] Speaker B: And so. Hang on. What year was this movie made? [00:12:09] Speaker A: It got released on 2008. [00:12:12] Speaker B: Okay. All right. There's a different one there. Yeah. [00:12:15] Speaker A: 10-8-2008 was actually released, and it was called Dark Karma. [00:12:19] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:12:20] Speaker A: The director was Tony Sumich. [00:12:22] Speaker B: Is it an Indonesian film? Oh, no, Australian. Oh, there's a few of them. Oh, no, that's a different one. Yeah, I'll have a look at it. I'll try and find it. Because there's a few. [00:12:30] Speaker A: If you can find it, you're better than me. [00:12:32] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. No, it's coming up with Karma, and then it's coming up with Dark Karma, a different one from a few years later. So I'll check it out. I want to find this now. Yeah, absolutely. [00:12:41] Speaker A: So, yeah. So that's so cool. [00:12:44] Speaker B: So you're. You're a lot of things. You're all the things. I love it. I love it. So today you've actually traveled from Southern Cross. Southern Cross. So you've been driving all day and you still managed to come. [00:12:58] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:13:00] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. And yeah. So you've been traveling all day just to come and do the show. [00:13:04] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:13:05] Speaker B: You made it. We're so grateful to have you. [00:13:07] Speaker A: I even got here before you. [00:13:09] Speaker B: You did. Although I do have a good excuse. No, no, I don't. I don't like to be late for the radio show, but, yeah, it was good. The only times we've. I've ever been late broadcasting is because there's the glitch with the door. But now I know we've had that. [00:13:26] Speaker A: Issue with the door, but we don't have it anymore. [00:13:28] Speaker B: No issues. [00:13:29] Speaker A: You got the right things. [00:13:30] Speaker B: I got all the things. Yeah, yeah, yeah. All right, we might cut to a song, and then we'll come back and discuss all the things after this, I think we might play. Play some Proud Mary from Credence Water Revival. Here we go. [00:13:44] Speaker A: Bring it on. The best music from the 60s to today. IPL radio. All right, so we're Back on. The music's finished. We're back on. I couldn't remember which button to press or anything. It's been so long, I can't remember. Let's hear it. Was this one? I think you got the wrong one. Oh, can you hear? [00:14:07] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:14:08] Speaker A: Is that it? So put this one down. [00:14:10] Speaker B: Yeah, put that one down. [00:14:11] Speaker A: Okay. [00:14:12] Speaker B: So we're just. [00:14:12] Speaker A: Okay. Back. I was trying to. To look. So I'm trying to get a song. I'm going to get two songs in a little while because it's a topic that I want to talk that I think is actually very important. [00:14:24] Speaker B: Okay. [00:14:24] Speaker A: I was giving Jenny a rundown early this morning when we had a bit of a chat. A two second only a two second chat. That's all we did. And I think it's important that people need to address this and it's good to people to connect to themselves because we all are going through a very challenging stage in life and we need to understand that no one's perfect. Right? [00:14:58] Speaker B: No. [00:14:59] Speaker A: And we can all just. Why is that all on capital? [00:15:04] Speaker B: Just leave it like that. [00:15:05] Speaker A: No, no. It looks horrible. Looks horrible. It's just. [00:15:12] Speaker B: All right. So. [00:15:13] Speaker A: Yeah. So. So we need to re. Reconnect and become aware of the power within. Because I think that's very, very important. People need to find that. Find that connection of where they are. [00:15:26] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:15:26] Speaker A: And that understanding of it, you know, so it's. Is this version here that we want to put. And I'll just drag it up here, don't I? Yeah, I'm getting there. Yay. So. So we need to look into our true selves. And you know, a lot of people have heard me before that you've got to take a step back. And I think people got to learn to send back and understand the importance of standing back, but not standing back because you fail or anything like that. Sometimes if we take a step back, irrationalize with ourselves and understand, okay, this just happened. But without getting angry, without getting upset, without getting confused. Just accepting that sometimes we need to take that step back and connect to ourselves, to where we want to be, you know? [00:16:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:16:28] Speaker A: Because we forget who we are within ourselves. And we need to find that. We need to really, really find that. Because we're all perfect in every way except that we don't see it. We get so caught up on. On all the negative that surrounds us that we rob ourselves. We rob ourselves from the true understanding of who we are and what we are. If anybody understands. [00:17:03] Speaker B: Yeah. Yep, yep. [00:17:05] Speaker A: So it's really, really good. I can't Find just the way you are I found the stranger oh, legacy But. [00:17:12] Speaker B: Oh, well, it depends on the. We're just doing some song searching at the moment on air. But still, you can come with us. [00:17:20] Speaker A: That's okay. [00:17:21] Speaker B: Part of the things we're doing. [00:17:22] Speaker A: Yeah, we can. I mean, this is. This is Jane and Salva. We just include you in everything that we too. [00:17:26] Speaker B: I just put that post up. I like that you like that one. There's my big head. [00:17:32] Speaker A: And it was like. Like the biggest thing, Jen, is like we're all going through trouble and hardships and stuff like that, and we get so caught up on how everybody else is affected and we feel for them, but we forget to feel for ourselves. Yes. And now it's the time to stand up. Now is the time to say no. Oh, where do I feed in? [00:17:53] Speaker B: Yeah, this is. Is really, you know, with me at the moment. [00:17:56] Speaker A: And it's. Yeah. And it's. It's so important that we all become aware of where do I fit in? Who am I really? And why should I change my hair for you? [00:18:06] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [00:18:07] Speaker A: You know, and I used to tell my kids, you know, when. When your friends tell you to do this and do that, tell them, do you do my washing? Do you pay my bills? They're going to look at you funny and say, no. Well, then when you can do that, then. Then you can tell me what to do. It's just a funny way of doing it. But we need to be aware that we cannot surrender to other people's expectations. [00:18:30] Speaker B: No, no. [00:18:32] Speaker A: And yes, we do have to respect other people and respect their thoughts, their expectations, whatever it is. But if they're not connected to us. [00:18:39] Speaker B: We don't have to include it reciprocated as well. Then you should know. [00:18:43] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:18:44] Speaker B: Draw the line at your own expense. You know, there's always going to be people that don't appreciate you for you and that will just take, take, take, and. And, you know, being someone that is generous and doesn't like confrontation or hasn't really dealt well with that in the past, I've. I've often been used a lot of the times. Yeah. And. Yeah. Just starting to put. Set firm boundaries, healthy boundaries. It's healthy for me. [00:19:09] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:19:10] Speaker B: And it's necessary for. For everyone to, you know, to allow. Only allow what you're okay with. [00:19:16] Speaker A: Yeah. So the biggest things that we've got to become one of these. Yeah. Do that. That's my dinner. I cooked it in five minutes in the car. You did great. [00:19:23] Speaker B: You did great. [00:19:24] Speaker A: That'll be a Little bit drier. It's like we got to be aware of who do we think we are. We got to be aware of who do we think we are, really? Ourselves. Not in the case of big noting or downloading or whatever. No, just take a moment. Take a moment to get to know yourself and ask yourself, who do I think I am? [00:19:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:19:44] Speaker A: But not in a sense of judgment and a sense of acknowledgment. [00:19:48] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:19:48] Speaker A: Because before we can change anything in our lives, we've got to connect to ourselves. We've got to connect to our deepest being to be able to understand that. And once we can do that, then we can start moving forward. Yeah, but if we don't know who we are, if we're just. We're such a sheep that all we're doing is following the flock, we're not going to move forward because we're living everybody else's life. [00:20:15] Speaker B: Correct. Yeah. [00:20:16] Speaker A: So we've got to take that step back and say, okay, who am I? [00:20:20] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:20:20] Speaker A: We've got to learn to have a relationship with a mirror and actually sit there in front of the mirror and talk to each other and be okay with the person and be okay with the person that is there. [00:20:30] Speaker B: Absolutely. [00:20:30] Speaker A: You know, because the. The wonderful thing about it is that when you really are truly yourself, when you really are you, your completeness and you're living and walking your truth, the right people will come to you. [00:20:44] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:20:45] Speaker A: When we're not reflecting who we really are, we attract people that will use us, abuses, pick on us, bully us, and that's. What's. That. Because we're not being our true self. We are a puppet on a string. So we've got to cut the cords and say no. [00:21:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:21:04] Speaker A: Who am I? [00:21:05] Speaker B: Your own growth as well. [00:21:07] Speaker A: It is a very lonely road, let me tell you. Sometimes. But it's worth it. Because when you really are in that space without, you know, you start attracting the people that are good for you. You'll start attracting people that will help you, people that will work with you, people that will be there for you, regardless of what it might be. [00:21:26] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:21:27] Speaker A: You know, I mean, I was. I was in. In Darwin last week. [00:21:30] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:21:31] Speaker A: And. [00:21:31] Speaker B: Yes, you were. [00:21:32] Speaker A: This. This lady, I was helping her across the road and she actually said, what? Why did you help me? I said, you're trying to get across the road. You got all your shopping, you only got two arms. Why not? [00:21:46] Speaker B: Yeah, it's. [00:21:48] Speaker A: It's. [00:21:49] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:21:49] Speaker A: She goes, this don't come. I said, no. It should be common. [00:21:52] Speaker B: It should. Yeah. [00:21:53] Speaker A: It should be coming. Yeah. You know, but it's sad for me to hear you questioning it. That someone was nice. [00:22:00] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:01] Speaker A: I think, you know, with no ulterior motive. Yeah. [00:22:04] Speaker B: I think we're all too busy trying. Well, some people are too busy trying to, you know. Yes. Whatever. But you're missing the common decency in life. [00:22:12] Speaker A: Exactly. And we've got to try and work with that. We've got to try and understand that. [00:22:16] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:16] Speaker A: We are all struggling. Everybody's going through hardships right now. Yeah. But you can either swim in that hardship or you can lift your head up and say, okay, I'm going to look for the positive this. In this hardest time ever. [00:22:29] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:29] Speaker A: And going to work with that and not ignore what's happening, but actually look at it from a positive point of view. What is it I meant to learn from this? What is it I meant to get that is good from this and digest everything and just let go of the rest. Yeah. [00:22:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:44] Speaker A: But instead of chasing our tails, you know, because that's what happens with a lot of people. [00:22:50] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:22:51] Speaker A: You know, and you know, in relationships. I've done that many relationship counselings this month of couples. [00:22:58] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:22:59] Speaker A: That they come and they just. About each other. [00:23:02] Speaker B: Oh, really? No. [00:23:04] Speaker A: But they're not listening to each other. [00:23:06] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:23:07] Speaker A: They have all these expectations of each other, but neither of them want to change to meet the other one in the middle. [00:23:15] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:23:16] Speaker A: You know, and the only way to have a decent relationship is you've got to accept your partner and your partner could accept you. [00:23:23] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:23:23] Speaker A: And meet each other in the middle and discuss what's not sitting right. [00:23:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:23:28] Speaker A: And fix that. But not excuse it. [00:23:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:23:33] Speaker A: If you, if you got excuses, there's no love. [00:23:37] Speaker B: No. And I do think that a lot of people. [00:23:39] Speaker A: And it's not an ownership. [00:23:40] Speaker B: Yeah. A lot of people focus on someone. Potential. [00:23:43] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:23:43] Speaker B: And that person doesn't actually really exist. So they've fallen in love with something or someone and then they're focusing on who they could be and then getting upset about them not being that, but that. That person doesn't exist. [00:23:55] Speaker A: That's right. [00:23:56] Speaker B: So you can't actually. It's not real, but. Yeah. [00:23:59] Speaker A: Yeah. It's like the old joke. You're in for a joke. [00:24:02] Speaker B: Yeah. I love jokes. [00:24:03] Speaker A: Jokes are really good. You know, there was this beautiful, beautiful lady, very, very well presented and she's not working. Her husband worked, but she didn't work. [00:24:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:24:13] Speaker A: So she stayed home. She took care of the home and stuff like that. [00:24:16] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:24:16] Speaker A: And her husband says, honey, yes, yes, dear. I wanted to talk to you because now that you are my wife, there are certain things that you need to take care of. She goes, really? Yes. When I come home from work, I would like my clothes laid out on the bed and actually my socks, my sleepers and everything and my towel warmed before I get out of the shower. I don't like a cold shower. And then when I come out of the shower, I would like you to dry my feet and put my socks on and my sleeper and I want you to brush your hair. And she looked at this. I will do all that, but first I will have to ring the undertaker. [00:25:13] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. When you're dead. [00:25:17] Speaker A: When you're dead. [00:25:18] Speaker B: Yeah. Honestly, as you're describing that, my, my, my, my first partner, my kid's dad was like that. [00:25:26] Speaker A: Wow. [00:25:27] Speaker B: Besides the hated towel thing. Yeah, yeah, exactly like. [00:25:30] Speaker A: You didn't hit his towel? No, he didn't mention it. [00:25:33] Speaker B: That's why it didn't last. [00:25:34] Speaker A: That's right. That's what did it. [00:25:36] Speaker B: I did eight years. [00:25:37] Speaker A: The cold tail. Yeah. [00:25:39] Speaker B: The cold towel. Oh, sugar. [00:25:41] Speaker A: Yeah. But how do you face that? You know, they're very false expectations. I mean, we can have that. But I must admit, a lot of couples don't have the talk before they get married. [00:25:50] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. And some people just have all these expectations and they're like, yeah, you know, I love this person and they love me. Yeah, it'll be fine. [00:25:57] Speaker A: And then they have, after they get. [00:26:00] Speaker B: Married, they think they sign that paper. Right. You have to do all this. [00:26:03] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:26:03] Speaker B: Without the talk. [00:26:05] Speaker A: You've got to have it. You've got to sit down. You've got to really. If you really want to build a beautiful relationship in a long lasting marriage with honesty and from the heart. [00:26:14] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:26:15] Speaker A: A relationship has got nothing to do with sex and it has nothing to do with money. [00:26:20] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay. [00:26:21] Speaker A: That's a fact. [00:26:22] Speaker B: Absolutely. A true relationship, those things should just be bonuses. Really. [00:26:26] Speaker A: They are bonuses, you know. [00:26:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:26:28] Speaker A: You know, the sex is like a beautiful dessert after a main course. [00:26:31] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. [00:26:31] Speaker A: Gotta have dessert. You've gotta love it. Gotta enjoy it. I'm not against it. Go for it. And the money is like, it'll give you pretty things and stuff like that. But when you get married with someone, when you start going out with someone, a boy sees girl and girl sees boy. [00:26:46] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:26:47] Speaker A: The last thing to have in mind is really how much money she got in the bank. Oh, no. [00:26:52] Speaker B: A lot of people are like that, you know. [00:26:54] Speaker A: I mean. Yeah, it's not about that. I mean, a True relationship is about two people connecting and able to share each other's thoughts and dreams and. [00:27:02] Speaker B: Yes. [00:27:03] Speaker A: And inspire each other and encourage each other. [00:27:06] Speaker B: Yes. All the. [00:27:07] Speaker A: You know, and even, like, you're a smoke and I really hate that, but I do love you, but I would appreciate if you don't do it around me. [00:27:15] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:27:15] Speaker A: So you don't tell them. Give up smoking. You know what, you just let them know that, hey, it doesn't sit right with me, but please don't do it around me. [00:27:22] Speaker B: I taught myself how to roll smokes for my partner. [00:27:25] Speaker A: Good girl. [00:27:26] Speaker B: Yeah. Just because I wanted to help. [00:27:29] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:27:29] Speaker B: You know, and I did. I taught myself how to roll smoke. [00:27:32] Speaker A: For my first husband. We used to sit down at night time and I used to roll all your cigarettes for the next day. He was the plumber and his macarolis. So we'll sit down and talk. I didn't smoke. [00:27:41] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:27:42] Speaker A: And so we just roll rollies for a long time after. I gave up. I gave up when the baby. When it's five. Troy was five. [00:27:51] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:27:52] Speaker A: I had to. He made me. [00:27:53] Speaker B: Oh, really? [00:27:54] Speaker A: He screwed up the packet. See, I was. No. I always told the kids, you know, if you don't know what you're doing, don't do it. And one day he got me off guard and says, mum, what do you smoke? I said, I don't know. [00:28:09] Speaker B: Wow. [00:28:09] Speaker A: So he just picked up my packet of smoke, babes. [00:28:11] Speaker B: Hey. [00:28:12] Speaker A: He picked up my packet of smoker, screwed it up and chucked it in bed. So you don't need this. So he put it in bed and I go, I mean, they're only 10.12 then. So it's really cheap anyway. [00:28:26] Speaker B: Looks like you gave it away at the right time. [00:28:28] Speaker A: Yeah. And. And I couldn't believe it. And I remember Brett came home from work. Can I have one of your C's? I got down. Why? I haven't got any. Why? Because I don't smoke anymore. Why? Troy screwed up the packet. You decided I didn't know why I was doing it. So he said, no, you're not doing it. [00:28:46] Speaker B: I love that. How did you go with that adjustment? [00:28:50] Speaker A: Like. [00:28:50] Speaker B: Because how long had you smoked for? [00:28:52] Speaker A: I only smoked for about 12 years. I was in a long time smoker. [00:28:56] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:28:57] Speaker A: You know, and it's only about 10 cigarettes a day. Something like that. It wasn't big. [00:29:01] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:29:02] Speaker A: But I just. It didn't worry me. [00:29:03] Speaker B: Didn't. It didn't work fine without it. [00:29:05] Speaker A: No, it's just like, you're just. [00:29:07] Speaker B: Okay. [00:29:07] Speaker A: I had More trouble giving up coffee when I had to give up coffee for a while. [00:29:11] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:29:11] Speaker A: Than smokes. [00:29:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:29:14] Speaker A: The headaches. Oh, man. [00:29:16] Speaker B: Yeah, that was me when I gave up Coke. Coca Cola. [00:29:20] Speaker A: My headaches. [00:29:21] Speaker B: Headaches, yeah. Yeah, I see. I don't really drink coffee, but yeah, I'll have one every, like three months or something. But yeah, when I drank, I used to drink like 2 liters of coke a day. [00:29:30] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:29:31] Speaker B: I was a fatty, too. [00:29:32] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:29:33] Speaker B: Back then, I think I was. I'm not going to lie. [00:29:36] Speaker A: You're a coke addict. I was a coke addict. [00:29:38] Speaker B: Oh, my God. [00:29:39] Speaker A: Give me some Coke. Coke, the one you drink. Okay. [00:29:41] Speaker B: Coca Cola. [00:29:42] Speaker A: Yeah, Coca Cola. [00:29:43] Speaker B: Like, stopping it. Like, I got headaches. [00:29:46] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:29:47] Speaker B: It was painful. [00:29:48] Speaker A: So, anyway, so I'm going to put this. This beautiful song. Let's do that on. Because I really like the song. And this song really relates a message. You know, you really got to listen to it because it really relates a message. All right. Hope you enjoy this. The best music from the 60s to today. IPL radio. Two great songs. Sorry about the first one, the Billy Joel one. I missed out the introduction in the. At the beginning. So I played it again halfway through that, from the beginning, and it sounded really good, actually. But the idea was to. To listen to the lyrics of those two songs of how important, you know, and you are. You are like Joe Cocker. He says it all. No, you are so beautiful to me. I mean, he doesn't ask that person. They're just the beautiful soul inside. And the thing is that once you need to say all those things to yourself, you've got to really fall in love with yourself. You've got to really connect to how you feel within yourself. Because once we really honor ourselves, once we really relate to who we are, and we. We see our flaws and we see them as silver. Silver that we need to polish. And then we polish the silver and then we shine like a star. And the feeling that you will feel inside once you truly, truly connect to yourself, to your true essence is unbelievable. Because it's like everything. Happiness comes from the inside. And true love of the self comes from the inside. So you got to really learn to have a relationship with you, with yourself. You have to be number one, number two, number three. And then he's whoever else. Because then when you have your. The you, when you are number one, number two, another three, then you're strong enough. Do you ever be somebody and say, look, this is who I am and this is who I need to be? I will meet you in the middle. And I will listen and I will work with you. But if I don't like something, I will tell you. And if I'm not comfortable about something, I will tell you. Not in a sense of judgment or things like that, just to let you know where the boundaries are. And I'm sure there's going to be things that you're not going to like about me. I'm sure of it. Because no one's perfect. And I will listen and I will understand, but I will always be me. And you can be comfortably be you. And when you are true to each other, that's when relationships really work. And that's not only romantically, that's even in friendships and families and any type of relationship. You don't need to change to suit the other person, and that person doesn't need to change to suit you. But you owe it to yourselves and to each other to let each other know where you fit in. It is. It's so simple that it's funny. [00:32:53] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:32:55] Speaker A: But we make it complicated because we have all these expectations. [00:32:58] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:32:59] Speaker A: It's like, you know, I don't know how many times when I'm doing especially parenting counseling gets me. You know, I had this, this mother, his son's 21. Right. And she wanted counseling with him because he doesn't call her enough. [00:33:20] Speaker B: Okay. [00:33:21] Speaker A: And I said to her, He's 21. He's 21. And I said, do you call him? No, he's my son. He should call me. I said, there's the problem. [00:33:30] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. It goes by the way. [00:33:32] Speaker A: It goes both ways. Yeah, it goes both ways. You can't just expect your son to check on you every day when you're not even prepared to ring and say, hey, I had a good day today. How was your day? Let's chat for a bit. [00:33:46] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:33:47] Speaker A: You can't expect him to call yours. And when you're not prepared to call him. [00:33:50] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:33:51] Speaker A: Correct. [00:33:51] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:33:52] Speaker A: You know? [00:33:52] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:33:53] Speaker A: And now her daughters are moving away. And I was talking to her daughter and I was saying, you know, the biggest problem with a parent, he said they don't want to lose their kids. But also some parents have the problem admitted that the kids are not kids anymore. They're grown ups. [00:34:11] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:12] Speaker A: So your mom will expect you to call her often. [00:34:15] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:17] Speaker A: But being asked to her and remind her that she can call you sometime. [00:34:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:22] Speaker A: You know, you can call me. I mean, I call my kids as much as they call me. [00:34:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:28] Speaker A: You know, I mean, my youngest son, he'll call me at 2 o' clock in the morning, he'll wake up thinking of me and he'll call me and I'll answer the phone. [00:34:34] Speaker B: Yeah, okay. Hey, I think that's cool. [00:34:36] Speaker A: How you doing, Sean? [00:34:37] Speaker B: Youngest one. [00:34:38] Speaker A: Nothing. Mom. [00:34:38] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:39] Speaker A: Just want to say I love you. Okay. Where are you? Oh, I'm at work or he's in bed or whatever. [00:34:45] Speaker B: Yeah, and that's very cool though. [00:34:48] Speaker A: He said, I just wanted to let you know. I said, good. So then we end up talking for two hours. Because it's always a subject that comes up, you know? [00:34:54] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:34:55] Speaker A: And that's what it is, you know, you've got a. Let each other know where you fit in. And if you don't like something, say it, but say it lovingly. Look, I really don't like the way you pick your nose at the table. I really hate that. You know, whatever, you know, but go and do it somewhere else. Yeah, you gotta say lovingly. [00:35:13] Speaker B: Winner, son. Can you not do that when we're eating? [00:35:16] Speaker A: Exactly. I will give you extra bread and butter if you're that hungry. [00:35:21] Speaker B: This is for on the bread, though. [00:35:26] Speaker A: They can have a sandwich. Yeah. Sticky sandwich. Sandwich. [00:35:29] Speaker B: Boogie sandwich. [00:35:30] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah. Give a mayonnaise for that. [00:35:33] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. Extra mayonnaise. [00:35:36] Speaker A: So anyway, so it is all about communication and integration and. But most of all, it's about the self. [00:35:42] Speaker B: Yes. [00:35:43] Speaker A: It all comes down to the self, really. [00:35:45] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:35:45] Speaker A: So are you talking to someone from the show or you just having a chat? [00:35:49] Speaker B: Me? No, I just keep getting in notifications. I'm just quietening it now. Yeah, I was talking to Tris about the mobile phone thing. [00:35:57] Speaker A: Oh, yeah, yeah. Very good. Yeah, yeah. [00:35:59] Speaker B: So there was relevance there, but I just have to make sure that it's not. [00:36:02] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. So it's actually kind of interesting, you know, we can all connect, we can all there to help one another, you know, and it's like. It is. That's what you've got to do. You just got to work on yourself. [00:36:15] Speaker B: Triple espresso. [00:36:16] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:36:18] Speaker B: Silver. [00:36:18] Speaker A: I'm a coffee addict. I used to get the. The other one, which is a red lead. It was four shots. [00:36:24] Speaker B: Oh, did they have such a thing? What's that one? [00:36:26] Speaker A: They don't make it anymore. [00:36:27] Speaker B: That's a three shot one. [00:36:28] Speaker A: That's a three shot. [00:36:28] Speaker B: Yeah. Four shots. Sounds like a heart attack waiting to happen. Seriously. [00:36:32] Speaker A: So, yeah, and I've been driving all day. I needed something to pick me up. [00:36:36] Speaker B: I loved our iced coffees, but. [00:36:37] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:36:37] Speaker B: You don't love me. [00:36:38] Speaker A: Yeah, so. So that's. That's that. So what's, what's your thought on self exploring? [00:36:47] Speaker B: Well, I think it's something that we all have to. I think we're all brought to that attention that we need to do that more and more and in different layers as we progress through life and meet different people. You're forced to rediscover yourself in different ways on. In different levels. Does that make sense? [00:37:07] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:37:08] Speaker B: And I think through meeting people, right and wrong people, you'll be forced to meet yourself again. [00:37:14] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:37:16] Speaker B: By how people try to treat you and how you know you should be treated. And so you'll be. Yeah. You have to look at yourself more and more. And I think that, you know, it's a good thing if you do respond in the right way. And it is always progress for the soul. [00:37:32] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:37:32] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:37:33] Speaker A: You know, I mean, you're a spiritual worker like I am. [00:37:36] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:37:37] Speaker A: So we, we know. We're very much aware that we are a spirit having a physical experience. [00:37:42] Speaker B: Yeah. I always like the physical experience. [00:37:44] Speaker A: You know, we don't know. Exactly. [00:37:47] Speaker B: And. [00:37:47] Speaker A: But it's like we've got to learn from everything. We've got to ask questions. That's what we've been given. A mouth in a throat chakra. [00:37:54] Speaker B: I know. [00:37:54] Speaker A: To express. [00:37:56] Speaker B: To use mine again though, by the way. [00:37:57] Speaker A: Yeah. Which I'm very proud of you. I'm very, very proud of you. [00:38:00] Speaker B: Yes. [00:38:01] Speaker A: And we need to do that because there's so much bullying, especially in the workplace, in relationships, in businesses, in everywhere. That bullying has become an issue in. [00:38:13] Speaker B: Life in general and people don't, they don't address it. And it's like it's normal. [00:38:18] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:38:18] Speaker B: And even in the spiritual community. [00:38:21] Speaker A: I agree. Yeah. And that's really sad. And that's what got me. You know, and it's because. Because we're not empowering ourselves enough. So therefore we. We fall in victim of other people. [00:38:31] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:38:32] Speaker A: If we can't do that. So we've got to really become aware of ourselves and we need to be strong, we need to be honest, we need to be direct, we need to have integrity, we need to have direction. But that's all with ourselves, not with anybody else. With ourselves. [00:38:46] Speaker B: And that's. Right. And we have to honor ourselves. [00:38:48] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:38:49] Speaker B: If we expect other people are going to. [00:38:51] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:38:51] Speaker B: And so what we allow will continue. [00:38:54] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:38:55] Speaker B: And so this is something that I. That I've had to address recently. And it is hard. Like, you know, you go through life and you kind of molded into a people pleaser by living in, you know, not the greatest Environments. So you turn into this people pleaser and then you get into these different friendships and workplace relationships and people will just think, oh, you know, I'm just going to do it like this. Jen won't say anything or, you know, blah, blah assumption. Would you put up with the way you treat me? No. [00:39:28] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:39:29] Speaker B: This is, this is something that I've had to address. Yeah, it is, it is uncomfortable. But living with people mistreating you is worse. Uncomfortable. [00:39:38] Speaker A: Ah, for sure. [00:39:40] Speaker B: So, yeah, sometimes we have to go through those uncomfortable moments just to honor ourselves and to have people honor us in the way we deserve and the way, you know, it should be. [00:39:52] Speaker A: It's like a George Dispenser would say you either a victim or a warrior. [00:39:59] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:39:59] Speaker A: And it's up to you. [00:40:00] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [00:40:02] Speaker A: And a warrior doesn't mean that you've got to go out fighting because they don't. Warriors don't fight. They don't. They're strong, they're stern, they're solid. Or you can be a victim. So. And what happens that a lot of people not saying you gender. I mean a lot of people that get so caught being a victim that they actually love the attention that victim thing attracts. I got a. There's a lady that, that I used to know and she's forever, forever even now talking about, oh, such and such things. I don't know why I have to put up with her. And for years we try to get through her and talk to her. Now I just go, you know, talk to the hand because I'm not listening. And she goes, what do you mean? I said, well, what's the point? [00:40:49] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:40:49] Speaker A: You have been whinging about exactly the same, same thing for the last 20 years that I've known you and you've done nothing to change it. We've told you, stand up for yourself. We told you, move out. We told you, make a decision. If you, if you love him, well, stand up to him and say, look, you know, I love you, but I'm not a toy or do something. But no, you have changed nothing. [00:41:14] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:41:15] Speaker A: So if you don't change anything, nothing is going to change. [00:41:19] Speaker B: Yes. Yep, yep, yep. You know, Right, that's right. [00:41:22] Speaker A: You know, she said, I'm just waiting for a miracle. I says miracles are created by you taking the first step. [00:41:28] Speaker B: Yes. Yeah. [00:41:29] Speaker A: You know, if I have that door locked, no miracle in the world is going to unlock it. No, no, I've got to make the decision. No, I'm going to open that door and I'm going to open it Yep, yep, yep. You know, so I hope nobody's driving. Nobody will be listening to us on a car, do you reckon? [00:41:48] Speaker B: Oh, I don't know. Yeah, I think they might. [00:41:49] Speaker A: Well, if they are, pull over because we're going to do a bit of exercise. All right, Pull over. If you are in a car. [00:41:55] Speaker B: Oh, what are we doing? [00:41:56] Speaker A: Or if you're handling machinery. You know, even toys sometimes can be dangerous. [00:42:03] Speaker B: Boys, put your toys away. [00:42:04] Speaker A: Yeah, put your toys away. Whatever. I want you to. I want you just to try and sit up if you can. Don't do it lying down. Okay? Just try and sit up. And I want you to actually take in a deep breath in. We count to five. Okay. And then gonna hold it for two and then let it go slowly. Okay. All right, so breathe in. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Hold, let go. 1, 2, 3, four. Now do that breath again. Hold and then let go. Now one more time. Breathing in through your nose, breathing out through your mouth. [00:43:13] Speaker B: I feel good. [00:43:14] Speaker A: Now, how simple is that? [00:43:16] Speaker B: So simple, but so good. [00:43:17] Speaker A: But how good do you feel after that? I actually do, you know, it's three breaths. Whenever you go into the toughest of time, the darkest of hours, go to the toilet. If you must go to the toilet, go to your bedroom, go somewhere, find a place where you can be alone. It just simply takes three breaths. In through your nose and hold it, and out through your mouth and do that three times. Three breaths are the darkest of moment. Will open up and bring clarity into your mind that you'll be able to cope with the situation a lot better. You know how good you feel after that? [00:44:00] Speaker B: I feel good. [00:44:01] Speaker A: It's incredible, isn't it? [00:44:02] Speaker B: It's actually changed my breath from my stomach and my chest. [00:44:06] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:44:06] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:44:07] Speaker A: It's amazing. [00:44:09] Speaker B: Like, you know, I felt like I was shallow breathing just for the rest of the day. [00:44:12] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:44:12] Speaker B: It's been a bit of a stressful day, but it's actually taken that out of my chest. [00:44:16] Speaker A: Yeah. Because when you shallow breathe, you actually do create a lot of pressure and then your body doesn't function properly. [00:44:22] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:44:22] Speaker A: You know, three nasty breaths, just free. And what did it took? Not even a minute, right? [00:44:28] Speaker B: No, no, that was perfect. [00:44:30] Speaker A: So it's not a long loss of time or whatever. If you have to go and talk to someone and you've got an anxiety and you've got something, just find somewhere quiet and peaceful where you can take three breaths and let it go through and find a way to clear your mind and that will give you strength. And then you can do A fourth breath. But the fourth prayer you can actually ask to breathe in the strength and the clarity and truth. And when you breathe out, you're letting go of all the unwanted energy. So you do the three breaths to calm you, to clear your head and that. But then you can do an extra breath with a request, if you like. Okay. And you'll be amazed. You will be amazed how that simple, so simple can help you. Another thing that will help you is if you get up in the morning. When you wake up in the morning, don't just wake up and reach out for your phone and start going through Facebook. But no, no, no, no. Before you do anything at all, just sit on bed and do a few breaths and take a moment to be grateful for what you do have in your life, whatever you have, you know, Be grateful for being alive. [00:45:45] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:45:45] Speaker A: Be grateful for waking up next to the person you love next to you. Be grateful for having running water in your house. Be grateful just to be new. Be grateful for having a beautiful night's sleep, just to spend a few minutes being grateful and being aware. And know that you are the creator of your own reality. You are the creator of your reality. And empower yourself before you leave the bedroom, before you face the world. So start the day with you, connect with you. You know, just try it for a while. You'll be surprised how that will help you and how that will empower you and that he will guide you and direct you in so many levels. You know, I mean, mental issues. The mental health is just so big for everyone right now. But even little children. Little children have anxiety. [00:46:49] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:46:49] Speaker A: And it's so sad. So do the breathing exercises when you put your child to bed and then read them a bedtime story. But relax them first. Let them breathe out the day and just get them to breathe and relax. Okay, now read your bedtime story. But then again, how many parents read a child a bedtime story now? [00:47:08] Speaker B: No, they don't. I mean, I love reading. [00:47:10] Speaker A: I mean, I did. I've always actually. I tell a lie. I never read my kids a bedtime story, but I did tell them a story. [00:47:18] Speaker B: Okay. Yeah. [00:47:20] Speaker A: You know, and I used to make him part of the story. [00:47:22] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay. [00:47:23] Speaker A: You know, like if a shot was a little boy named Sean who used to love. [00:47:28] Speaker B: Actually printed them out and put their photos in it. [00:47:31] Speaker A: Oh, really? Yeah. Oh, no, I just used to verbalize. [00:47:34] Speaker B: Verbalize. Yeah. I did it. And then it gave me the idea, I'm going to put their photos in these stories that I'm making up. [00:47:39] Speaker A: Wow. [00:47:39] Speaker B: Yeah. [00:47:40] Speaker A: What a great idea. [00:47:42] Speaker B: Oh, that was 20 something years ago. [00:47:45] Speaker A: Yeah, well, I'm talking. My kids are 40s, so. They're in the 40s. That's my phone. Someone's ringing. Yeah, well, I'm gonna answer it. Right. [00:47:53] Speaker B: Okay, put them on speaker. [00:47:54] Speaker A: Yeah. Hi, Mara. Oh, no, I rang it back. She hang up. Oh, oh, then I hang up with her. [00:48:04] Speaker B: Should we ring it back on? [00:48:05] Speaker A: Let's get. [00:48:05] Speaker B: Let's get some live. [00:48:06] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:48:07] Speaker B: Listener. Let's get it. Let's get it. Interesting. Let's go. [00:48:17] Speaker A: Hi, Mara. [00:48:19] Speaker B: Hi. [00:48:19] Speaker A: Sorry, I'm not too sure. Sorry. How you going? Before you say anything, say hello to Jen. [00:48:26] Speaker B: Hi, Mara. [00:48:28] Speaker A: Hello. How you going? We're on radio. [00:48:31] Speaker B: You're live on radio. [00:48:32] Speaker A: Are you kidding me? No, I'm serious. You're live on radio every Thursday night. Jen. Jen and I. Oh, me. Whenever I can make it. Jen and I, we do a beautiful radio show which is all the things and we talk about everything and anything. [00:48:50] Speaker B: Yeah, I think we need to call more people randomly. This is awesome. [00:48:53] Speaker A: Yeah, thanks, Mara. [00:48:55] Speaker B: How's Mara's day been? [00:48:57] Speaker A: Pardon? [00:48:57] Speaker B: How's Mara's day been? [00:48:59] Speaker A: Did you hear that, Mara? [00:49:00] Speaker B: How's your day been, Mara? [00:49:02] Speaker A: Oh, look, the day has been really good. Work's been great and. Yeah, no, everything's been really good. How about yourselves? [00:49:12] Speaker B: Yeah, I've had a productive day, but yeah, I love. I love hearing that. You know, everyone's day's been wonderful, so that's good to hear. Have you got anything inspirational that you'd like to share that people should hear? Some affirmation or anything? [00:49:33] Speaker A: Well, what I could suggest is that take more videos of your loved ones and never leave someone without giving them a hug. [00:49:45] Speaker B: Okay, I love that. [00:49:46] Speaker A: I agree with that. [00:49:47] Speaker B: That's beautiful. Yeah. Yeah. [00:49:49] Speaker A: Mara is a Reiki healer. [00:49:50] Speaker B: Oh, are you lovely? [00:49:53] Speaker A: Yes, I am. [00:49:54] Speaker B: I love it. Beautiful. [00:49:58] Speaker A: It's quite nice being able to help people in some sort of selfless service and then walk away knowing that you've been able to heal them in some way or provide a little bit of happiness. [00:50:09] Speaker B: Yeah. Make such a difference in their. In their life and their day. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Lovely. Thank you. [00:50:17] Speaker A: Okay, Mara, thanks for being a good sport. [00:50:20] Speaker B: Thanks, Mara. [00:50:21] Speaker A: You'll have to call me tomorrow so we can have a proper talk. [00:50:24] Speaker B: Yeah. Private one. [00:50:25] Speaker A: Okay. [00:50:26] Speaker B: All right, we'll do. Thank you. Thanks. [00:50:29] Speaker A: Bye. [00:50:29] Speaker B: Bye. [00:50:30] Speaker A: Bye. [00:50:31] Speaker B: That's what happens when you ring us during our show. From now on, we're gonna answer it. [00:50:36] Speaker A: They're gonna have to talk. [00:50:37] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, absolutely. We're gonna. We're gonna answer it live on air. So if you're gonna ring my phone, be prepared. Oh, no, let's watch. My phone will just start ringing. [00:50:45] Speaker A: No, yeah, so. So it's actually kind of good. So, I mean, I lost the train of thought after that. [00:50:53] Speaker B: Yeah, well, that was a good. [00:50:56] Speaker A: So let's just put a song on for now, right? [00:50:57] Speaker B: Song on. Yep, yep. [00:50:58] Speaker A: Yeah. Okay. [00:50:59] Speaker B: That was great. [00:51:00] Speaker A: Actually, the best music from the 60s to today. IPL radio. We're back again. And that was Fleetwood Mac with dreams. You know, it's really good. Dreams are very, very important. And we all have dreams. Have you had a dream that has been repeating itself? Dreams always have messages. Always. Sometimes about you, sometimes about loved ones and. But sometimes you might have a dream that there's a loved one that's in it. Right? But that doesn't mean that the dream is about them. In particular, in dreams, sometimes the spirits will make sure that they put someone in the dream that you will connect to, that you will recognize. So then you will pay closer attention to that dream. Right? And that's very, very important. Like, what can I say? Okay. Once I had a dream, and it was one of my children, and it kept on being run over by a bike, right? But I recognized the bike, that it wasn't a bike that he would ride or anything like that. So I played very close attention to it, and I said, okay, what is that dream about? It's not about him being run over by the bike, and it's not really about him as such. So there's a couple of other things that I can't go into in the dream itself. But what it come down to is that this person was being quite reckless and what he was doing in his life, he was going to end up hurting someone else. And he needed to pay attention to that. He needed to reassess his life a little bit and understand that if he continues the way that he's going, he's only going to cause trouble for other people, not just himself. Okay. And that's very, very important to know that. That sometimes dreams, even though it has someone that you know, it may not be exactly about that person, but sometimes it is about that person. You just got to look at the whole dream, and you've got to really understand what it's all about. And then you'll be able to. To look into it and translate it accordingly. But it's not always about the person in the dream. Remember that sometimes it's just. They use that person. So that way you can pay attention to, to the dream and then you can later click to it and what it is, and then you go and talk to the person appropriately. And that's, that's what I did with that particular bike dream. Even though they used my son in the dream, but it wasn't about him, it was about someone else. And then. And a smell came as well. And I was able to relate it through that connection. I had to go and tell the person. I said, look, you know, you got to be careful what you're doing, because what you're doing, you're going to end up hurting someone else. So be careful. You know, like sometimes people drink and drive, sometimes people lose their cool and they don't realize how strong they are. How many times does it happen that people are really, really strong and they don't realize they're strong and they hold someone down and they actually break an arm or something like that and then they feel really bad, but they don't know their own strength. And that happens a lot, you know. So just be aware of that. Listen to your dreams, because they do, they do tell your story. So. And here's another song by an artist that I don't know, but the song itself is called I have a Dream. I mean, I know this song, I have a Dream by abba, but I've never read of. I never heard of Richard Clayderman. So the best music from the 60s to today, IPL radio. We all should have a dream. We all should have a dream of what we want and what we desire, what we want to achieve in life, you know? You know, but we've got to listen to be able to fulfill our dreams or to. To get to where we're going. We've got to learn to be positive. We've got to learn to listen. We've got to learn to be connected to where we are within ourselves. Otherwise we're just not getting it. We're just not getting there. But we have the ability and we are all capable of living a better life in that space. Because it all starts with you. It all starts with a person with a personal space of within ourselves. And if we can actually do that and connect to that, it's actually so important to be able to do that. You know, every day, every day you get the chance to press restart and start again. Because every day is a new day. So if you have a bad day today, that's okay, I had a bad day. But tomorrow I am going to take with me what I love of that day and Let the rest go and start again and press the restart button. And today is the first day of the rest of my life. And then you gotta start it again, you know, and allow yourself to be part of that journey that you are creating for yourself first. And to be aware that you can enjoy it completely according to your own understanding, in your own space. Tomorrow is always a good day, and we gotta count on that. We gotta really be aware of where we want to be. And so we say, okay, today didn't work out, but tomorrow it'll be a new day. Tomorrow is the day that we're going to hold our head up high and really do what we need to do. So I guess this is life. The best music from the 60s to today. IPL radio. Wow. Our guest is this Life by Jordana. That's a quite a good song. I've never heard it before, to be honest with you. So I've only just heard it for the first time then, and I quite enjoyed it. It's a song that I plan to listen a few times to actually listen to the lyrics a little bit more. I really believe that songs are written to deliver a message the majority of the time. So we need to. We need to listen to the songs, but also listen to the. To the words of the song and have an understanding of where we are with that. So there's. Every song in the Times is such a healing, powerful thing. I don't know how many of you actually have Facebook. Probably half of you. The majority of years. I was watching. I was going through my Facebook page the other day, and I came across a little video that was put up there by a guy that he was singing in the zoo. And he went and started singing next to an elephant near the elephant area. And the elephant came across right up to the fence and actually put the trunk as far as it could because he wanted to get close to that guy and just stood there and listened. And then they showed him that he went and sang to the tigers. And the tigers came right up to the fence as close as he could and just lay down and went to sleep. Then he went across to the monkeys on the orangutans, actually. And the next thing, all the monkeys, all the orangutans, they're all caught into the one section and they were all cuddling each other, listening to that guy sing. It was incredible. It doesn't matter which animal he went and sat next to. And he was singing like a different song for each animal that he felt it was sort of connected to the animal. And it was incredible how the animal reacted. And they just came and just sat there very peacefully and just listen, you know, just sort of shows you the power of music. That's why, you know, I used to tell my kids, if you're sad, if you're angry, put some music on and play it loud. That's healing. That will help you, that will help you feel better, it will help you clear your mind, it will help you realize that you are special and it's okay. And it's okay not to be okay sometime, but it's not okay to get stuck there. So acknowledge that you're not okay and say, okay, I'm going to do something about it now. I'm going to listen to some music or I'm going to go and have a shower or I'm going to go for a walk or I'm going to write a letter, whatever. But find something that will get you out of that. Not okay, please. Oh, I'm going to call someone, have a chat with a friend. Sometimes it's all we need. Just have a coffee with someone, have a bit of a chat in, a bit of a catch up, you know. And it's amazing how it changes your whole mood for the day. We have the power to change every mood. It doesn't matter what the mood is, we can change it. We don't have to be in a bad space for long. We've got to try and really teach ourselves to turn life around and to look for the positive in life. To be able to bring a change and restruct lives into a better, into a better perspective. Because we're all special, we're all important, we're all unique and honoring ourselves. It's really, that's what it's all about today. It's about self honoring and saying no to bulliness and saying no to people taking advantage of you and saying no or being taken for granted because people are doing it to us but we are allowing it to happen. If we don't take a stand and take a step back. So take a step back and say okay, who am I? What am I? What do I want to do? And then you can step forward. Hey. And once you can do that, it's just incredible what you can do. So. And Jen's back. [01:01:47] Speaker B: Yeah, I'm back. Yeah, yeah. [01:01:49] Speaker A: Which is good. Yes. So you know, so it's really good. We're just talking about how important, how you can change your life quite easily and you can listen to a song and it'll change your mood, change Your mood, you know. So think of it. What song do you love? What is it that you love? You know, like, I love a lot of Latin music. So if I'm under a lot of stress and that'll put Latin music on a dance around. Yeah. So even when I vacuum, I'm dancing. [01:02:11] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:02:11] Speaker A: So the vacuum cleanse my dancing partner. So that's what you do, you know, you just sort of get with it and just. Just do it, you know? Or if I got a drum, I just bang the drum, you know, just like get some rhythm going. Sound healing, whether it's vocal sound healing or instrument sound healing, it doesn't matter. It's very powerful. [01:02:31] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:02:31] Speaker A: In every aspect of it. Now, this weekend in Williams, there's the Evolve Festival. [01:02:38] Speaker B: Oh, is there? [01:02:39] Speaker A: That's where I'm going to be, Williams. That's why I can't do it Saturday. I can only do Sunday. Yeah, it's the Evolve. It's the ladies. It's a females festival. [01:02:47] Speaker B: Right. [01:02:48] Speaker A: And it's called Evolve. Oh. [01:02:50] Speaker B: Yep. [01:02:50] Speaker A: And they have everything for ladies to it for self empowerment. [01:02:53] Speaker B: Oh, I love that. [01:02:54] Speaker A: There's a lot of healing this. There'll be. I'll be doing readings and I'll be doing. We'll be doing sound healing as well. And there's a lot of reflexology and, And Reiki and Pranic and. And whatever. Anybody that's got a modality, they want to share, they can go set up things. Share and. [01:03:11] Speaker B: Oh, I love. [01:03:12] Speaker A: Give love, you know, give love to everybody and help them and work with them. And that's what it's all about, you know, and it's to empower women, to help women find their place in their own life and be happy about where they are. [01:03:26] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:03:26] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:03:27] Speaker B: Where's Williams? I've driven through there, so I can't picture where it is, but I know I've seen. [01:03:30] Speaker A: Well, you got up Albany Highway. [01:03:32] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. [01:03:32] Speaker A: And that'll take you to Williams. [01:03:34] Speaker B: Okay. [01:03:34] Speaker A: It's 125 kilometers exactly. You don't have to turn off or any. Just go there. [01:03:40] Speaker B: Just keep going. [01:03:40] Speaker A: The Armadale. Armadale Road changes to Albany Highway. [01:03:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:03:44] Speaker A: Right. [01:03:44] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:03:44] Speaker A: So you just follow it. It. Just follow it. [01:03:47] Speaker B: Okay. [01:03:47] Speaker A: In 125 kilometers, there's Williams. No. [01:03:50] Speaker B: Okay. [01:03:51] Speaker A: Yeah. It's a quaint little town, really. It's actually quite interesting. My very first job was there in Williams at the BP Roadhouse. [01:04:00] Speaker B: Oh, really? I worked at BP too. Not at that one, but yes. Yeah. [01:04:03] Speaker A: Flipping burgers. [01:04:04] Speaker B: Oh, really? [01:04:05] Speaker A: I was a cook. Yeah. [01:04:06] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [01:04:06] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, it was Mrs. Ms. Crocer, she was Crouch, I tell you, but Crochet was her name. She's an amazing lady. A good boss, but hard. A hard good boss. [01:04:16] Speaker B: She has that stern kind of name, too. Yeah, yeah. [01:04:20] Speaker A: So what did you do at bp? [01:04:22] Speaker B: I was a console operator. [01:04:24] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. [01:04:24] Speaker B: So, yeah, I used to, you know, play with knobs. Yeah, played with knobs, yeah. [01:04:29] Speaker A: That's good. [01:04:30] Speaker B: Not with the customers, but just. Oh, sorry. Actually, we used to do. [01:04:36] Speaker A: We? [01:04:37] Speaker B: Me and. When I worked in the Belden one. So I used to work in Osbourn Park. BP and Belden and a few different ones. Different petrol stations, too. But when I did the Belden one, I had one of my co workers. If we lost a bet, we'd have to answer or we'd have to serve customers for an hour with a drag queen voice. [01:04:59] Speaker A: All right. [01:05:00] Speaker B: Yeah. And a name. And my name was Cotton Balls. So it's like, hi, my name's Cotton. Last name. [01:05:07] Speaker A: That's incredible. [01:05:09] Speaker B: Just to keep it fun. Anyway. [01:05:10] Speaker A: Yeah, you do. [01:05:11] Speaker B: I can't believe I just shared that. Oh, you get all the truths out of me. [01:05:14] Speaker A: But that's okay. That's okay. It's all good. Stolen fun. Stolen tissue. And it's all. It's all in. Good. [01:05:20] Speaker B: So, yeah, no, it was actually interesting, but the. The uniforms there were, like, stewardesses. We used to have the little blazer and the shirt and then the little scarf with the little BP thing. Yeah, it was really cool. Yeah, that was. [01:05:32] Speaker A: Yeah. When I worked for the Shell, I was very fortunate because I ended up working for Shell roadhouses and they used to send me to different roadhouses. Yeah. You know, and we had a uniform which was. It used to be a yellow. A yellow tunic. [01:05:48] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. [01:05:49] Speaker A: You know, with a little bow, a little red bow there. And it had the shell thing on there. [01:05:53] Speaker B: Yeah, that sounds like in the pocket. [01:05:55] Speaker A: You know, it's like, oh, yes, we feel good. Actually. I used to love the. I'm a uniform person. Yes. I like uniforms because when I dress to work, I like to dress to work. You know, even whenever I had my own healing set, I designed my own uniform. So I would wear it to work every day, which was white, of course. [01:06:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:06:12] Speaker A: But it was good. It's good to have clothes. He said, this is my work clothes. And what happens. Like, in my case, people knew when I was working, when I wasn't working. [01:06:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:06:22] Speaker A: You know, if I was dressed in white. Oh, she's working. We can pick her brains now. But if, you know, you get chunk nuts. I leave her alone, you know, so. [01:06:29] Speaker B: Yeah, kind of. [01:06:30] Speaker A: Good. Yeah. [01:06:31] Speaker B: I had the yellow tunic when I worked at Barlow Nolamara and we had a red apron. Everything was red and yellow. [01:06:38] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:06:38] Speaker B: But, yeah, back in the day. That was 30 years ago. [01:06:42] Speaker A: Wow. Now, now we. We're really connecting to that. [01:06:45] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:06:46] Speaker A: So it's really good. [01:06:47] Speaker B: Yeah. No, I do like to wear uniforms. I think it. It makes you belong there more. It makes you. Yeah. [01:06:53] Speaker A: Jen, I would like to congratulate you. You know, you've really got this place. Amazing. Oh, you know, they're very lucky to have you. [01:07:01] Speaker B: Oh, okay. Thank you. Thank you. [01:07:03] Speaker A: And I truly apologize that I've left the show to you for. For the last few weeks on your own. You poor girl. [01:07:08] Speaker B: No, that's all right. [01:07:10] Speaker A: And you've got enough to do and, you know, this, that as well. But it's really good. So what's your next big venture in your own spiritual world? Well, how are we going to get you out working in that spiritual area where you so badly belong? [01:07:24] Speaker B: What next big venture? I'm looking at doing events and things like that. So beautiful. Yeah, yeah. [01:07:30] Speaker A: Can I put my name down? [01:07:31] Speaker B: Absolutely, absolutely. You're down. Anyway, I'm putting it in permanent marker. You have to be there. Yeah, yeah. So we're looking at different events. I'm looking at having you come into the shop as well. [01:07:41] Speaker A: Yes, yes, I'm willing to do that. [01:07:43] Speaker B: Yeah. Yep. [01:07:44] Speaker A: So I agree with that. 100. [01:07:45] Speaker B: Yeah. It'd be great to have you doing some readings. [01:07:47] Speaker A: You know what I would like us to do, Jen? Really? I really would like us to see if there's any restaurants out there or anything like that. They would like to have a mystical evening with Jen in Selva. Call us. [01:07:59] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. [01:08:00] Speaker A: We'd be happy to come and do another presentation for you to show you what we actually do in the spiritual side of it. I know I could do a lot of healing demonstrations and I'm sure Jen can do a lot of demonstrations herself. And it'd be so powerful for people to understand where we come from a lot. I mean, we love doing the radio stuff. We do. I love it. This isn't. This is so much fun. [01:08:22] Speaker B: It is fun, you know, especially with you. [01:08:25] Speaker A: But we also do want to help people. We do want to help people. [01:08:28] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:08:28] Speaker A: We want. We want you to know that we're here to help you. We're here to improve your well being. We're here to empower you in whichever way that we can, you know, whether it's A reading or a healing or just a hug. [01:08:42] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. You know, absolutely. Yeah. [01:08:45] Speaker A: You know, and we'd love to. We'll love to do a mystical evening with a celery and Jen. [01:08:51] Speaker B: Yep. [01:08:51] Speaker A: You know, just call us and we be. We'll be there. Yeah, but we'll be there. Oh, you know. You know, we'll. We'll see what we can do. If we can do the show remote, you know, maybe rest of my life to come and do us, and we can set up in there and you can have a night of sovereign Gen there. You know, we. We're open for ideas and to actually take. [01:09:12] Speaker B: Oh, I like what you take our. [01:09:13] Speaker A: Show wherever you may want us. Yeah, that'd be cool. You know, just imagine to be there, you know, when we can get a camera. We put it in YouTube. [01:09:21] Speaker B: Yes. Yeah. Well, everything is going up on YouTube now, so. [01:09:24] Speaker A: Yeah. All the things I don't understand today. It really does my head in. [01:09:29] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah, I know it's. It's complex, but that's why we have all the people behind the scenes here. [01:09:34] Speaker A: That's right. My grandkids know how to do it. [01:09:37] Speaker B: Yeah. Well, there's an all the Things channel on YouTube now, so they're starting to show. Yeah. So. [01:09:43] Speaker A: Awesome. Awesome. Yeah, we'll have to. We'll have to. Yeah, we'll have to do more. Okay. It's fantastic. [01:09:47] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:09:48] Speaker A: So, you know, there's so much that we. We're willing to do. You know, we, me and Jen, sometimes we have this brainstorm. We talk about so many things, but then. Okay, how do we do it now? [01:09:57] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [01:09:59] Speaker A: So we need your help. We need your help. We need you to sign up to our Facebook page and sign up to our YouTube page. Sign up to everything where you see us, you know, and we'll try and help you and deliver whatever we can deliver. [01:10:13] Speaker B: Absolutely. [01:10:13] Speaker A: But it's all about empowerment and finding people and connecting yourself and allowing you to understand that you are living a life, that you can create whatever you want in it. But you've got to learn to get to know you. You've got to learn to go deep, deep within and not be scared of meeting you. Because once you meet you, the sky's the limit. You'll have the complete empowerment. And that is so wonderful. [01:10:38] Speaker B: It is. [01:10:39] Speaker A: It is really, really wonderful. You know, and it doesn't mean that I don't need help, to be honest, sometimes I need help myself, and I actually do. I do meditate a lot myself and I do work on myself daily. So it's not something you just do and move on. No, it's something you've got to take it like a way of life. It's got to come like a part of life that you learn how to really like. Getting dressed in the morning well before instead of just getting dressed. When you wake up in the morning, you just have gratitude and you give thanks and you connect to all that there is and know that you are the only person in the world like it. There's no one like you in the world and that's. [01:11:14] Speaker B: That's what you have over everyone else, is that there is no you. [01:11:17] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:11:18] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:11:18] Speaker A: Yeah, exactly. [01:11:19] Speaker B: That's why you should own it and live it. [01:11:21] Speaker A: Yeah. Yeah. 100%. You know, in every day, it only comes once. [01:11:26] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:11:27] Speaker A: You know, that's it. [01:11:28] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:11:28] Speaker A: Every day you can press restart and say, okay, I'll restart again, you know, but learn from each time you've got a restart. [01:11:37] Speaker B: And if today you didn't get to the things you wanted to get to, then you've always got tomorrow. [01:11:42] Speaker A: That's right. [01:11:43] Speaker B: But just be grateful that you got through the day. [01:11:45] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:11:45] Speaker B: And then start again tomorrow. What is your morning routine, Silva? What do you do? You get up and you do. [01:11:51] Speaker A: Actually, I get up in the morning. [01:11:52] Speaker B: Yep. [01:11:53] Speaker A: Okay. I wake. No, I wake up. I don't need. Before I leave my bed. [01:11:57] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:11:57] Speaker A: Right. So I wake up and I sit up. I sit up like this. [01:12:02] Speaker B: Just like that. [01:12:02] Speaker A: It's just like this. I do give my hands up like this. Good posture there and a breathe in. Because you've got to be straight. You've got to have your. Your lining straight. You've got to have your back straight. What happens when you sit up like this? Your. Your spirit knows you're serious. You're being serious. [01:12:15] Speaker B: Yeah. You know, bringing attention. Yeah. [01:12:17] Speaker A: It's like. Yes, you're centering. Yeah. [01:12:19] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:12:20] Speaker A: And that's. And actually I take a nasty piss really slow and I hold it. I breathe out. I do that three times. [01:12:28] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:12:29] Speaker A: And then after I do those three breath actually give thanks for all that I am. And I give thanks for the body that I have, for the family that I have. I give thanks for the. All the opportunities that are presented. I tell myself I am abundant. I am abundant and I'm comfortable. I'm in a good financial space and spiritually I'm able to travel and deliver whatever I want to deliver. I talk about all the things that, that I'm doing. [01:12:58] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:12:58] Speaker A: I actually have a conversation with me first thing in the morning about everything that I'm doing everything that I love, everything that I, I want to have in my life, everything that is there. But I always talk to them as they. They are here, present. [01:13:11] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:13:12] Speaker A: So then I start breathing nice and deep and then I have a drink of water. And as I drink that water, I actually ask myself for that water to flush whatever negativity, whatever's in me to flush it out. So when I go for a wee. [01:13:28] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:13:28] Speaker A: I'm flushing it all out. [01:13:29] Speaker B: Yeah, that's good, right? Yeah, yeah. [01:13:32] Speaker A: So I just have that water, always have a glass of water. And they take another couple of breaths and I get up and go and put the, you know, put the music on. I'd never ever put the news on in the morning, ever. [01:13:45] Speaker B: I don't watch the news and if. [01:13:46] Speaker A: I turn the radio and the new song, I'll turn it off and put music on. Yeah, I just put music. Yeah, I just put music for a while. I don't like to listen to news or read the newspaper or anything like that. I like to start the day on a real positive, positive note. [01:14:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:14:04] Speaker A: And then I go to the pool. [01:14:05] Speaker B: Yes. [01:14:06] Speaker A: I go to a swimming pool. [01:14:07] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:14:07] Speaker A: And I walk. And I walk. Yeah. Six o' clock now, cuz it's summer and next week it'll be 5:30. Oh really? As the, as it gets, the day starts earlier. I go earlier. [01:14:17] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [01:14:18] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. So me and Bronnie and I'm starting the gym. [01:14:22] Speaker B: Shout out to Bronnie if you're listening. [01:14:24] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm starting the gym. [01:14:25] Speaker B: Yep. [01:14:26] Speaker A: So. But only for walking. [01:14:28] Speaker B: Okay. [01:14:28] Speaker A: You know, I'm not going to do weights or anything like that. [01:14:30] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:14:31] Speaker A: I got really bad knees. [01:14:33] Speaker B: Okay. [01:14:33] Speaker A: I know. I used to have bad knees. I don't have bad things anymore. I've been working on them. [01:14:37] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:14:38] Speaker A: And I said to, I said to my doctor, I'm going to work on my knees. I'm going to meditate. Gonna work on them. [01:14:44] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:14:45] Speaker A: In Touchwood. They are great. [01:14:47] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:14:47] Speaker A: I haven't had any knee problems for about four or five weeks now. But I do get reflexology done. [01:14:54] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [01:14:54] Speaker A: Bronwyn does my reflexology treatment one day a week. [01:14:57] Speaker B: Yep. [01:14:58] Speaker A: Then. Which gets a circulation going through your body and it's amazing. Broman is an amazing reflexologist because she does Reiki and reflexology combined. [01:15:06] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:15:07] Speaker A: At the same time. And she is amazing. And then she's got a crystal bed. Then you lay on the crystal bed. [01:15:12] Speaker B: Oh yes. This is the lady I wanted to. [01:15:14] Speaker A: Yeah. So once a week I just have a treatment with her, you know, and she's not expensive either. [01:15:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:15:21] Speaker A: You know, which I was really, really happy about that. And I just do that. And then I just sit in her beautiful balcony. She's got the most beautiful serene house. [01:15:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:15:34] Speaker A: Her house is just a sanctuary. [01:15:37] Speaker B: Yep. [01:15:38] Speaker A: You know, she's got this balcony area and obviously it's just a bush. You just sit there. She'll make you a nice cup of tea. [01:15:46] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:15:46] Speaker A: He says just enjoy your cuppa. Relax for as long as you need to. [01:15:50] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [01:15:51] Speaker A: She doesn't rush you out. [01:15:52] Speaker B: It's lovely. [01:15:53] Speaker A: She is amazing. She's really, really amazing. But she's very shy. [01:15:57] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [01:15:58] Speaker A: Very reserve. [01:15:59] Speaker B: So the opposite of you. [01:16:00] Speaker A: And she's a cracker. [01:16:01] Speaker B: Oh. [01:16:03] Speaker A: My best buddy. [01:16:04] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [01:16:05] Speaker A: You know, so. Yeah. She is amazing. So that's, that's my day every day. [01:16:10] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:16:10] Speaker A: And at the end of the day, like tonight, like I'll go home tonight and I'll have the glass of water again to flush out whatever impurity I might pick up today. [01:16:20] Speaker B: Yeah. I think you drink with that intention. [01:16:22] Speaker A: You'll. It does. Yeah. You've got to drink with that intention. Yeah. And then I. I love that I do another meditation before I go to bed. I just go. Meditation. It's a gratitude meditation. [01:16:34] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:16:34] Speaker A: To give thanks for everything. And also I, I say what my plans are in that space. Like, like my Beijing project now is like. I'll. Yeah. I will talk about that tonight. [01:16:45] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:16:46] Speaker A: On my meditation. What? How I want it to go, how I want it to be. You know, Try and visualize it in that. And I just go to sleep. [01:16:54] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:16:55] Speaker A: You know, and. And get up and start all over again. [01:16:59] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:16:59] Speaker A: You know, and. But I don't do it exactly the same every day because it's no good to do things exactly the same every day. You don't want to build a routine. You wanna, you wanna build a self honoring time. [01:17:14] Speaker B: Yeah. I like that. You know, you take the pressure off, but you still hold yourself accountable. [01:17:18] Speaker A: Yeah. But just do something a little bit different because that way you can change the, the. The brain cells that can move into the right direction because you're doing different things. [01:17:27] Speaker B: Since you've been saying this. I'm actually sitting up. [01:17:31] Speaker A: It is so important. But to sit up straight, it's actually so important. You know, so whenever I'm meditating or working, I always try and get my back straight because then I know my body knows I'm serious. You know, this is my serious look. [01:17:42] Speaker B: Yeah. I love how serious. [01:17:44] Speaker A: You don't look so you can tell. [01:17:49] Speaker B: By your posture you're being serious. [01:17:51] Speaker A: So. Yeah, the posture, serious. Yeah, that's about it. So, yes, I just like to sort of connect and deliver as much. But self honoring is really be something that I always have done. One of the biggest thing I. I used to do that. I only started doing it when I was a lot, lot younger. It's because I was so lonely and I wanted to be happy because I. I've always had problems making friends. [01:18:15] Speaker B: Really? [01:18:16] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:18:17] Speaker B: You don't seem like that person, you know, it's like. [01:18:19] Speaker A: Because the minute people found out. Not nowadays so much. [01:18:22] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:18:23] Speaker A: But when I was. When I was 17, 18, whatever. I mean, like in my mid-60s now. But when I was younger, spirituality wasn't as common as what it is today. [01:18:35] Speaker B: No. [01:18:36] Speaker A: So young people like yourself and all that, I mean, you're lucky you're at the stage that spiritual is accepted a lot more. [01:18:44] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [01:18:44] Speaker A: And of course, anybody, as soon as they knew that I was like, they wouldn't talk to me. That was scared, you know, it's like they were scared. So the fear in that, you know, So I had a very lonely youth. [01:18:55] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:18:55] Speaker A: Very lonely life. And I think that even now I was saying to my daughter yesterday, I've got more friends now that I've ever had in my whole life. [01:19:02] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. I was actually the shy one at. [01:19:05] Speaker A: School, you know, in high school. [01:19:06] Speaker B: And I didn't make friends very easily, and I would only speak to people that knew me. But I was always different and it wasn't spoken about then, you know, and. Yeah. I just felt different to everyone else. And now I don't really care that I'm different. [01:19:20] Speaker A: Yeah. Because now you celebrate it. [01:19:22] Speaker B: Yes. And it's those differences that make you unique. [01:19:25] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:19:26] Speaker B: You know, and we get to help people. [01:19:28] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:19:28] Speaker B: Yeah. I love it. [01:19:29] Speaker A: It does. Yeah. So important. So tomorrow, so it's a beautiful day, so I'm gonna put the song. [01:19:36] Speaker B: What do we got? Beautiful day. [01:19:37] Speaker A: No, tomorrow. The best music from the 60s. IPL radio. So here we go again. What a Wonderful world. That would be with Sam Cooke. That is just wonderful. And I forgot to write the Annie song and stuff like that in here, so I need to do that while Jin talks. [01:20:00] Speaker B: Oh, me talking? [01:20:01] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:20:02] Speaker B: Yeah. All right. What am I going to talk about? Well, I usually just feed off you on a Thursday. So you're telling us about your event on. On Sunday. [01:20:11] Speaker A: Yep. [01:20:12] Speaker B: What about the events coming up in the year? What else have you got in a year? In the end, like. Well, it's All October. So what else have you got planned? [01:20:20] Speaker A: What. [01:20:20] Speaker B: What's happening in November with you? You've always got something on and it's always interesting, and that's why I know. [01:20:26] Speaker A: I can't talk about it. [01:20:27] Speaker B: Oh, you can't? Okay. Yep, yep, yep. [01:20:29] Speaker A: I'm going to Beijing. That's all I can tell you. [01:20:32] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, no, I didn't mean that one. But yeah. So you've got the Beijing one. [01:20:35] Speaker A: I got the Beijing one in, In. In November. [01:20:39] Speaker B: And do you do Christmas ones as well? Do you do, like, things around Christmas or before Christmas? [01:20:47] Speaker A: Oh, yeah. I don't stop working during Christmas or anything. So, yeah, I don't have Christmas break. [01:20:53] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [01:20:54] Speaker A: I mean, I. I just. But the. The Beijing ones, I'm. I am excited about it. And she said, I can't talk about it until I know what's going on. [01:21:04] Speaker B: I know that sounds like. Sounds very elusive. [01:21:07] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:21:09] Speaker B: That'S a new. [01:21:10] Speaker A: So I'm gonna leave you alone again. [01:21:12] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:21:13] Speaker A: On the 23rd. [01:21:14] Speaker B: No, that's the only thing. [01:21:16] Speaker A: On the 23rd of November. [01:21:18] Speaker B: Yep. [01:21:18] Speaker A: And I'll be back on the 27th. [01:21:21] Speaker B: Have you ever been to Beijing before? [01:21:24] Speaker A: No, No, I know nothing, nothing about Beijing. And I rang up my son who used to be a travel agent. [01:21:33] Speaker B: Oh, wow. [01:21:35] Speaker A: And. And he said. I said to him, hey, Charles, I'm going to Beijing. He said, oh, mama. Because he calls me Mama. Oh, mama is. It's huge. [01:21:47] Speaker B: Really. [01:21:48] Speaker A: The whole of Australia fits in Beijing. [01:21:50] Speaker B: Oh, really? [01:21:51] Speaker A: The population of Australia. [01:21:52] Speaker B: Oh, wow. [01:21:53] Speaker A: Yeah, the whole population of Australia fits in Beijing. Oh, wow. He says, mom, you're going to be so overwhelmed with people. [01:22:00] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:22:01] Speaker A: It was just like when you said when you went to Sao Paulo. The same thing. I mean, Sao Paulo's got 42 million people. [01:22:08] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:22:09] Speaker A: In the city of Sao Paulo. Just Sao Paulo. [01:22:11] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [01:22:12] Speaker A: You know, 42. [01:22:14] Speaker B: How many people have we got in Australia? I don't even know. [01:22:17] Speaker A: In Australia we've got 26 million. Also this. [01:22:20] Speaker B: That's insane. [01:22:22] Speaker A: So it's Apollo. You know, you stand. [01:22:25] Speaker B: You stand. [01:22:26] Speaker A: Yeah, we. You send street. Doesn't matter what time of the day it is. One o' clock in the morning, one o' clock in the afternoon, whatever. There's people everywhere. There's people everywhere, you know? And it's just so incredible to watch the masses, you know? And then you go to Rio de Janeiro, right. Which the population is 56 million people song about that. [01:22:51] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:22:51] Speaker A: And in this. It's just incredible. The. The poverty and the sadness. Rio de Janeiro is really heartbreaking. For me. And you go down to where the statue of Jesus is. [01:23:08] Speaker B: Oh, that big one? [01:23:09] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. [01:23:10] Speaker B: Right. [01:23:10] Speaker A: There's a sort of like a cliff next to. And you can see a lot of black plastic. And you underneath a black plastic. That's where people sleep. [01:23:18] Speaker B: Oh, really? [01:23:19] Speaker A: The plastic is there to protect them, really. You know, and the, the local authorities there to. They need to make money out of the tourists and stuff. That said they're very cruel to the homeless people. And in the morning about 4th and I saw this my own eyes. It broke my heart. About 4 o' clock in the morning to go around, start waking people up to get them to move on. If they don't, they get like a fire hose and just host them out. And they've got to go. [01:23:45] Speaker B: That's terrible. Yeah. [01:23:47] Speaker A: Right. You know? [01:23:48] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:23:48] Speaker A: And they've got to go because they've got to make them all disappear so. [01:23:51] Speaker B: People can take the perfect photo at the. [01:23:53] Speaker A: So people can think that through. Today is such a beautiful city, such a beautiful thing like that. But after dark is another story. [01:24:01] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [01:24:02] Speaker A: The. The problem, the homeless problem in there is just terrible. [01:24:07] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:07] Speaker A: And it's so sad. [01:24:08] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:09] Speaker A: You know, but they, they, they do tell you, never give a poor person money because some of them are not poor. They're just pretending to be. Really? Yeah. [01:24:20] Speaker B: Oh, wow. I don't know. [01:24:22] Speaker A: Some are really poor. [01:24:23] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:24] Speaker A: But some are pretending it's like a job. [01:24:25] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:26] Speaker A: They can make more money. [01:24:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:28] Speaker A: Being beggars. [01:24:29] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:30] Speaker A: So they say give them some food. [01:24:32] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:33] Speaker A: Give them a loaf of bread and butter in a chicken or something. [01:24:35] Speaker B: Yeah. Okay. [01:24:36] Speaker A: You know, instead of money itself because they don't, they don't need it. If you feel that you've got to give them something because they're such a good actors and you really can't tell from the one that are really poor and the one that are. That are. [01:24:46] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [01:24:47] Speaker A: You know. [01:24:48] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:24:48] Speaker A: So. And I couldn't help it. I mean, I spend a lot of money on food because I just can't help, especially little children and stuff like that. [01:24:54] Speaker B: Yeah. I did that when I was in Melbourne. There was lots of homes. [01:24:56] Speaker A: It's just sad, you know. I mean, we have that situation here in Australia. [01:25:01] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:25:01] Speaker A: You know, we had this, a young guy in Armadale. Right. And he was outside the Coles shopping center begging for food. I looked at him and I actually said to him, is there anything wrong with you? He goes, nut. Do you have a back problem? No. Your legs problem? No. You can carry things? Yeah. Can you Chop wood. [01:25:25] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:25:26] Speaker A: I said, so why are you sitting here begging? Because I've got. I haven't got a job and I've got nowhere to live. I said, but you're able to work. What? Why? Instead of begging, why don't you go down knocking on doors and asking, can I do your garden? [01:25:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:25:44] Speaker A: Can I do this? Can't. Why can't you just go instead of. [01:25:47] Speaker B: People do that at my house, actually. Even kids. [01:25:49] Speaker A: Yeah. I said, why don't you do that? He says, I do, but nobody will give me a job because, you know, they can see that I haven't. I tell you what. Come to my house tomorrow morning. [01:25:59] Speaker B: Yep. [01:26:00] Speaker A: My front yard needs doing badly. I can't do it, you know, because I've got other things to do in that and I need. I want the house to look happy again. [01:26:10] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:26:11] Speaker A: So come over and I'll cook you breakfast and I'll cook you lunch and I'll cook you dinner. [01:26:18] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:26:18] Speaker A: And I will give you 100 bucks. [01:26:20] Speaker B: Yeah. Did he show up? [01:26:21] Speaker A: No. He didn't. No. [01:26:23] Speaker B: Oh, that's sad. [01:26:25] Speaker A: Then two days later was back, of course. Just. What happened to you? I said, I didn't feel like working. [01:26:29] Speaker B: Oh, wow. [01:26:31] Speaker A: I said, you know what? I'm not even going to give you water anymore. [01:26:34] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:26:35] Speaker A: Because you had the opportunity. Yeah. [01:26:37] Speaker B: To be full. [01:26:38] Speaker A: To do something, and you chose. You telling me you didn't feel like working. [01:26:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:26:44] Speaker A: So there are people that are homeless because they haven't got no choice. [01:26:48] Speaker B: Yeah. But he had a choice. [01:26:50] Speaker A: You had a choice. [01:26:51] Speaker B: He was going to be fed and have some money. Yeah. [01:26:54] Speaker A: You know. And I said, what about your parents? What about them? I said, did they know we are not. I said, have you been in contact with them? He goes, no. Do you think they're worried looking for you? Maybe. [01:27:10] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:27:10] Speaker A: It's like he had this complete I don't care attitude. [01:27:15] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. He's disregarding everything. [01:27:17] Speaker A: Yeah. And I sort of say, why? Why? You do love that. I said, and the funny thing was that he wasn't even on drugs. [01:27:23] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. It wasn't. [01:27:25] Speaker A: No. He's trying to die. He actually, you know, you can tell with someone. But now he's actually a very healthy young man. Just. I said, I don't understand why you're doing this. Why do you. He says, I like people feeling sorry for me. I like people feeling sorry for me. [01:27:44] Speaker B: Really? That's crazy. [01:27:47] Speaker A: And I said, that's really sad. Why? What would take someone to reach that level? They prefer to be pitted on. [01:27:54] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:27:55] Speaker A: Than Priced on. [01:27:56] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. That is terrible. That is sad. [01:28:00] Speaker A: It is sad. [01:28:01] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [01:28:02] Speaker A: Anyway, you're supposed to be talking. [01:28:03] Speaker B: Okay, so. Yeah. So what was I doing today? I'll tell you what I was doing today. [01:28:07] Speaker A: Good. [01:28:08] Speaker B: So I was setting up. So I've moved my bar area out of my house and I've moved it to the patio. So I've set up a bar area and a fridge. And today I was Kylie. And I shout out to Kylie from breath them. She was helping me set up my infrared sauna and three ice baths in this little. Yeah, in this little area on. Yep. So I can start offering those as part of people's sessions. [01:28:38] Speaker A: I like that. [01:28:38] Speaker B: I know, I know. And it looks so amazing. And then so I've been doing that. Yeah. We put down this little, you know those foam tiles that you get that click together. We found one that looks like wood and so we put that down and we've put the ice baths on there and then the set up the infrared sauna. And I'm so excited to be able to be offering this to people as part of a collaborative session. But also I'm excited to be using it every day as well. [01:29:08] Speaker A: What are the benefits of the red sauna? Would you say infrared? [01:29:12] Speaker B: Yes, infrared sauna. [01:29:13] Speaker A: Tell me what is an infrared sauna? Tell me all about it. What's the benefit? [01:29:17] Speaker B: Have you had a. You know when you go to the. [01:29:18] Speaker A: Pools and I got, I go to the sweat room. [01:29:20] Speaker B: The sweat. Yeah. So that's a sore. Like a. [01:29:23] Speaker A: Not. [01:29:24] Speaker B: Is that different from a sauna? [01:29:25] Speaker A: That's different from a sauna. [01:29:26] Speaker B: Yeah. So sauna is. [01:29:27] Speaker A: I've got a steam room. [01:29:28] Speaker B: The steam room. Yeah. So this isn't a steam room, but it is kind of the same thing. But it's with infrared. [01:29:33] Speaker A: Uh huh. [01:29:34] Speaker B: So. And infrared is good for inflammation and pain and different things. And so but if you combine that with ice bath. So with what? With an ice bath. So you live. Yes. So you're, you're resetting your nervous system. [01:29:51] Speaker A: Okay. What does it do exactly? [01:29:53] Speaker B: Well, so you've got the infrared and all the, the healing powers of, of, of the red light. Yep, yep. So that's going to help you with the inflammation in your body, different pains and it's going to alleviate that. It's going to help you on that level. You get into the ice bath after that and it's, that's going to reset your nervous system. [01:30:11] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:30:11] Speaker B: So have you heard of the hot cold light sessions? Have you heard of those? [01:30:14] Speaker A: No. [01:30:15] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [01:30:16] Speaker A: So you're going to tell me about it? [01:30:17] Speaker B: Yeah. Well, so you're going to go from hot and then go to cold. So it's like, it's good for resetting everything and it's good for, like, energy and different things like that. Now you put me on the spot. So. [01:30:33] Speaker A: Yeah, like that sort of, you know, like, I've heard of people going into ice bath, right? [01:30:38] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [01:30:40] Speaker A: What would you. Why would you go into a nice bath? Well, because, I mean, what, what is, what does it do? Like, you know, what does it really do? [01:30:51] Speaker B: Well, so combining a nice bath and sauna is like a. It's called contrast therapy. Right. So it helps with recovery and it helps by enhancing your circulation, the. Reducing the inflammation and flushing out your metabolic waste as well. So the heat from the sauna dilates your blood vessels while the cold of the ice bath constricts them. So the repeated cycle helps reduce swelling, muscle soreness and fatigue. Benefits also extend to stress reduction and improved mood and sleep quality. How's that? [01:31:27] Speaker A: Wow. So how long, how long would you. Do you have to sit on a. [01:31:32] Speaker B: So ice bath? Obviously the ice bath would be short. You know, I think people do like one to three or four minutes. One to three minutes. [01:31:40] Speaker A: That's a lot. Four minutes, a long time. [01:31:42] Speaker B: It depends on how. Like, I don't know because I actually haven't done it before. [01:31:45] Speaker A: Can I do 30 seconds? [01:31:46] Speaker B: Yeah, you can do 30 seconds. Yeah, absolutely. So, yeah. So you do the ice bath after the sauna, obviously, and it is a contrast therapy is what it's called. [01:31:56] Speaker A: So it's like we have a cold shower after the steam room. We go outside, so you do the rest and we have a. That way cold shower. [01:32:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:32:03] Speaker A: And oh, my God, it's cold. [01:32:05] Speaker B: Is that doing that in winter, though? [01:32:07] Speaker A: I still do it. [01:32:08] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. But do you do feel the benefits of it? [01:32:11] Speaker A: It's amazing. It is amazing. It's a. It's actually, you know, you get into the streamer in the steam room. You should not do it longer than 20 minutes. Yeah, that's the longest. [01:32:20] Speaker B: Yeah. So that's. [01:32:20] Speaker A: And you should build it up slowly to that. Like you. When we started doing the steamer, we were told just do three minutes. [01:32:27] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:32:27] Speaker A: Then five minutes, then eight minutes, then 10 minutes, then 12, 14, 16, 18, 20. Build it up to 20. [01:32:35] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:32:36] Speaker A: And don't do any more than 20. [01:32:38] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:32:38] Speaker A: And then they never told me about the, the cold shower after the steam room. I was doing the steering for about 12 months. [01:32:47] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:32:47] Speaker A: And I was going from the steam Room into the spa, which was hot. [01:32:50] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:32:51] Speaker A: And one day I was doing. There's a guy that was talking to us. He's quite fit, is, you know, you could see he looks after himself. He said, selva, can I tell you something? I. Sure. You know, and he does chicun as well. And I've done shukun with him outside a couple of times, like breathing exercises, you know, and he said, when you finish the steam room, don't go from a very hot to a warm spa. You get no benefits. [01:33:16] Speaker B: No. [01:33:16] Speaker A: Whatsoever. [01:33:17] Speaker B: No. [01:33:17] Speaker A: You need to go outside and have a cold shower. [01:33:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:33:22] Speaker A: So in a stand they called share for as long as you can. [01:33:26] Speaker B: Yeah. Yep. [01:33:27] Speaker A: And then, you know, just wait a few minutes, then go into the spa and then you'll get the benefits of the spa. [01:33:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:33:33] Speaker A: And what it does, it says you go from the steam room to the cold shower. And then when you go back to the spa, because when you get to the cold shower, your body does tense up a little bit. [01:33:44] Speaker B: Yeah. Yeah. [01:33:45] Speaker A: Because of the shock of the cold in that. [01:33:47] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:33:47] Speaker A: He says, and then when you go to. To this. The spa, which is not as hot as the steam room, your body will just relax. [01:33:54] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:33:54] Speaker A: And then you'll have a nice relaxed body. [01:33:57] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:33:58] Speaker A: You know, and before that, before he told me to do that, I used to do the steering room. And then me and Bronnie will go into the. The spa. [01:34:08] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:34:08] Speaker A: And we would be so tired after the spa, like, we could just fall asleep. We had no energy, nothing. But since we started doing the steam room, the cold shower, then the spa, it's amazing. We've got energy. We're fine, we're just. [01:34:25] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [01:34:26] Speaker A: Doing it. [01:34:27] Speaker B: Yeah. So, yeah, it does help with fatigue. [01:34:30] Speaker A: And I've been thinking more and more about the ice bath. [01:34:33] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:34:34] Speaker A: Because they've got quite a few friends now. They've got ice baths, you know, and they rave about it and. That's right. You go ahead, you know, but I want. I like to understand it first before I try it. [01:34:44] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:34:44] Speaker A: You know, because. [01:34:46] Speaker B: Yeah. You'll have to come over. [01:34:47] Speaker A: Yeah, I'll have to. You know, because some people, you know, especially for their hearts, you know. [01:34:52] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:34:52] Speaker A: You know, if you've got a bad ticker, should you do a cold bath? [01:34:55] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. Well, I mean, it. It does help with cardio, cardiovascular things. [01:35:01] Speaker A: Okay, that's good. That's good. [01:35:03] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:35:03] Speaker A: Because that's all you need to know, you know? You know, people that are epileptic, for example, they can't walk into a room there's flashing lights. [01:35:09] Speaker B: No, I know. Yeah. [01:35:10] Speaker A: You know, so it's like you need to be. Okay, what does it do and where does it work? You know, I mean, I love it. I try anything once it takes me. It's going to take me a lot of courage to get into it. Probably walk around for five, 10 minutes. We should video it. [01:35:24] Speaker B: Yes, let's do it. [01:35:25] Speaker A: We should do it and video it. [01:35:27] Speaker B: Yes, let's do it. [01:35:28] Speaker A: But you got to jump in it too. [01:35:29] Speaker B: Yeah, I will. Absolutely. Let's do it next week. [01:35:32] Speaker A: We'll get. Bronnie's coming. She can film it. [01:35:33] Speaker B: Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yes. [01:35:35] Speaker A: Let's. We can sit in the. In the. In the infrared. [01:35:39] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:35:39] Speaker A: Sauna and just meditate and. Yeah. And I'll tell you one thing we do do what the. I'm getting probably the sauna be the same. The. The sim room. We do a lot of visual healing. [01:35:52] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [01:35:53] Speaker A: We actually do. Because you can very easily relax so much in the. [01:35:57] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:35:57] Speaker A: Like we do. We relax and go. And we breathe and we relax. And then I open my third eye and then I visualize, like, if it's a person that I'm working on, like, I just say. I think about my husband when he was sick, actually. He had a. He had that. That horrible rsv. Yeah, he had that. [01:36:16] Speaker B: That knocked me out for a while. [01:36:17] Speaker A: So I would send him healing, you know, and I could visualize it in there, you know, and it was just amazing. He told me he could feel it. He could feel. He could smell me. He said, I could smell you smell, you know, you got that smell, you know. [01:36:32] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:36:33] Speaker A: But then the most exciting thing that I did in that steering room, it was like a. A friend of mine was going through an. For an operation and she had a growth, and I actually was doing that. We explained it to her. That growth you got. It's explained that all to her. And then she showed me the doctor's picture that he did. This is how it looked. They say it's exactly how you described it. [01:36:59] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [01:37:00] Speaker A: And I said, anyway, it's half the size now. It's a lot smaller. Yeah, we've shrunk it. [01:37:04] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:37:04] Speaker A: And that. So by the time the operation comes, hopefully be a little bit smaller. You know, before that, the doctor said to her that it look, you know, I don't know what's going to happen. You know, Sad. Sad, I think. And after the operation, the doctor said to her, your thing was a lot smaller than what we imagine. [01:37:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:37:21] Speaker A: So we're able just to get it all in one piece. [01:37:24] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:37:25] Speaker A: You have no problem. [01:37:26] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [01:37:27] Speaker A: And it's just amazing, you know? Like, we've. We've used it to do healing. We've used the sweat room to do the visualization. To do visualization and healing. And I think that the sauna should be the same. You should be able to do the same. You should be able to get into that delta. [01:37:43] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:37:44] Speaker A: Zone. You know, once you acclimatize yourself to the heat and just press bright and sweat out all the impurities. [01:37:51] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:37:52] Speaker A: It'll be a great purification. [01:37:53] Speaker B: It will. Yeah. Yeah. [01:37:55] Speaker A: It's not just the detox itself, because it detox you, but the purification that will give you spiritually. It'll be amazing. You're onto something, girl. [01:38:05] Speaker B: I know. I know. I've had. I actually bought all this over a year ago. I've had this in my vision. [01:38:10] Speaker A: It was just sitting there pretty. [01:38:12] Speaker B: Like, I knew I was aiming towards it, but. Yeah, it was just waiting for me. [01:38:15] Speaker A: To have the right time, the right space. [01:38:19] Speaker B: Yeah. And I've got this renewed. I don't know, zest for everything. And I'm out there trying to make it happen. [01:38:26] Speaker A: I'm so glad. [01:38:27] Speaker B: Yeah. I was in the dark for a little bit there. [01:38:30] Speaker A: I'm sad. Like, we met. [01:38:31] Speaker B: I know. [01:38:31] Speaker A: Same. It's like winning the lotteries. [01:38:34] Speaker B: I know, right? [01:38:35] Speaker A: It is. [01:38:35] Speaker B: Yeah. When I met you, I'm just like. Like, you know, and it was like I'd known you before. [01:38:40] Speaker A: Yeah. So, yeah, I've known you. I'm alive. [01:38:42] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:38:43] Speaker A: I like how. Brainstorming. Yes. [01:38:45] Speaker B: I know. It's just like we're on the same page. Here. We are. [01:38:48] Speaker A: Okay, let's play a bit of music. And this is one of my favorite, favorite songs by John Dimber. And it's Annie's. [01:38:56] Speaker B: Annie's Song. Cool. [01:38:58] Speaker A: The best music from the 60s to today. IPL radio. Radio. All right, so we're back after Love and Marriage. [01:39:07] Speaker B: Yes. [01:39:08] Speaker A: Good old song. Good old song. [01:39:10] Speaker B: It makes you really children, that one. [01:39:12] Speaker A: Yeah. Marry with Children. That's a good show. [01:39:14] Speaker B: Yeah, it was. Yeah. Yeah. [01:39:15] Speaker A: You know, that was so. She was so dumb, but she was smart. [01:39:18] Speaker B: Oh, yeah. Yeah. She was hilarious, you know. [01:39:20] Speaker A: And he tried to be so tough that he was dumb. Yeah, he was. You know, like, it's really good. You know, you sit there and scratch his leg. Yeah. [01:39:33] Speaker B: He put his hands down his brown trousers. [01:39:35] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:39:36] Speaker B: Always. And. Yeah, everything was so brown back in those days. [01:39:39] Speaker A: Yeah, it was good. I mean, it was a really, really good one. And of course, before that, we had Johnny Farmer with a voice that, you know, we are the voice. Oh, they've got pizza, have they? [01:39:48] Speaker B: Oh yeah, yeah. [01:39:49] Speaker A: We've got Dungeons and Dragons. [01:39:52] Speaker B: Yeah. There's a meeting going on in the comments. [01:39:54] Speaker A: It's a meeting, a huge meeting. [01:39:56] Speaker B: There's dungeons. [01:39:56] Speaker A: It's obviously a pizza meeting now. [01:39:59] Speaker B: Yeah, I know. Maybe we can go hit them up for us. [01:40:00] Speaker A: Yeah, we should. So anyway, that came before that we had Johnny Farmer with the Voice. Now that's an amazing song. It should be an anthem. [01:40:07] Speaker B: Do you know that was the first song I knew as a, as a kid. That was the first song that I actually knew. [01:40:12] Speaker A: God, are you that young? [01:40:14] Speaker B: What good. [01:40:16] Speaker A: You know Johnny Farmer started singing in 1970. [01:40:21] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:40:22] Speaker A: Before you were thought of. [01:40:23] Speaker B: Yes, yes. Yeah, nearly a day. [01:40:25] Speaker A: Man. I'm old. [01:40:26] Speaker B: Yes. You know my neighbor, my next door neighbor. Well, crossroad. He's sister dated Johnny Farnham and he actually spent. [01:40:36] Speaker A: He dated Johnny Farman. [01:40:38] Speaker B: His sister dated Johnny. [01:40:39] Speaker A: Oh, his sister, yeah. [01:40:41] Speaker B: Not him. Not him. No, no, I'm not gonna bet. I'm not about to out Johnny Farnham right now. [01:40:47] Speaker A: His sister dated Johnny Farmer. What a lucky woman. [01:40:49] Speaker B: And he was telling me that this story and I'm like, oh yeah, you know, everyone's got a sister who's dated someone. But he actually showed me the photos. [01:40:55] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:40:56] Speaker B: And they were at dinners and stuff through Perth when John Farnham was over. And this was before he met his wife, obviously. [01:41:02] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:41:02] Speaker B: And they were at like dinners and things with other famous people from Perth, but I can't think of who it is, but footballers and stuff like that. But they were actually. He was there with Johnny Farnham in photos and I'm just like, that's so cool. [01:41:16] Speaker A: Yeah, he was. Johnny Farm was my hero. Like, you know, he was a plumber, you know Johnny Farm, he was a plumber. Yeah. [01:41:23] Speaker B: Oh wow. [01:41:23] Speaker A: And my first husband was a plumber. [01:41:25] Speaker B: Oh yeah. Yeah. [01:41:26] Speaker A: And he was blonde, blue eyes, just like Johnny Farmer, but not Johnny. [01:41:29] Speaker B: Did he have the butt crack for it? [01:41:32] Speaker A: Of course they do. That's. That's the plumbers too. And I remember, I remember when he started and I always liked him and I've been to every concert he's ever done in wa. [01:41:41] Speaker B: You have? Yeah. [01:41:42] Speaker A: I mean he's just amazing. And I still follow him on Facebook and one one in his fan club and that. Just listen to it. I was like. And. But the words of that song is just incredible, you know, such an anthem, you know, the way he sings it, the way he delivers it, it is Such a beautiful. In another song that he does is like two strong hearts. I really love that. Oh, yeah. [01:42:02] Speaker B: I do the. The dancing. [01:42:04] Speaker A: Yeah. Yeah, I really do. [01:42:05] Speaker B: Like a honey, strong heart. [01:42:08] Speaker A: We belong together like the honey and the bee, you and me. Like. Yep. Yeah, we got it. We got it. Yeah, we still got it. So I actually. Jen's got a friend named Jen here. She probably thinks we're weird. She can be weird with us. Yeah. [01:42:25] Speaker B: Jen's shy. Yeah. [01:42:26] Speaker A: So it's actually really good. And then before that, we had, of course, the Annie song tomorrow. I really wanted the. The. The. The Sydney. Sydney Christians version because I really like the way she does it. But we haven't got that one. We haven't got the Sydney Christian version. [01:42:42] Speaker B: No. [01:42:42] Speaker A: But that one's Charles Strauss. One is just as. Just as good. [01:42:45] Speaker B: We need to make a list so we can start putting these songs on there. [01:42:49] Speaker A: Yeah, we do talk about that. [01:42:50] Speaker B: We do. I do often write it. [01:42:52] Speaker A: We do. We're just gonna. You know, we're just gonna make a list here, but we will. I mean, we're pretty good because we. We come up. We know. And of course, I've been picking the songs tonight. I've been trying to drive the panel today. Jenny's been very patient with me, and it's like we're doing something. A conversation pops up. So when we're talking about something, something comes. I said, okay, it's got to be love and marriage. So I just put that on. You know, we're doing the Voice, that stuff. Done it like, you know, we think about the song, trying to relate the music that we're playing compared to the conversation we're having. [01:43:24] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:43:24] Speaker A: You know, itself. [01:43:26] Speaker B: As the conversation does, too. [01:43:27] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. And the love and marriage. I mean, they should have gone a lot earlier. Like, earlier we were talking about the. You know, she was supposed to have all the clothes laid on the bed all night and everything. But no, it doesn't. Doesn't work like that. Worked like that. But let me tell you, as of next week, we're going to do it today, but we just got sidetracked and we didn't do it. As of next week, we're going to connect the. The phone to the panel. Right. So we are going to give you a number so you can actually call in. [01:43:55] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:43:56] Speaker A: And talk to us on air and you can ask us questions. [01:44:01] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [01:44:02] Speaker A: So that'll be exciting. So during the week, we're gonna play with this and. And learn how to use it properly. [01:44:09] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:44:09] Speaker A: So we don't do too many poo poos on the. What we're trying to do the show. [01:44:13] Speaker B: Yeah. We gotta mind our P's and Q's. [01:44:15] Speaker A: Yeah. I mean, we've got to learn how to drive it first. [01:44:18] Speaker B: No Fs and Cs either. [01:44:20] Speaker A: That's right. Yes. So. So we need to. We need to do that. We need to connect it. And so next week, on the week, next show and the next week, you'll be able to call us and ask us question directly. [01:44:33] Speaker B: Yes. And. [01:44:34] Speaker A: And by the sound of your voice, I'll be able to give you a little reading, you know, so you just gotta call in and so we can. I can listen to the sound of your voice and then I'll connect to the sound, your vibration and then go. And I'll tell you something. [01:44:52] Speaker B: Oh, I'm loving this. [01:44:53] Speaker A: You know, so that'll be exciting. [01:44:55] Speaker B: I'm gonna go out there and I'm gonna ring up. Yeah, you got a new fan here. [01:45:02] Speaker A: The funny thing is, you know that you can actually. When I'm. When I get zoned like that, when I used to do it with six Br. Right. We only get. We only used to get 30 seconds per person. You'd be surprised how much you can say in 30 seconds. [01:45:13] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [01:45:13] Speaker A: It was incredible. I want to see you, you know, and. But I just. I don't recognize whoever comes in. I just go and zone into the voice. [01:45:22] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [01:45:23] Speaker A: You could be my daughter and I won't even recognize you. [01:45:25] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. [01:45:26] Speaker A: I just go, okay. I can't even say your name. Like. Yeah, it won't register because I just go. I will go in a zone. [01:45:33] Speaker B: Yeah, right. [01:45:34] Speaker A: But you'd be driving the panel because I won't be able to drive the. [01:45:37] Speaker B: Panel and do that in action. [01:45:38] Speaker A: Or I just see that and I just go. So we want to get lots of calls because we want to. We do want to show a beautiful rattie statue how good we are and how people will call into back. So that way we can do a lot more talk back. Because really, there's no talkback radio in Perth anymore. [01:45:55] Speaker B: No. [01:45:56] Speaker A: 6 BR is not doing talkback anymore. [01:45:58] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:45:58] Speaker A: And that was the only radio station that was doing it and now they. They're done. They don't do it anymore. [01:46:04] Speaker B: Yeah, let's bring it back. [01:46:05] Speaker A: So we need to. Then we can be knowing that apps are beautif ET radio that's here to help people better their life and reach the higher stars. [01:46:15] Speaker B: Yeah. Yep, yep, yep. [01:46:16] Speaker A: So we can do it. [01:46:17] Speaker B: Yep. All right. That's My job is before next Thursday to have a phone and a phone number. [01:46:22] Speaker A: Yes. [01:46:23] Speaker B: Let's do it. [01:46:24] Speaker A: I'm excited. I could. I actually got a phone. It's a Vodafone number that I used to use on my panel. [01:46:31] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [01:46:32] Speaker A: Maybe I can bring that phone in. [01:46:34] Speaker B: Yeah, okay. As long as you don't mind the heavy, heavy breathers after the show. [01:46:41] Speaker A: No, I don't mind at all. Interesting. [01:46:43] Speaker B: Why not? [01:46:43] Speaker A: It's going to be very interesting. So. But it's good they got the Bluetooth working. [01:46:47] Speaker B: Yep, yep, yep. [01:46:48] Speaker A: That's what. It's just a. Connecting the Bluetooth to the phone and then it just. Bob's your uncle. [01:46:53] Speaker B: Yep. [01:46:53] Speaker A: But I noticed you got a bit. Look, mine hasn't got a connection. Mine on mine, I just connect the Bluetooth to the panel. Yeah, but this could probably work better because it's actually the earth connected to the phone. [01:47:06] Speaker B: Yeah, that's what I was saying. [01:47:07] Speaker A: I think that's a great idea too. [01:47:09] Speaker B: Because you've got more control over. I don't know. [01:47:11] Speaker A: Now, there is a reason why we're not going to use our own numbers. [01:47:14] Speaker B: Yeah. Because I don't want any happy. [01:47:17] Speaker A: No, it's not us. We don't want people to ring us later. [01:47:20] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:47:21] Speaker A: Because I want a free reading. Because with this number we can get free. So that'll be the number for free readings. But our numbers are not free rings because that's our livelihood. [01:47:30] Speaker B: Yes. Yeah. [01:47:31] Speaker A: So if people cause this number, well, they can pay for it, you know, but the free radio be just for the radio show only. And because this is not a commercial radio such that we're limited for time. I don't have to do 30 seconds. I will do a little bit better. Yeah. A little bit better than 30 seconds. [01:47:49] Speaker B: All right, so get your questions. [01:47:51] Speaker A: Yeah, but everybody be different. But I must warn you though, that sometimes, not, not often, but sometimes you might get one person that I'll get nothing. [01:48:02] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:48:03] Speaker A: And then I have to say, look, I'm sorry, I got nothing for you. But it doesn't mean there's anything bad. It could be that whatever I've got to say, you can't say it on air. [01:48:10] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:48:10] Speaker A: Because we do have to be careful what we say on air. There are rules and regulations that we've got to abide by. We can't talk about legal stuff. We can't talk about really, really private. That stuff. [01:48:23] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:48:23] Speaker A: So they're all very general readings type of thing that we can talk publicly without embarrassing you completely. I said completely. Okay. So it will be sometimes a little bit. So we need to be aware of that. There are some things you've got to watch by the rules of. And regulations of broadcasting. We don't want the station to get in trouble either. We want to do the right thing by them as well. So next week that's what we'll do. Jenny's going to learn how to become an expert at using the connection with the phone that she could teach me. And then one week she can do readings and I will just do the panels. [01:48:59] Speaker B: Oh, that sounds cool. [01:49:01] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:49:01] Speaker B: I don't know if I'm like, skilled like you. I want to see you throw out that many readings in that amount of time. [01:49:06] Speaker A: Yeah, that's no problem. [01:49:07] Speaker B: Yeah. All right. [01:49:08] Speaker A: The most I've done in an hour, 62. That's insane. [01:49:15] Speaker B: That's a lot. Do you get tired after that? [01:49:17] Speaker A: No. [01:49:18] Speaker B: You don't? [01:49:18] Speaker A: No. Jen, you know what it's like. The more you do, the more energy you get. Wow. [01:49:22] Speaker B: That's crazy. [01:49:23] Speaker A: I did a fundraise. I used to do psychic nights to raise money for. Yeah, for venues. Right. For people. Like, I did the community radio in Albany. I raised money for them and the cricket club, now in the yacht club. The yacht club wanted a fundraising, so they invited me to come down and do spot a psychic night, a night with silver. [01:49:45] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:49:46] Speaker A: There's 500 people there and I did all of them. Every single person got a reading. [01:49:53] Speaker B: Wow, that's crazy. [01:49:55] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:49:56] Speaker B: That is cool, though. [01:49:57] Speaker A: They're great. Fun racing. [01:49:58] Speaker B: We've got to record this. We have to have the cameras rolling for that. Yeah, because this is. That's awesome. Don't reckon. [01:50:04] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:50:05] Speaker B: Jen might actually call in next week too. [01:50:08] Speaker A: Yeah. So, yeah, we gotta. We gotta do all that in like a. And I really need to. I've been sending my. The link in that for the radio to China, America, a couple of other places. People that I should do the radio with in New York, but they can't connect to it. [01:50:25] Speaker B: Oh, really? [01:50:27] Speaker A: They're having trouble connecting. [01:50:28] Speaker B: I heart radio. They can go through that. Yeah, I know they can't. [01:50:31] Speaker A: No, I told them to download it. Yeah, yeah, I've got it on my phone. I send them the link. Yeah, yeah, I've got it on my phone. [01:50:39] Speaker B: We'll have to suss that one out. [01:50:41] Speaker A: And I said we need to suss that out because I've got a lot of people that are saying that they can't connect it. They're not listening because they just can't connect to the. Yeah, to the thing, but I don't know how to do it, so, you know, I need to. I need to learn how to do it myself. [01:50:57] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:50:58] Speaker A: All right, so where is it? [01:51:01] Speaker B: I do have the iHeartRadio one or the IPL one. What have you got there? [01:51:05] Speaker A: Oh, because I had to do it because Casey tried to teach me, but, yeah, it didn't quite work. [01:51:14] Speaker B: All right, well, we'll figure it out. [01:51:16] Speaker A: Oh, here it is. Yeah, that one. [01:51:18] Speaker B: The iHeartRadio. [01:51:19] Speaker A: That one. [01:51:19] Speaker B: Yep, yep, yep. Yeah, yeah. [01:51:22] Speaker A: But I've just showed him how to do that. I said, well, just get this link. [01:51:26] Speaker B: Oh, that was a big twirl. I didn't even know you could get those. They're my favorite. Like, twirls are my favorite, but. [01:51:31] Speaker A: Oh, my God, I'll never buy one again. They're $4. [01:51:34] Speaker B: $4 for one twirl? Yeah. [01:51:36] Speaker A: Big 12, and it wasn't that big. [01:51:39] Speaker B: Well, I think they need a rebrand. Their. Their. [01:51:42] Speaker A: No, you know how they. They. You know how the twirl used to. But we're talking about chocolate now. [01:51:46] Speaker B: Slightly large twirl. [01:51:48] Speaker A: You know, the 12 before it used to be roll that had a lot of air in between it and it would be nice. [01:51:53] Speaker B: The flake one. Is that what you're talking about? [01:51:55] Speaker A: No, no, no. The rolls. The. The twills is a roll. The roll, the flake is all little bits. [01:52:00] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [01:52:01] Speaker A: But this one used to to be like a roll, and when you bite it, it used to be like a nice. It's not like that anymore. It's just like a chunk of chunk of chocolate. That's it. [01:52:09] Speaker B: Yeah. Right. [01:52:10] Speaker A: Because. [01:52:10] Speaker B: Yeah, the twirl originally was a flake with a coating on it. [01:52:13] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:52:14] Speaker B: And then now it's gone dense. It's not airy, and it does. It tastes different, doesn't it? [01:52:18] Speaker A: It does. It tastes a lot different. [01:52:20] Speaker B: See, I like. Like, even when you eat a flake and then when you eat a twirl, they're basically the same, except one's coated, but it tastes completely different because of the. How they've done the chocolate. [01:52:30] Speaker A: You know what I really love? I love to have it like a nice hot coffee. A real hot coffee. [01:52:35] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:52:36] Speaker A: And getting a. [01:52:38] Speaker B: Do you dunk it in there? [01:52:39] Speaker A: No, no, no. I get a. A bit of chocolate and put it in my mouth, and then I drink the coffee and the chocolate melts. And it's like, oh, my God. It's like you've just gone to heaven. [01:52:50] Speaker B: You're making my chops water. I'm actually paying for chocolate. Yeah. [01:52:57] Speaker A: So it's like. It's just beautiful. [01:52:59] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:52:59] Speaker A: Just feel chocolate, hot coffee. [01:53:02] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [01:53:04] Speaker A: So we can't even put a song because I haven't picked any music because we've been talking. [01:53:09] Speaker B: Well, if you pick a few songs, we can say anara and play them. Yeah, nearly. [01:53:14] Speaker A: Oh, my God. He's quarter to. Quarter to nine already. [01:53:17] Speaker B: Silver. It just goes. When I'm with you I don't even notice the time, as Jen probably can see. [01:53:24] Speaker A: Oh, we have so much fun for. [01:53:26] Speaker B: Like half an hour. [01:53:27] Speaker A: There's a problem that the time goes too fast when we're together. [01:53:31] Speaker B: It does. But, you know, that's a good thing. That means we're enjoying our company, each other's. [01:53:36] Speaker A: Say I do. [01:53:41] Speaker B: Yeah. [01:53:42] Speaker A: Oh, this one. [01:53:42] Speaker B: Picking songs. If you can't tell, that's her picking. [01:53:46] Speaker A: Song singing, I reckon. This one. No, no, no, not that one. [01:53:51] Speaker B: Not that one. Yep. So Silva's Silver really, really takes her time, this one. [01:53:58] Speaker A: Dion Warwick. Right. Anyway, she was amazing. She's an amazing singer, you know, Dion Warwick. And whenever she sang, you could actually visualize the whole thing, which was happening, you know? And this song, you know, say a Little Prayer, I just love it. I just love it. It's just the morning I wake up Before I put on my makeup I say a little prayer for you. I'm combing my hair now Wondering what dress to wear Now I say a little prayer for you. Forever and ever. You be my heart. Cause I love you forever. [01:54:40] Speaker B: My cheeks. [01:54:41] Speaker A: Who needs karaoke? [01:54:42] Speaker B: My cheeks are so sore, Silver. Like, they're so. So I'm holding them together right now. [01:54:47] Speaker A: So I will. I will leave you for a few minutes with diy. We will come back and say goodbye. And we're gonna play a couple of. [01:54:54] Speaker B: Songs for us while we do some karaoke. [01:54:56] Speaker A: But we will. We will come back and say goodbye in a minute. [01:55:03] Speaker B: And you're back in the studio for all the things on a Thursday night with Jenjen and Silva. [01:55:09] Speaker A: Just want to say goodnight and thank you for listening and tuning in. And we promise not to be. I mean, to behave next week. [01:55:17] Speaker B: Promise for yourself, man. We promise not to. [01:55:22] Speaker A: So next week, remember, we want you to call in. We want you to call in because we will have a phone with us. Jen's going to become the expert. She will give you the number out. We will put the number on the page. [01:55:33] Speaker B: Yep, yep, yep. Posting that on all the things page. And we'll be on the IPL radio. [01:55:38] Speaker A: Yep. So I'll give you. I will give you the number and I'll bring the phone up. And we can do that. And then we can practice and have a fantastic show next week. [01:55:45] Speaker B: Awesome. [01:55:46] Speaker A: With lots of fun. [01:55:47] Speaker B: No marriage proposals and no heavy breathing. [01:55:50] Speaker A: Please, please, please. And remember, it's a family show. [01:55:54] Speaker B: It is a family show. [01:55:56] Speaker A: Until we meet again. [01:55:57] Speaker B: Yes. [01:55:58] Speaker A: Let's. [01:56:00] Speaker B: Sayonara. [01:56:02] Speaker A: The best music from the 60s to today IPL radio.