Series 1 Episode 2

[00:00:00] Speaker A: Your voice, your community station. You are listening to IP and you're. [00:00:07] Speaker B: In the studio for all the things with Jen Jen. I'm joined by the lovely Beth and Silva. [00:00:12] Speaker A: Hello, everybody. [00:00:13] Speaker B: Oh, we made it in. We made it in. We were locked outside. We were locked outside. [00:00:19] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:00:20] Speaker A: We are worth the wait. [00:00:21] Speaker B: We are, we are. And it is a great Tuesday. How was your day? [00:00:25] Speaker A: Oh, it's amazing. The. The week. Yeah, the weeks of my set was really good. People do listen to you, Jen. [00:00:31] Speaker B: Jen, do they? [00:00:32] Speaker A: They do. A couple of old people that used to listen to me on six pr. [00:00:36] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:00:36] Speaker A: And they rang me and said, you were in the community radio the other day. I never knew how come you're not taking calls. Oh, wow. And I said, oh, because that. [00:00:46] Speaker B: I don't know, we got to set that up. [00:00:48] Speaker A: I don't know. But I will, I will mention it. So anyway, it was great to listen to yourself when we miss you so much. Oh, thank you. Thank you. Do you listen? I thought. Yeah, we listen quite often. Oh, wow. [00:00:58] Speaker B: That' so awesome. I love hearing that. [00:01:00] Speaker A: Yeah, it was really good. I was shocked. I was blown away when they actually mentioned it. So it's really, really good. [00:01:06] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:01:07] Speaker B: I'm just going to check your microphone. Beth, can you just talk for me? [00:01:10] Speaker C: Hello? No. [00:01:12] Speaker B: Oh, we have a little bit of a. Try that. [00:01:14] Speaker C: Bit of a problem here. [00:01:15] Speaker B: Yeah, there's a bit of a problem with Beth's microphone. Yours is working. [00:01:19] Speaker A: This is not. [00:01:20] Speaker B: Hello? [00:01:20] Speaker A: No, it's working now. [00:01:21] Speaker B: Oh, there we go. There we go. [00:01:22] Speaker D: I am here. [00:01:23] Speaker C: There you go. There you go. [00:01:25] Speaker B: All right, so we're late, but we're here. [00:01:27] Speaker A: Yeah, that's all. [00:01:28] Speaker B: And we're gonna have an amazing show. [00:01:31] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:01:31] Speaker A: You know, it's just on. Just on the other side of the full moon and it's such an important time. Oh, yeah, because it's like, it's. It's a good time to let go, you know? And you should really sit down. You should sit down and actually write 300 things that you want. [00:01:47] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:01:48] Speaker D: 300? Why 300? [00:01:50] Speaker A: Because you need to push yourself to write beyond your own limitation. [00:01:55] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:01:55] Speaker A: What happened? Most people say write a lease and they stop at 20, 30. [00:02:00] Speaker D: But 300, what's with the 300? [00:02:02] Speaker A: Because it's a good number. [00:02:03] Speaker B: It's a big number. You want to aim for a lot. That is, don't be scared of them. [00:02:09] Speaker A: You know, it's like. And it doesn't have to be goals about money and that. It's like, it can be like, yeah, I want to be financially Comfortable. I want a happy family. I want my children to be happy. [00:02:20] Speaker D: Little goals like getting lapis. [00:02:22] Speaker A: Exactly. Little things, you know, it's the little. [00:02:25] Speaker D: Things in life, I swear. [00:02:27] Speaker A: Yeah, that's okay. [00:02:28] Speaker B: Beth, you just outed me on radio. [00:02:30] Speaker D: I'm going. I did just get it done, what you're on about. [00:02:34] Speaker B: I did just get mine done. [00:02:35] Speaker A: Yes. And it's just so important. It's just so important to do. Because if you actually do it, and I know because I've seen things happen, happen, and I. I do it once a year, usually around my birthday. [00:02:46] Speaker D: 300. [00:02:47] Speaker A: I'm going to write 300. A list with 300. [00:02:50] Speaker D: I write a lot of things. I've got 300 happen. [00:02:54] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:02:55] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:02:55] Speaker B: Right. [00:02:55] Speaker A: And they do. And if you read it every day, but when you read it, you need to read it as a present tense. It's already happened. [00:03:02] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [00:03:03] Speaker A: Okay. Like I have. [00:03:05] Speaker B: Part of. Part of the manifestation is speaking as though it's already happened or already. [00:03:10] Speaker A: Manifestation is a way of opening up in your mind, but it's also a way of changing your train of thought. Because whatever's in your head is. Is what you create. [00:03:20] Speaker C: Right. [00:03:21] Speaker A: That's why when people. When people first come join a meditation group, for example, we do a lot of positive meditation about positive thinking and stuff like that. And you work on their health. So every meditation, we make sure that we do one positive thinking meditation. Then we do the normal meditation. And I've had people that, they tell me after two or three months, they go, something happened, and I didn't react the way that I normally would. Yeah, because you are reshaping. You're letting go of your negative side and enforcing it with positive side, you're replacing it with positive stuff that are negative stuff. So whenever. And it's like the. The exercise, the steps start. When things are going bad, go back and take steps. Okay, that's okay. I'm gonna take these steps again and things will be different. Yeah, I'm gonna take the steps away and things will be different. Go take the steps and you do it. And it's amazing. You'll be so surprise how things actually change. And they evolve and they grow, and it's just amazing. [00:04:18] Speaker D: I do agree with you, but I do also feel in a sense that some of that should be part of your environment. If you're in a shitty environment, then a lot of the time you can't, of course, build and grow the way that you are expecting or wanting to. [00:04:28] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:04:30] Speaker B: That's also. [00:04:31] Speaker D: If you change that environment, then you'll find a lot of the time that you actually bloom as a person. [00:04:35] Speaker A: I had a lady that was coming to. To my group on a regular basis and she had an issue. She worked in an office. You know how office can be very invasive. And she said, oh, God, it's such a horrible place. So I want you every morning to go in with a smile and say good morning to each individual person. [00:04:53] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:04:54] Speaker A: Say what? Can you say, good morning, Jenny. Good morning, Beth. And then go and sit down and smile. [00:04:59] Speaker B: Nobody calls me Jenny. No? [00:05:03] Speaker A: No. So do it every day. And at the beginning, if they want, they'll look at you. And that's what it was like. And then on the fourth day, how does it go? Good morning. How are you, Katrina? She goes, I am great. How are you? [00:05:26] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:05:26] Speaker A: And then I said, another thing you've got to remember, if you ever ask someone, how are you? Don't ever ask that question unless you want the answer how they are. [00:05:35] Speaker C: Yes. [00:05:36] Speaker A: If they ask you, how are you? And you don't want to tell them, you gotta be polite. And I said, look, I haven't got time to tell you how I am right now. Have I ever. Coffee later, we can chat and I tell you exactly how I am. [00:05:48] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:05:49] Speaker B: You know, because change the energy in the environment. [00:05:53] Speaker A: Changes the energy. Yeah, it changes the energy, you know, and it's just so amazing. And then this is when you notice the things that start shifting. That means things are going to start unloading. So make sure you get a glass bowl and put salt and water in it and put it in a corner and every two weeks, change it. [00:06:09] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:06:10] Speaker A: And you'll see the place will change. Now time went by. Now she loves working there. Yeah, she looks forward to it. They actually now every Thursday night, they go out for a dinner after work. [00:06:20] Speaker B: Oh, that's good. [00:06:21] Speaker A: You know, and they talk about things. There's no pressure about it. It's such a harmonizing thing. But it did take 12 months. [00:06:27] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:06:28] Speaker A: It didn't happen. [00:06:29] Speaker B: Sometimes they do. [00:06:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:06:30] Speaker B: Because, I mean, all the different personalities and different whatever they're going through, preconceived notions or expectations, and they're all built up, aren't they? [00:06:41] Speaker A: Let's just see. Your mind is so powerful. Whatever you're thinking is what you will attract. [00:06:46] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [00:06:47] Speaker B: You know, speaking of, like. So it's just been the full moon and it was the Lionsgate portal. This last week has really knocked me. I have been up until today, like, yesterday. I was even on the beach last night watching the sunset, just consumed with My thoughts and. [00:07:03] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:07:04] Speaker B: Stuff, you know, like, I've got so much going on, and I just felt completely frozen yesterday. And I was like, I've only felt this way for the last few days. And then I realized it was the full moon. [00:07:16] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:07:17] Speaker B: In the portal. And I'm just like, what is going on? This is not me. [00:07:20] Speaker A: It's a complete cleanup. It's like letting go. [00:07:22] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:07:23] Speaker A: It was a beautiful time. And right now, like I was saying at the start, I've not got deviated. I don't know why. At the other side of the movie, like the deviation. Very. It's very important, especially after the Lionsgate and everything. After the outside of one, you've got to really go through a decluttering of thoughts. [00:07:39] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:07:39] Speaker A: You know? [00:07:40] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:07:40] Speaker A: So this is where we actually become more truth with ourselves, and we become aware that this doesn't resonate with me. So why do I do it? Why do I say it? Why do I think it? And change it. [00:07:54] Speaker C: Change it. [00:07:55] Speaker A: This is the best time to change, especially this one. This. The other side of this full moon. [00:08:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:08:00] Speaker A: So you've got until next Sunday, I think it is. [00:08:03] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:08:03] Speaker A: And then the new moon will start. [00:08:05] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:08:05] Speaker A: That means there'll be no moon for the first week. [00:08:07] Speaker C: Right. [00:08:08] Speaker A: And that's a purification. [00:08:09] Speaker C: Yeah. Okay. [00:08:10] Speaker A: Of good things. [00:08:11] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:08:11] Speaker B: Because this one was really full. [00:08:13] Speaker A: It's very strong. And I got sick. I mean, I got sick as a dog. Wednesday, Thursday, Friday. I couldn't breathe, couldn't do anything. And I'm in the middle of packing up my shop, and I couldn't get it done. I gotta hand my keys in on Friday. Oh, my God. I'm not gonna do it. You know. [00:08:26] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:08:27] Speaker A: I was sick as the dog. And then Friday, which was the day of the portal, of the Lionsgate portal, it was like, poof. Go. What? It was all. [00:08:37] Speaker C: God. [00:08:39] Speaker A: But the whole time, I did listen to a lot of hurt sounds. [00:08:43] Speaker C: Yeah, I do. [00:08:44] Speaker A: I'm really big on frequency. [00:08:45] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:08:46] Speaker B: Same, same. [00:08:47] Speaker A: So I do a lot of frequency therapy in that. So I did a lot of therapy on frequency every night when I went to bed. Every night. [00:08:53] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:08:54] Speaker A: And just concentrate on it and just think on it and think of, okay, why? Why is this here? Why am I letting go? And. And for me, will I come down to all the answers that I needed to know? I knew exactly why it was happening. And then I was able to rectify it. And here I am. [00:09:10] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:09:11] Speaker B: Doing all the things, Talking about all the things. [00:09:13] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:09:14] Speaker A: And that's what it is. You've got to really look at, you know, self examination is the most powerful thing you can have. [00:09:19] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:09:20] Speaker A: Because if you're right within yourself, you resonate and you radiate positive energy. And that's contagious. Yeah, it actually is. [00:09:29] Speaker B: Actually one of the good contagious things there are in the world. [00:09:31] Speaker A: That's one of the things you want. [00:09:33] Speaker B: Yeah, I want something. [00:09:34] Speaker A: You want to be good within yourself. So the people that are around you. [00:09:38] Speaker C: Yep. [00:09:39] Speaker A: Will connect to you. [00:09:40] Speaker C: Yeah, we'll connect to you. [00:09:41] Speaker B: And now they'll just go with your vibe because you're. [00:09:44] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:09:44] Speaker B: Glowing inside and out. [00:09:46] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. No. [00:09:47] Speaker A: What's your thought? You look deep in thought. [00:09:48] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. You are. [00:09:50] Speaker A: Share with us. [00:09:51] Speaker C: Yeah. Come on. [00:09:53] Speaker B: No, you're over there with your own glow over there. I was, Yeah, I was just zoned. [00:09:58] Speaker D: Out for a second. [00:09:58] Speaker B: Sorry. That's okay. We do have some curry duck sandwiches. Oh, they're amazing. [00:10:13] Speaker D: You did good. This woman over here that can't cook. [00:10:16] Speaker B: But you did it. [00:10:17] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:10:18] Speaker B: Oh my God. Perfect. Perfect everything. Perfect levels. [00:10:21] Speaker A: Even. Even the eggs, you know, cuz it's an art cooking eggs. You know, when you boil egg, a. [00:10:26] Speaker B: Lot of people over, over boil them and they're dry and not over boil them. [00:10:30] Speaker A: The. The yolk course is still had a nice texture. Beautiful. [00:10:34] Speaker B: Don't you hate that rubber one? [00:10:36] Speaker A: The squeaky feeling? Oh, these are the best carrot sandwiches I've ever. [00:10:40] Speaker C: Ah. [00:10:41] Speaker B: Like, I'm holding up a 10, man. There's a 10? [00:10:43] Speaker A: Yeah, it is a 10. [00:10:45] Speaker B: 10 out of 10. We might, we might attack those a bit more. We were, we were locked outside the studio, so we. [00:10:50] Speaker A: Adventurous and give her another time. I know, right? [00:10:54] Speaker B: Cooking one by the sound of it. It seems to be confronting for you. [00:11:00] Speaker D: Chicken and chorizo. Creamy tomato pasta bake. [00:11:04] Speaker A: Wow. [00:11:06] Speaker B: That was specific. [00:11:07] Speaker D: It's like a pasta. [00:11:09] Speaker B: Yeah, that I. Yeah, I'm down with that. [00:11:11] Speaker D: Tomato sauce with chorizo and chicken and like tallagateti or. [00:11:17] Speaker B: Now you're sounding like the one. [00:11:18] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:11:19] Speaker B: You sounded like a chef. Right. Now, for someone who doesn't cook, that. [00:11:22] Speaker D: Was the only recipe I've ever been able to follow to a tea my whole life. And it turned out nice. It tasted really good. [00:11:28] Speaker B: All right. [00:11:29] Speaker D: I made it when my son was first born about eight years ago. [00:11:32] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:11:32] Speaker D: And it was amazing. So I. I feel like I'm down. [00:11:36] Speaker B: I'm down, I'm down. Are you still wanting me to cook curry? [00:11:40] Speaker D: I mean, to hear you tell me it's yummy. [00:11:42] Speaker B: Are you still wanting me to cook creamy garlic prawns. [00:11:47] Speaker D: Ok. What's that? I need to impress my mom. [00:11:50] Speaker C: Oh, okay. [00:11:51] Speaker A: And I'll have to make something. [00:11:54] Speaker B: Yeah, we will. [00:11:55] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [00:11:55] Speaker D: Easy pickings, mate. [00:11:57] Speaker C: Let's do it. [00:11:57] Speaker B: Yeah, Sounds like a good plan. All right, we're gonna cut to some bling182 with all the small things. [00:12:04] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:12:05] Speaker B: For all the things on IPL Radio. [00:12:07] Speaker A: Tuesday night, your voice, your community station. You are listening to IPL Radio Industry Monkeys. [00:12:17] Speaker B: Ah, yes. You're back in the studio with all the Things with Jen. [00:12:20] Speaker C: Jen. [00:12:20] Speaker B: And I'm joined by Sava and Beth. [00:12:24] Speaker D: Monkey too Monkey too. [00:12:26] Speaker B: Monkey see Monkey two. We had some more curried egg sandwiches in the break. [00:12:32] Speaker A: We did. [00:12:32] Speaker B: And then we got chatting again. It happens, it happens, it happens. [00:12:38] Speaker A: It happens. [00:12:38] Speaker B: Beth's phone was going off a little bit, wasn't it? [00:12:41] Speaker A: We've been seeing things. Hot potato, hot potato. [00:12:44] Speaker B: So what did we do today, Beth? What did we do? [00:12:49] Speaker D: I thought I would join plenty of fish to get some funny pickup lines for the show, but, yeah, it didn't. [00:12:54] Speaker B: Work out that well. I can't keep up with everything. [00:12:56] Speaker A: So you started. [00:12:57] Speaker B: She put herself out there. [00:12:58] Speaker A: Yeah, I started fishing. [00:12:59] Speaker D: I was a bit blunt with my bio, but I put myself out. [00:13:02] Speaker A: You were very blunt, John. You weren't blunt, you were honest. Yeah, clear honest. [00:13:07] Speaker B: She was, yeah. [00:13:08] Speaker A: This is what I want. [00:13:09] Speaker B: And clearly tolerate. She did ask her. She only wants her cobwebs because cleared. [00:13:14] Speaker A: She didn't. [00:13:15] Speaker C: That's it. [00:13:15] Speaker D: That's all that's needed. [00:13:16] Speaker A: Okay. No wonder you're getting a big. And if you're not charging, you just want your cob clean, man. I'm in. [00:13:27] Speaker B: What if he comes around with a tool belt on and nothing else? [00:13:29] Speaker D: What has become of me after today? [00:13:31] Speaker B: I don't know. But you've had a few good connections on there. [00:13:35] Speaker C: A couple, yeah. [00:13:36] Speaker D: LAUGHS what about. [00:13:39] Speaker B: So someone messaged her and it was. Was it one of your ex's names? [00:13:43] Speaker D: Oh, no, it was my ex boyfriend's best friend. [00:13:47] Speaker B: Right, right. And he's like, what are you looking for? And she goes, not you. [00:13:54] Speaker D: She's like, no, Josh. The guy's name, that's Josh. I'm sorry, I can't do Josh's. So hang on, just let me bring the messages up. Maybe don't. Hilarious. Maybe don't read certain names and it's so worth it. But I mean, the only Josh out of all Joshes that messaged me. [00:14:13] Speaker A: Don't say their names. [00:14:14] Speaker B: Don't say the names. [00:14:15] Speaker D: I don't care. [00:14:16] Speaker B: Josh is a Josh, bro. [00:14:17] Speaker D: Nobody likes A Josh. I said, bro, your name's Josh F along, I'll be editing my bio. He goes, what are you looking for? And I said, not Josh, boy. [00:14:24] Speaker A: Bye. [00:14:25] Speaker D: And he goes, you're so hot. And I said, never gonna get it. Never gonna get it. [00:14:33] Speaker B: Did he. Did he ease up? He took that. [00:14:35] Speaker D: He said, okay, and he left me alone. [00:14:37] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:14:37] Speaker D: But I did. I edited my bio and I stated there's a. [00:14:41] Speaker A: Well, you obviously got something to. To heal around that, considering right there. [00:14:48] Speaker D: For the name Josh. [00:14:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:14:49] Speaker B: But everyone's never gonna go away. [00:14:52] Speaker D: Never gonna go away. [00:14:53] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [00:14:56] Speaker B: So you just put yourself back out there. You put yourself out there. [00:15:01] Speaker A: Literally. [00:15:02] Speaker C: Yeah, a little bit. Yeah. Slightly. [00:15:06] Speaker A: You know, relationships are very important. [00:15:08] Speaker D: That's. That's the line. [00:15:10] Speaker B: No Adams, no Josh, no Adams, no Joshes, no Michaels. [00:15:12] Speaker D: Full stop. [00:15:13] Speaker C: Yeah, you. [00:15:14] Speaker B: You had an ex named Michael. [00:15:16] Speaker A: Anyway, I used to be married to a Brett. [00:15:20] Speaker D: Oh, God, they're all right. [00:15:21] Speaker A: And now I'm married to a Brad. [00:15:23] Speaker B: Yes, I did pick up on that. [00:15:25] Speaker D: Last week, you know. [00:15:26] Speaker A: How confusing. [00:15:27] Speaker B: And they were friends, weren't they? [00:15:28] Speaker A: The best friends. [00:15:29] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:15:30] Speaker B: Yes, I did pick up on that last week. [00:15:32] Speaker A: Was my first husband, very best friend. [00:15:34] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:15:35] Speaker A: And he helped me to do what I needed to do until he died. He was my best support. And you know how confusing it is with Brett and Brad. Quite often I call Brad. So now I don't call him by his name anymore. I call him husband. Husband. I call him honey. I call him baby, but I try and avoid saying his name because after he's the same Brett, it comes up Brett instead of brat sometimes. [00:16:01] Speaker D: How did he react the first time he said that? [00:16:02] Speaker C: Did you ever. [00:16:04] Speaker A: It didn't worry him. He's actually a very understanding guy. And he go, well, I know that you'll make a mistake. Our names are very similar. And I loved him too, so it's okay. [00:16:12] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:16:13] Speaker B: Oh, that's really sweet. [00:16:14] Speaker A: You know, they were the best of mates. Yeah. [00:16:16] Speaker B: Do you know, I found. I found out one of my exes was actually cheating on me. [00:16:20] Speaker C: Right. [00:16:21] Speaker B: And her name was Jessica. Right. [00:16:24] Speaker D: Nobody likes the jazz. And nobody likes as well. [00:16:30] Speaker B: Like, Jess is on this list, short for Jacinda. Anyway. [00:16:33] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:16:33] Speaker D: So he wasn't. [00:16:34] Speaker B: So he called me Jess. And I'm like, why are you calling me Jess? And I'm like, oh, gosh, seven times in one day, right? [00:16:41] Speaker A: Oh, he was spinning faithful with it just in there. Yes, yes. [00:16:46] Speaker B: And I said to. We got back, and his friend was there. I got back home, and I'm like, why are You. And I was out. We're at Bunnings, and I was, like, looking at him going, I know what's going on here. And then we got back and, like, his friend and his missus were there, and they go outside, and I said to her, I said, oh, yeah, Found out about Jess today. And she goes, oh, thank God. It's been so hard keeping it from him. Yeah, dude. Never saw her again. I had a friend's partner. [00:17:14] Speaker D: Damn, girl. [00:17:14] Speaker B: I was smart, you know, I was. [00:17:17] Speaker A: I've dedicated some faithfulness. [00:17:19] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:17:19] Speaker A: It's my pet hate. And I'm the worst person, if you know me, and I'm your friend, to cheat and allow me to see you cheating because. [00:17:36] Speaker D: I'm a bad friend or whatever. I don't care. [00:17:39] Speaker A: Well, I was in Albany working one time, and there was a certain person in a restaurant with another lady. And I knew him very well, and his wife is my best friend. [00:17:48] Speaker C: Oh, wow. [00:17:49] Speaker A: So I walked up to the table, and they were sitting across holding hands, right? And I said, okay. So I walked up and said, hi. What are you doing here? He said, oh, I'm just a winner. Worked here. I can see it's a work trim. That's your Mrs. [00:18:04] Speaker C: Knife. [00:18:05] Speaker D: What a swat. [00:18:06] Speaker A: And he goes, ah, well, you know what it's like. No, I don't know what it's like. And I tell you what. [00:18:11] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:18:12] Speaker A: I said, I'll tell it. Make a deal with you. You know, we go temping bowling on Mondays. So at Mondays, I will mention to her that I saw you in the picture, and I'll show the picture that I took. [00:18:24] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:18:25] Speaker B: So he had to tell her before Monday. [00:18:27] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:18:27] Speaker A: But if you don't. Anyway, we're in bowling, and he came to bowling. That's just fancy having you here. Oh, did you. Did you tell her? [00:18:36] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:18:37] Speaker A: And she goes, tell me what? Go on. [00:18:39] Speaker C: Oh, no. [00:18:41] Speaker B: Oh, I just got chills. [00:18:42] Speaker A: And I just said to her I was sorry. On Friday, when I was working in Albany, he was there with this person. Look at the photo. That's his girlfriend. [00:18:51] Speaker B: And that's your best friend, one of your friends? [00:18:53] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:18:53] Speaker A: Oh, we're still friends. [00:18:54] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:18:55] Speaker A: And she sang me for. She got angry at first. You know, I value this. [00:19:01] Speaker D: Oh, it's very important to have somebody in your corner like that. [00:19:04] Speaker A: Yeah, he was very angry with me. And of course, naturally, just what a. [00:19:08] Speaker D: Hot person to do that. [00:19:12] Speaker A: You know, if you're not happy with the home cooking, you don't buy takeaways. You actually change the menu. [00:19:17] Speaker C: I like that. [00:19:18] Speaker A: You know, you say to come on, let's cook something different. Let's try something new. [00:19:21] Speaker D: I'm gonna use that. [00:19:22] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:19:22] Speaker A: You know. [00:19:24] Speaker B: So did they break up after that? [00:19:27] Speaker A: No, she forgave him. She. They spoke and stuff like that. [00:19:31] Speaker C: And. [00:19:32] Speaker A: And I said, look, if I ever see you anywhere with someone else, I will do it again. [00:19:37] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:19:38] Speaker B: Because what's your view on people like that? Because. [00:19:41] Speaker A: Well, it's sometimes because they're not meant to be together. [00:19:45] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:19:47] Speaker A: Sometimes it's people that just can't help themselves. One partner's not enough. [00:19:51] Speaker C: Yeah. Right. [00:19:51] Speaker B: Yeah, I agree with that. [00:19:53] Speaker A: If you're one of these people that one partner's not enough. You should never get married. [00:19:58] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:19:58] Speaker A: Because you're either married or single. But you've got to respect. Now, if you happen to marry another person that's got the same problem, is okay if you both know about it, you know. [00:20:10] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:20:10] Speaker A: You're not enough. So I'll go get a bit on the side. Whatever. Yeah, fair enough. But one partner per lifetime, and whether you're gay or straight or whatever, it doesn't matter, you know? [00:20:21] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:20:22] Speaker D: But even having that in like an open relationship where you both know about it and you're both like, I don't. [00:20:26] Speaker B: See the point of calling that a. [00:20:27] Speaker D: Relationship, but I'm still gonna come home and sleep next to you. Like, that's just. [00:20:31] Speaker B: That's just. [00:20:31] Speaker A: But that's their choice because they got an open relationship day. [00:20:35] Speaker D: I see that as they're not supposed. [00:20:35] Speaker A: To be together, you know, But I would never go with someone's leftovers. [00:20:40] Speaker D: I'm sorry that getting home. And he's like, oh, let me lick those. Those been licked by someone else or been someone else. Maybe. [00:20:49] Speaker A: Maybe we, we, we. It's all about self respect, big time. You got to respect yourself. You got to respect your partner. You know, I have no tolerance whatsoever. [00:21:00] Speaker D: People that are in relationships like that don't respect themselves and don't value themselves enough. [00:21:04] Speaker A: Yeah. I mean, I say to myself all the time, if you ever not happy with me, tell me. [00:21:10] Speaker D: Tell me straight up. I've always said that. [00:21:12] Speaker C: Tell me. [00:21:12] Speaker D: And if I'm like, you go different. [00:21:13] Speaker A: Ways and we can still be friends right up. [00:21:15] Speaker B: So, yeah, you've got to do it in the right way. [00:21:17] Speaker A: You've got to be respectful. [00:21:18] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:21:19] Speaker A: You know, you've got to be respectful for yourself and someone else. [00:21:21] Speaker D: Other people. You've got to let people go and live their life if they, you know, are not comfortable or happy where they are. [00:21:27] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:21:27] Speaker D: You know, you gotta Let people go. [00:21:30] Speaker A: A girlfriend that came from Bali yesterday to see me as a surprise visit. [00:21:33] Speaker B: Oh, really? Oh, that was that lovely photo. [00:21:36] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:21:36] Speaker A: And we spend the day together. It was so good. And she was, she was pretty upset because one of her oldest friends does not approve of who she's having a relationship with. [00:21:45] Speaker C: Okay. [00:21:46] Speaker A: And she hasn't even really met this guy. And she had this complete opinion of what this guy's like. And you should not see him because you're. While you're with him. I'm not gonna see her set. You know what? Obviously she's not your friend because she's not respecting your decision. [00:21:59] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:21:59] Speaker A: She's not allowing you to enjoy the beautiful relationship you have. And you're with an amazing guy. He treats you like a queen. [00:22:05] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:22:06] Speaker A: And I could not fault him. He happens to be my husband's best friend, which is good. [00:22:10] Speaker D: Oh, okay. [00:22:12] Speaker A: I like that even better. [00:22:13] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:22:13] Speaker A: The point is, it's like I said to her, you, you might got to make your own decision because what this, this girlfriend was telling her, she was starting to question her. Her thoughts and afraid. You need to step away and you need to think. [00:22:25] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:22:26] Speaker A: Relationship starts from the inside out, not from the outside in. [00:22:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:22:31] Speaker A: It's whoever the two couple want. That's what matters. [00:22:34] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:22:34] Speaker A: You never go by outside opinion on your relationship. [00:22:37] Speaker B: No. [00:22:38] Speaker A: Because they're not living your life. They're not walking. So therefore they should not have an opinion of who you should be with or. Or whatever. So you need. Now that you've gone home, you need to think about it very carefully. [00:22:50] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:22:51] Speaker A: And see what you're going to do. So this morning she said about 5 o' clock in the morning she sent her a big email telling her that she's choosing her partner, not her. [00:23:01] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:23:01] Speaker A: And if it means the end of the friendship, well, thank you for all the years that we shared. [00:23:04] Speaker C: Oh, wow. [00:23:05] Speaker A: I wish you the best. And may you find all the happiness in the world. [00:23:09] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:23:10] Speaker B: How can she pass judgment without meeting the person? [00:23:12] Speaker A: Because people do that. What happens? A lot of people, a lot of so called friends. [00:23:16] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:23:17] Speaker A: We don't know that. People are very caring and very loving and very attentive to that. People are so used to you being there at their service, doing things, being available to them. [00:23:27] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:23:27] Speaker A: Whether it's to have a cup of coffee or whether to watch a movie or whether to go and do some healing or meditation. They're so used to having you at the begging call every time. [00:23:34] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:23:35] Speaker A: That when we do fall in love, we do have to Put ourselves first and put that person aside. Right. Which is fair enough. You know, and that's. Therefore, we got to be at. On that space, and that's what happens. A lot of people cannot handle that. You actually got a life. [00:23:52] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [00:23:52] Speaker A: So therefore. [00:23:53] Speaker C: No, I have. [00:23:54] Speaker B: No, you've got to. [00:23:55] Speaker A: You got to make the decision is for me. [00:23:58] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:23:58] Speaker A: You know, so I've got to choose. I should never. You should never have to choose between two people. [00:24:03] Speaker C: No. [00:24:04] Speaker A: You know, you should always respect whatever decision your friend makes in her own personal life, because it's her life. [00:24:08] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:09] Speaker A: You don't pay their bills, so therefore you have no say. [00:24:11] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:12] Speaker A: So then that's the way I explained it to her. And that's. That's what it is. She was so used to having her. Had her begging call all the time. [00:24:18] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:19] Speaker A: And now that she's got a love. Look, I can't because I'm going out to dinner with my partner. [00:24:22] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:23] Speaker A: I'm. We're going away for the weekend. You say, oh, no, he's a bad man. He's taking you away from everybody, you know, and everything you do. [00:24:29] Speaker B: So it was more about herself and her needs of. [00:24:31] Speaker A: That's what I. That's what I made herself. See, I said it's. It's. It's all about her. [00:24:36] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:37] Speaker A: She's losing you. [00:24:38] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:39] Speaker A: She was in a friendship relationship with you. [00:24:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:42] Speaker A: You breaking up the friendship. [00:24:44] Speaker B: Hopefully she reads that. [00:24:46] Speaker A: I hope so. In the good sense. [00:24:47] Speaker C: With. [00:24:48] Speaker B: With the right mindset, because she wrote it beautifully. Did honor her friend. Then if she really does care about her, hopefully she reads that in the right way. [00:24:56] Speaker A: But that's what a lot of people do. [00:24:57] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:24:58] Speaker A: You know, they don't realize we can't force our opinions. And other people. [00:25:01] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:25:02] Speaker A: Everybody got to make their own mistakes, their own lessons, their own. [00:25:05] Speaker C: Yeah, I know. [00:25:05] Speaker B: You know, I just don't need to be making any more mistakes myself. [00:25:08] Speaker C: No. [00:25:09] Speaker B: Are you ready to come back on? I had to turn Beth's microphone off because she had a hysterical laughing feature. [00:25:16] Speaker A: The only reason we make mistakes because we don't. [00:25:19] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:25:20] Speaker A: We got to be number one. We got to be number one. And the only reason we make mistakes is because we change to be in a relationship. And we should never change to be in a relationship. [00:25:29] Speaker C: No. [00:25:29] Speaker A: Whoever you're with, they got to accept you as you are. [00:25:32] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:25:33] Speaker A: And you've got to accept them as they are going to be. Complete acceptance and complete direction. [00:25:38] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:25:38] Speaker A: When I do marriage counseling, quite often I do get them to write a list of Pros and cons. [00:25:45] Speaker C: You're right. [00:25:45] Speaker B: A lot of people do that, actually. [00:25:47] Speaker A: I get them to sit down, and then I get them to swap the list. [00:25:50] Speaker D: Can you imagine seeing all the cons about yourself? [00:25:55] Speaker B: I want to know what my cons. No, I don't. No, I don't. [00:25:59] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:26:00] Speaker B: No. And. And how does. How do they take that, though? [00:26:02] Speaker C: Getting that information. [00:26:05] Speaker B: Would really bruise them. [00:26:07] Speaker A: The other day, just the other day, he was going, I'm not writing that stupid list. What change is that going to make? I said, what, you don't want to know what she thinks you're good at and what you're bad at? You know, oh, you've got nothing to write. [00:26:20] Speaker D: Secret tickle time. [00:26:22] Speaker B: Secret tickle time. [00:26:23] Speaker A: And he said. I said, oh, you got nothing to write? He said, no, I've got lots of. Okay, well, there's a pen and paper. You go to that room and you say here. [00:26:30] Speaker B: Sometimes just that pressure to do that and have those thoughts and put it onto paper, just sometimes that would be overwhelming. But I would imagine. I imagine it would be easy to write nice things, even in counseling. And I would think, like, even just thinking of doing that, that would be kind of hard to do. To write the cons down about your spouse. [00:26:52] Speaker A: Actually, I would say the opposite. [00:26:56] Speaker B: They're already at their dire straits. [00:26:57] Speaker C: Are they? Yeah. [00:27:01] Speaker A: The negative first. [00:27:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:27:03] Speaker B: Do they. [00:27:03] Speaker A: Before they write. [00:27:04] Speaker B: The positive doesn't do the dishes. [00:27:09] Speaker A: You know, I'm not his maid. I'm not his mother. [00:27:12] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:27:14] Speaker B: Well, I mean. And they're. They're general, like, domestic things, but I mean, to write cons about someone's personality or about their behavior. [00:27:24] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:27:24] Speaker B: That would be different. I think it would. I think it would be very. It's really horrible. [00:27:32] Speaker D: Especially. [00:27:32] Speaker C: Do you get people like, yeah. [00:27:34] Speaker D: Supposed to love you? [00:27:35] Speaker C: Like. Yeah. [00:27:36] Speaker B: But I mean, what about doing that about your friends? Like, do conflict resolution if you're not. [00:27:43] Speaker D: Like, you know, the person to stand up when they. Especially as a woman. But when you're with your friends and they're going clothes shopping. [00:27:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:27:49] Speaker D: And they go and they get changed and they come out and ask your opinion? If you're not honest. And I mean straight up. [00:27:55] Speaker A: No. [00:27:55] Speaker D: But yes, you're a friend. [00:27:56] Speaker A: Have you seen people. [00:27:58] Speaker B: Have you seen people in public and you're like, your friends let you go out in there? [00:28:02] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, I have. [00:28:03] Speaker D: And I think, oh, my God, I. [00:28:06] Speaker A: Don'T give a hoot. [00:28:07] Speaker D: I don't care what people think. [00:28:08] Speaker B: I don't care. [00:28:09] Speaker D: And you take my opinion wrong. I'm still gonna tell you the damn truth. I would never let anybody that I care about or love go out looking like an absolute idiot. [00:28:18] Speaker A: You know, I don't. [00:28:19] Speaker B: Let me leave the house like a. [00:28:20] Speaker D: Yeti mutton dressed as lamb. [00:28:23] Speaker A: I'm a bad friend then. Because if we go clothes shopping and you say, how does this look? I said, no, do you like it? Do you feel comfortable in it? Doesn't make you feel good? [00:28:31] Speaker C: Yeah, there's that. [00:28:32] Speaker A: That's all I care about. I really. [00:28:33] Speaker D: That as well. [00:28:34] Speaker A: That's all I care about. [00:28:35] Speaker D: Asking for your opinion. And they straight up look absolutely awful in it. [00:28:38] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:28:39] Speaker D: All the bad bits are hanging out and whatnot. You've got to be honest. You've got to be honest. A couple of girls, right, Big group of girls, and they. They let each other go out looking awful. Yeah, but absolutely, I think that happens to myself. Am I the only person around here that would say something or is it just. Am I the abnormal one that would say something? And I don't. I didn't understand it. [00:29:05] Speaker C: Yeah, but. [00:29:07] Speaker B: Typing. [00:29:08] Speaker D: I witnessed personally a lot of horrible comments and degrading comments and stuff from other people when we were out because what they were wearing didn't suit them at all, didn't fit their body type at all, didn't look great. But all their friends said, oh, you look gorgeous, let's go. And it's just. I think that is absolutely horrible morally. I really believe everything morally, especially as a person. To do that to someone that you supposedly care about and love and whatnot. I just think, no, be honest. Even if it hurts the person, you always got to be honest. But straight up, I do agree, it is about how it makes them feel as well. [00:29:44] Speaker A: Yeah, that's what I'll go. [00:29:45] Speaker D: But if they ask for your opinion, be honest, don't tell them, oh, my God, you look amazing when they look awful. [00:29:50] Speaker B: No, my face wouldn't even let me not be honest. [00:29:56] Speaker A: I mean, if it looks really, really bad, I would say, look, yeah, if you're happy and you're completely happy, you can wear it. But myself, I don't think it looks. [00:30:06] Speaker B: That's what I would say. [00:30:06] Speaker D: But it's your choice, 100%. I've had that myself with the friends that have straight up told me, you. [00:30:14] Speaker A: Know, no, no, no. [00:30:15] Speaker D: I've even had shop attendants straight up tell me, no, I think we should try something else. I appreciate that. Yeah, I appreciate that more than, you know, anything. Because I'm not going out looking absolutely awful because. [00:30:28] Speaker C: Yeah, stupid. [00:30:30] Speaker B: What Is with the mirrors. What is with mirrors at the shop. [00:30:32] Speaker D: What is with mirrors at the hairdressers, man, if you want to go there, they look like a yeti in those things. [00:30:39] Speaker A: Jesus. [00:30:42] Speaker D: I. I look awful every time I go to the hairdresser. [00:30:44] Speaker B: Yeah, it looks. [00:30:44] Speaker D: Every blemish. [00:30:45] Speaker B: It looks like a passport photo or mug shot. Like lighting. [00:30:49] Speaker A: Isn't it terrible, the passport photos? You always look like a cream. [00:30:55] Speaker D: Stay with your license. I reckon they're like. Don't smile. [00:30:58] Speaker B: I look constipated. I look constipated. [00:31:00] Speaker D: My face looks wet. [00:31:01] Speaker A: I look like a cube. [00:31:02] Speaker D: I look like a cube. [00:31:04] Speaker B: I need some Metamucil in mine. [00:31:11] Speaker A: Oh, my God. [00:31:14] Speaker B: All of them, too. Not just one. I'm gonna pull it out. [00:31:17] Speaker A: All of them. [00:31:23] Speaker B: I'm not even kidding. Wait, wait. Where? [00:31:27] Speaker D: I have my lashes on. I looked quite decent, but that's it. Every other ID photo looks so bad. I look square. I don't know what it is. [00:31:35] Speaker B: Constipated. [00:31:35] Speaker D: A nice jawline, but I look constipated. [00:31:40] Speaker A: You know who you look like? She'll be constipated in the movie. [00:31:42] Speaker B: To Serve with Love I have, but I can't. [00:31:45] Speaker A: Do you know that's a blood girl, that. [00:31:49] Speaker D: Straight up. [00:31:50] Speaker A: Oi. [00:31:50] Speaker D: Have you seen the movie I Feel Pretty on Netflix? [00:31:56] Speaker B: Who's that? [00:31:57] Speaker A: I just saw that yesterday. [00:32:01] Speaker B: Now I gotta look. I gotta look this up. I feel. What is it? [00:32:05] Speaker D: What is it? [00:32:06] Speaker A: What's her name? [00:32:06] Speaker D: Someone. LeClaire. Someone LeClaire. I can't remember. [00:32:10] Speaker B: I don't know. Oh, my God. I do look constipated. But seriously, it's. [00:32:14] Speaker D: I feel pretty. [00:32:15] Speaker B: I feel pretty. If this looks nothing like me. [00:32:19] Speaker D: Makeup brand called Lily LeClaire and one of the girls. [00:32:21] Speaker B: Oh, no. Amy Schumer. No, no, no, not her. [00:32:25] Speaker D: No, her. [00:32:27] Speaker B: Michelle Williams. [00:32:28] Speaker A: Yes. [00:32:29] Speaker D: You look like her in your photo. I'm sorry? In that movie. You gotta watch it. [00:32:34] Speaker C: Oh, okay. [00:32:35] Speaker B: All right. Pardon? [00:32:40] Speaker A: Didn't you do a deck of cards once? [00:32:42] Speaker B: Did I? No, no, no. [00:32:45] Speaker D: We've got to watch that later. [00:32:47] Speaker B: But I have been doing things to do things. [00:32:50] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:32:51] Speaker A: In between jobs. [00:32:52] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. No. [00:32:55] Speaker B: Okay. As long as I'm not Amy. Whatever her name is. I mean, not that there's anything wrong with her, but I'm like, that's not who I. [00:33:05] Speaker D: No, no. [00:33:06] Speaker B: Okay. I can do. Oh, she was married to Heath Ledger. I can deal with that. Somebody stop me. [00:33:17] Speaker C: I don't know. [00:33:18] Speaker B: That's the wrong. [00:33:19] Speaker A: Oh, God. [00:33:20] Speaker B: What about your license photo? [00:33:22] Speaker D: Wait, do you want me to go. [00:33:24] Speaker C: Get my Wait, it's. [00:33:25] Speaker B: Come on, come on. If I'm showing you mine and I'm. [00:33:28] Speaker D: A square, I look like a square. [00:33:29] Speaker B: Need some laxatives. Show me yours. [00:33:32] Speaker A: I'll be back. [00:33:33] Speaker B: Okay. [00:33:33] Speaker C: All right. [00:33:34] Speaker A: I can't even catch. I can't get it out. Oh, there it is. That's mine. [00:33:40] Speaker B: Oh, you look nice. Yeah, no, yours is nice. You know, it's actually not even bad lighting. Like, see how you've got glowy cheeks still? These ones, they look so. [00:33:50] Speaker A: Smile. Yeah, I said no, I smile. [00:33:53] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:33:54] Speaker B: Like, I think if you're a smiley person, you should be able to smile. [00:33:58] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:33:58] Speaker B: Because then people like, this isn't you. I'm like, yeah. You know? And if you're trying to not smile, it's not a normal face. [00:34:06] Speaker A: Exactly. [00:34:06] Speaker B: It's so weird. I don't know how we got on. [00:34:09] Speaker C: Yeah, Yeah. [00:34:09] Speaker B: I don't know. We're gonna see Beth's now. No, yours is good. I'd be happy with that one. [00:34:14] Speaker C: All right. Look. [00:34:17] Speaker B: She'S got good lighting. No, no, it looks like a cube. [00:34:21] Speaker C: A cube? [00:34:22] Speaker B: A cube. [00:34:23] Speaker A: No, you are pretty, but that's not pretty. [00:34:26] Speaker D: Look at this one. [00:34:27] Speaker A: That is pretty. [00:34:28] Speaker D: That one's pretty. [00:34:30] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:34:31] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:34:31] Speaker D: See, I look gorgeous there, but, yeah. No, I look like a cube. [00:34:35] Speaker B: That's actually really. [00:34:37] Speaker A: That is a pretty photo. [00:34:38] Speaker B: That is a pretty photo, but not a happy photo. [00:34:42] Speaker A: Yeah, no, but this is a natural pretty photo. [00:34:44] Speaker B: Let me see that one. [00:34:44] Speaker D: I have lashes on there. [00:34:45] Speaker B: I think I look nice. [00:34:47] Speaker C: Oh, wow. [00:34:48] Speaker B: You could be a model, man. [00:34:50] Speaker C: Stop it. You could. [00:34:52] Speaker D: I've got such a defined jawline, that one. [00:34:54] Speaker C: You. You do. [00:34:57] Speaker B: What's the difference? Like, what age difference is that? That's like teens. Is that teens? No. [00:35:04] Speaker C: What? Yeah, See, you're aging. Well, I'm aging. Okay. [00:35:09] Speaker B: Like, I mean, like, obviously, that one's like an early 20s picture, and this one's, like a recent one. Is it? This one's a couple years, so you look better now. Two years ago, most people go, oh, I wish I was that age again. You look better now. [00:35:20] Speaker A: No, it's hot. Hey. [00:35:21] Speaker C: Yeah. You do. Yeah. [00:35:22] Speaker B: Thank you. [00:35:23] Speaker D: Yeah, I always thought that one looked nice. [00:35:25] Speaker B: Don't need to give you any Metamucil, that's for sure. And I'm not sharing Heath with you either. Oh, now that we've done that. So we were chatting a bit before. You've got some retreats coming up. [00:35:39] Speaker A: Yes, I do them four times, five times a year in Binning. Up in the youth camp. In a Christian youth camp. [00:35:44] Speaker C: Right. [00:35:45] Speaker A: And the Idea was a retreat. Pardon? [00:35:49] Speaker B: Well, tell us about it. She wants to go now. [00:35:51] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:35:51] Speaker B: So she hasn't got any spots available until next February. [00:35:54] Speaker A: February. February 1 1. Next year's. Yeah. Of course you can. Yeah. They're not expensive. Only 300 for the weekend. Starts on the Friday night and finishes on the Sunday about 2 o' clock in the afternoon. We stay at a youth camp and it's an old school camp, so it's dormitories, so, you know, twin 20 beds in a room. [00:36:14] Speaker C: Oh, yeah, yeah. [00:36:16] Speaker A: And it's really, really good. It's all depends how many people we have is how many practitioners we have. [00:36:20] Speaker C: Right. [00:36:22] Speaker B: So I'll never tell how many people. [00:36:24] Speaker A: Tell you what we do because it's all planned at the last minute. The retreats are all channeled directly by spirit and we do a lot of sound healing, of course. [00:36:33] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:36:34] Speaker A: We've got singing bowls and a lady place. The flute. [00:36:37] Speaker C: Okay. [00:36:38] Speaker A: As well. [00:36:38] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:36:39] Speaker A: Or the sound here. We've got gongs and stuff like that. So it's a lot of sound healing and there's a lot of spiritual healing in general, like with this Reiki, pranic, all type of thing. And we got a healer that works on. She speaks a different language. Was it cool? Light language. [00:36:58] Speaker C: Light language. [00:36:59] Speaker A: We've got light language healers as well. But it's all, it's. It's a form of healing and they speak a very ancient Indian language. Okay. You know, it's actually amazing. Beautiful. Beautiful too. [00:37:15] Speaker B: I don't think it's something you can learn. I. It just came to me. I was in a Lemurian pyramid getting healing in Mandurah and I suddenly started talking in light language. [00:37:25] Speaker A: It happens. [00:37:26] Speaker C: It happens. Yeah. So. [00:37:29] Speaker A: And so it's quite interesting. And we do, we do a lot of South American traditional. [00:37:35] Speaker C: Things. [00:37:36] Speaker A: We work with the power of the triangle a lot. [00:37:39] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:37:40] Speaker A: So it's, it's very interesting. But what actually is going to happen on the weekend, we can never say because it's all channeled there. Like a spirit knows the people that are there and the people who. They all connect. [00:37:52] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:37:52] Speaker A: And it's kind of funny. It's like, so, God, it's like you planned this just for me. [00:37:56] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:37:56] Speaker A: I said no. [00:37:57] Speaker B: What happens? [00:37:58] Speaker A: They know exactly what you need and that. And it's not just for women. For men and women. [00:38:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:38:03] Speaker A: It's a mix retreat and anybody's welcome. [00:38:07] Speaker C: Right. [00:38:07] Speaker A: I do cut it off at 2. I don't have more than 20 ever. [00:38:10] Speaker C: Right. [00:38:11] Speaker A: Because the smaller, I think the smaller is Better since COVID I'm cut it down to 20. [00:38:18] Speaker C: Right. [00:38:18] Speaker A: But before that I used to have 130. 140. [00:38:21] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:38:22] Speaker A: And it just got too much. [00:38:23] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:38:24] Speaker A: This. It's just too much. I'm getting too old now and I'm. I'm finding it hard to handle 120 people. [00:38:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:38:30] Speaker A: You know, which 20 people is actually. [00:38:32] Speaker B: Really comfortable and I think it would be more intimate. [00:38:35] Speaker C: More. [00:38:35] Speaker A: It is, it's more intimate. I have some very beautiful practitioners to actually work with me. [00:38:41] Speaker C: And I. [00:38:42] Speaker A: And this one that does a spinal flow. [00:38:45] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:38:47] Speaker A: We. There's a young lady that does breath work and she, you know, she said she might join us and do some breath work. I said that'd be great. I said, but we do need someone to do breath work as well. I think it's a very good modality. [00:39:01] Speaker B: It is amazing, you know. [00:39:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:39:03] Speaker A: So we're always looking for people. We like to promote other people. We really love promoting other. Genuine. [00:39:10] Speaker B: Yeah, that's a big thing. [00:39:11] Speaker A: They got to be genuine. So normally if someone wants to be a practitioner where they got to pay for the first three workshops and assess them out and, and watch them and make sure that they're not acting. That they are really genuine practitioners. [00:39:27] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:39:27] Speaker A: And then after that, I don't pay the practitioners. It's not a money making exercise, I'm afraid. [00:39:34] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:39:35] Speaker A: Or we do for the practitioners. The practitioners don't pay. [00:39:38] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:39:38] Speaker A: But they do offer this service and there's a box of donations. [00:39:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:39:43] Speaker A: In the workshop in the corner and everybody's a donation. And at the end I divide whatever donation between the practitioners. I don't take any. [00:39:50] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:39:50] Speaker A: I just divide it between the practitioners. That's cool. You know, it's the only way that a. And sort of give them something. The deer is. It's got very angry with the spirituality becoming Hollywood spirituality. [00:40:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:40:03] Speaker A: There's too many people that are running workshops and running things and they're charging like a wounded bull. [00:40:09] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:40:09] Speaker A: So the people that really do need to go to these workshops, people that really need to help, they cannot afford it. [00:40:15] Speaker C: No. [00:40:15] Speaker A: Now the way they keep the cost down a little bit as well is that we all bring food to share. [00:40:20] Speaker C: Right. [00:40:20] Speaker A: So everybody brings two dishes. [00:40:23] Speaker C: Okay. [00:40:23] Speaker A: I love that everybody brings two dishes. [00:40:25] Speaker B: That's cool. [00:40:25] Speaker A: We've got a call room, a full equipped kitchen, everything like that. So everybody rings, everybody brings stuff you have. [00:40:31] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:40:31] Speaker D: Different cultured meals. [00:40:33] Speaker C: Yeah, exactly. [00:40:33] Speaker A: It's really good. We had a beautiful smorgasbord. We eat too much in them though, anyway, so we have. Everybody brings two dishes for the whole weekend and there's enough food to share with everybody and, and you've got to bring your own linen for your bed. Get. We get a mattress. Yeah, but you've got to bring your own linen and that way the price is cut down. [00:40:53] Speaker C: Yeah, a lot. Yeah. [00:40:55] Speaker A: People got to make your beds and stuff like that. It's really, it is enough. The idea is to be, make it affordable so everybody can go away for the weekend. Get a lot of healing, get a lot of learning, evolve and meet other genuine people. [00:41:08] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:41:09] Speaker A: You know, I've got people that have been going for the whole 30 years. [00:41:12] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:41:13] Speaker B: Wow. [00:41:13] Speaker A: You know, so yes, it's, it's been very successful. [00:41:16] Speaker B: And so that's the next one that you've got coming up, isn't it? [00:41:19] Speaker A: The next one is in October and We're celebrating our 30 year anniversary but sadly we're not opening that to any newcomers for that one. So we really are honoring the people that have been there for, for some time. [00:41:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:41:31] Speaker A: And we're going to have a private one. [00:41:32] Speaker D: Pardon, New people is next year then. [00:41:36] Speaker B: New people next in February. [00:41:38] Speaker C: February, yeah. [00:41:38] Speaker A: Yeah. From Fairy. It's only that one. We've never done this before. [00:41:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:41:42] Speaker D: Before you head off today because I would love to sign up for that. [00:41:45] Speaker B: Yeah, no, I've got, I've got the details. [00:41:47] Speaker A: Yeah. Oh yeah, the details are we're on Facebook anyway, you know, you just got to pay a deposit of, of $50 and, and you drop down when you write down when you get booked up really quickly or. Pardon? [00:41:59] Speaker D: Do you get booked up really quickly? [00:42:00] Speaker B: Yes, very quickly, obviously. [00:42:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:42:02] Speaker B: If there's 20 spots. [00:42:04] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:42:05] Speaker A: And you put a deposit to save your spot and when you put deposit, make sure at the bank you write your name and the camp that you're going to attend. So okay, this is the deposit. This is Beth. And the deposit for February beating up weekend or the May one or the August one or the September one or the October one, whatever, you know, November next year. [00:42:26] Speaker D: Yeah, you know, really interested. [00:42:28] Speaker A: Yes. So we do that and I think it's the 16th of December. The first February, the first one next year. Yeah, but the dates, all the dates for next year are already on Facebook. [00:42:40] Speaker B: Yeah, I did read them. [00:42:41] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:42:44] Speaker A: Yeah. So it's really, really good. And yeah. And you just gotta. I don't think the bank details are there. [00:42:51] Speaker B: Well, I'm sure if, you know, on, if you go on your face anyway it's good because I normally don't put. [00:42:56] Speaker A: The bank Details on it. Because I'd rather people call me. [00:43:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:43:00] Speaker B: And that way you can. [00:43:01] Speaker A: And that way I can keep records of who's going and stuff like that. And then I can double check, make sure that the possibly put in. And then it's got to be fully paid a fortnight before the weekend. [00:43:11] Speaker B: No worries. [00:43:12] Speaker A: So a lot of people pay them off, even though it's only 300, but a lot of people see if they paid off for whatever budget. And that's the idea. Try and make it affordable for everybody to be able to come and learn and evolve. I mean, we're all here to learn and grow. [00:43:25] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:43:26] Speaker B: You know, No, I think that's. [00:43:27] Speaker A: And that's what we believe. And that's why Binning up has always been so successful. Because of that. [00:43:33] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:43:34] Speaker A: The practitioners that I do have there allow them to promote themselves. Like, they can bring business cards, they can bring the stuff. So then people know how to reach them outside. [00:43:42] Speaker B: Outside of the outside. [00:43:43] Speaker A: The weekend. [00:43:44] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:43:45] Speaker A: You know, because in there you get all the. All the treatments for free. Like, none of us charge for our treatments on the weekend. [00:43:52] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:43:53] Speaker A: So you get. If you try everything for free. [00:43:55] Speaker C: Okay. [00:43:56] Speaker A: You know, you just pay your 300 for the weekend. [00:43:58] Speaker C: Yep. [00:43:58] Speaker A: And that covers costs and things like that. A lot of incidentals, but you don't pay for any extra treatment. But there's a donation box there in the corner, and that's the only payment that my practitioners get. [00:44:10] Speaker C: Okay. [00:44:11] Speaker B: So that way, do they do swaps with each other as well, like. [00:44:14] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, that'd be cool. You know, the more bits we have, the more work we can do. [00:44:20] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:44:21] Speaker A: So I try and encourage people. If you go to bed, bring it up. [00:44:23] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:44:24] Speaker A: You know, bring it up and we'll set it up. Because the more bits we have, the better it is. And we all share and we all. All work together. [00:44:30] Speaker B: I love that. And I love that it's authentic and genuine people and not just all this. [00:44:35] Speaker A: Exactly. You know, I just got really tired that. I got tired of hearing people, they wanted to do a tarot workshop. There was a lady that wanted to do a tarot workshop, and she paid a thousand dollars for a tarot workshop. That's a lot of money for easy. And people are paying it, though, you know, And. And then I was having one a fortnight later, which was only 300. Right. And I had tarot decks to sell there. [00:45:01] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:45:02] Speaker A: So you could buy your tarot deck there. And she says, I can't believe it. I just spent a thousand dollars on this other workshop. There was 200 people in the room and I'd really learned nothing. I've been here for two days with you and it's like I can feel that I can do a reading. [00:45:17] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:45:19] Speaker A: You know, but to be fair, it's not that I teach card reading as Read every card. I teach you to energize the card and really channel. You really learn to channel immediate. Really? [00:45:34] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:45:36] Speaker B: I've done quite a few workshops, actually, when I first started getting my gifts kick in, after I did mention it before, I did start going to classes, like spiritual classes and that. And, you know, you meet some amazing people. Some people I'm still part of the journey with. But you do meet the. The frauds that are just doing things for money or. Or, you know, or trying to see what you are capable of and then, you know, stop you from doing it. [00:46:04] Speaker A: Exactly. And they. [00:46:06] Speaker B: They're out there. [00:46:06] Speaker A: They are sad. It's very sad because there are psychosis psychics out there. There are blocking other psychics. [00:46:11] Speaker C: Yes, yes. [00:46:12] Speaker A: Purposely. [00:46:13] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:46:13] Speaker A: Because, oh, my God, she's actually doing a better job than me. I can't have that. [00:46:18] Speaker C: Yes. [00:46:18] Speaker B: What is that? There's no room for that. I don't. [00:46:22] Speaker C: It. [00:46:22] Speaker A: There's no need for it. [00:46:23] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:46:24] Speaker A: No need for it at all. [00:46:25] Speaker C: None. [00:46:26] Speaker B: No. [00:46:26] Speaker A: No need. [00:46:27] Speaker C: No. [00:46:27] Speaker A: And there's enough in my eyes. There's no room for it. [00:46:30] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [00:46:31] Speaker A: You know, like I said last week, a lady came out and talked about her reading. I just kicked her ass. And no, you can go home. [00:46:36] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:46:37] Speaker A: You know, you've got to have respect, integrity. You know, you've got to really know where you are. [00:46:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:46:42] Speaker B: And it is confidentiality. [00:46:44] Speaker A: It is confidentiality and respect. [00:46:45] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:46:46] Speaker A: For yourself as well as for your client. [00:46:48] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. What? [00:46:52] Speaker D: And not using AI for your client. [00:46:55] Speaker A: No. AI should not be used in anything. I mean, I know a lot of people. There's a lot of people. There's a lot of people that are using than AI. [00:47:02] Speaker C: Yep. [00:47:03] Speaker A: Lots. [00:47:03] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:47:03] Speaker A: And it shouldn't be allowed. [00:47:05] Speaker D: I mean, shameful to me, you know, it is. [00:47:07] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:47:08] Speaker A: It's dishonest. You're not doing nothing. [00:47:09] Speaker D: Yeah, exactly. What happens. [00:47:10] Speaker A: Why should you get the credit for something you're not doing at all? [00:47:13] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. No. [00:47:14] Speaker A: You know, so I'm afraid when you come and see me, you will not see a computer on site. You won't see anything. It'll be just me, you and a book in a pen. [00:47:21] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. That's the way it should be. [00:47:23] Speaker B: So when I first met Beth, she Actually came in for a reading with me. [00:47:28] Speaker C: Do you remember that? [00:47:29] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:47:29] Speaker B: And you were there for like two and a half hours. [00:47:31] Speaker D: I know. [00:47:34] Speaker B: I know. [00:47:35] Speaker C: It was. [00:47:35] Speaker D: Yeah, it was spin out. [00:47:36] Speaker C: Yeah, it was spin out. [00:47:38] Speaker D: She told me things that she couldn't. Couldn't have known about me. [00:47:41] Speaker A: That's beautiful. [00:47:42] Speaker B: And I. I didn't. I don't. I didn't use cards. I just get. I actually just get them to knock their energy into the cards. [00:47:49] Speaker A: Yeah, I'll do that. Yeah. [00:47:49] Speaker C: Do you? [00:47:50] Speaker A: Yeah, yeah, I do that. [00:47:51] Speaker D: I think we did four cards at the end. [00:47:53] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:47:53] Speaker D: And that was at the. At the very end. And you sent me my reading for that. But everything else we spoke about she got from my energy. And. [00:47:59] Speaker A: And that's how it should be. [00:48:00] Speaker D: It was unbelievable, the things that she told me she couldn't have known. And it really spun me out. [00:48:04] Speaker A: So that is beautiful. [00:48:05] Speaker C: Yeah, I know. [00:48:06] Speaker D: It was real from that. [00:48:08] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:48:08] Speaker D: She knew nothing about me. I never told her a single thing about me. [00:48:11] Speaker B: We just met. [00:48:11] Speaker D: We just met. And she basically relate a lot of things that I already know and understand and need help understanding as well. And it just spun me out because she couldn't have known those things about me. [00:48:21] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:48:22] Speaker A: And now. Now. [00:48:23] Speaker D: Unless she was authentic. [00:48:24] Speaker C: So. Yeah, yeah, yeah. [00:48:25] Speaker D: Now. [00:48:26] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:48:27] Speaker A: I mean, I've got a few friends like that that I've met through readings. [00:48:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:48:30] Speaker D: So the best of my life changing. I feel like I was meant to meet Jen. It really helped me. I believe, in a sense, to grow as a person. And I feel like I am still growing and God knows where life's gonna take me next, you know, so. [00:48:44] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:48:44] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:48:45] Speaker B: Now you're on the radio. So you are. So we all cool? [00:48:50] Speaker C: All right. [00:48:50] Speaker B: We might cut to a song. What have I got? Let's go three doors down with some kryptonite. With all the things on IPL Radio. [00:48:58] Speaker A: Your voice, your community station. You are listening to IPL Radio and. [00:49:05] Speaker B: You'Re back in the studio with all the Things with Jen. [00:49:08] Speaker A: Jen and Selva. [00:49:11] Speaker B: I point to you so you guys can say your names. That's how it goes. That's how it goes. [00:49:16] Speaker C: Yes. [00:49:16] Speaker A: The Three Monkeys. [00:49:17] Speaker B: Yeah, The Three Monkeys. That was odd timing. [00:49:22] Speaker C: Yes. [00:49:24] Speaker A: Swallow no evil. [00:49:26] Speaker B: Too late. We were just talking about the time when I was in the studio here with Gail and we had a. We had a visitor and he turned the fan on. He made the whole room go really cold. And, like, I felt like, you know, I could tell he had a heart attack. And I knew it was with the building right and while I'm talking about this on air, we're like, oh my God, you just turn the fan on. You know. So I didn't try and tune into him. I just let him know that, you know, fine, whatever, because I was actually on air as well, and because it wasn't a personal thing for Gail either, so. But then I had someone let me know that the guy next door in Veal's Auto Parts there had actually passed away and had a heart attack just recently. So. [00:50:12] Speaker A: It's amazing. [00:50:13] Speaker C: Yeah, it's pretty cool. [00:50:14] Speaker B: But you know how you said luckily it was. Wasn't summer, so what happened One time. Oh my God, it was so bad, and I feel so bad. So it was my sister in law's birthday, it was Australia Day, and It was like 40 degrees. Something crazy. 40 something. And I was setting up to have like a little party in the backyard. And I'm out the back and I'm like, what's that smell? What's it? And I'm like, I'm saying to my brother and Lisa, I'm like, what is that smell? And I said, it smells like someone's died. [00:50:44] Speaker C: Right? [00:50:45] Speaker B: I kid you not. Within 20 minutes of that comment, I'd walked out the front and there was an ambulance and the lady next door had died. And I'm like, it was. It was that bad? I would hate to. Yeah, that was. [00:50:59] Speaker A: That actually happened. [00:51:00] Speaker B: So from then on, everyone's like, don't try and pick what's going on there because you'll end up picking it and someone will die. [00:51:08] Speaker A: But I remember once I was doing a show with him with Radio west on, with Cliff Reeves. He was, he was there, the. The guy, the main guy. And I was just. I used to do a show once a week and I used. We used to take callbacks all the time. And the lady rang up and I was talking to her and then I said, you better get off the phone and call an ambulance because your husband's having a heart attack and you're from Garden, so you better go and do that. And she looked at the window and she was. So she hanged up and called an ambulance, but the ambulance was listening, right? And. And she said, the suburb that she was in before that. So the Amaz already left the hospital when I said that. [00:51:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:51:50] Speaker A: And they were going towards him when they rang and say, yeah, there's an ambulance on the way already. And then she said, oh, God, thank you, you know, and they said, you know, that probably saved his life because he really. We got there just in time. [00:52:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:52:02] Speaker B: Right. [00:52:02] Speaker A: But he was in the front garden pruning his roses and. [00:52:06] Speaker C: All right. [00:52:07] Speaker A: And it just. Just happened. It was so funny. [00:52:09] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:52:10] Speaker A: And one of. One of the. That. The. A happy thing. It wasn't happy, I suppose it was an interesting. We had a. I used to go into the show every breakfast in Monday morning in Radio west and down in Bunbury. It's not called Radio Western. It's called Triple M now. [00:52:26] Speaker C: Oh, yeah. [00:52:30] Speaker D: Triple M radio. [00:52:31] Speaker C: Hey. [00:52:32] Speaker A: Yeah. And there was a basketballer in there that used to play for the Slammers down south, and he hurt his shoulder on the game the night before in that. And I was driving to the station. I can't think of his name. I hate that when I can't remember his name. And I was driving to the station and suddenly I got this. This pain on my shoulder more. Listen to his voice. And then I asked, okay. Said mine, said, no, it's. It's his. [00:52:58] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:52:58] Speaker A: You got to tell him to do something about it and fix something. So I went up and said, shut up. Listen to me. He says to Cliff, who's this? [00:53:10] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:53:10] Speaker A: And he goes, oh, that's Silver. [00:53:12] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:53:12] Speaker A: Oh, no. And, like, it was incredible. So, yeah, I fell over on the court last night. And this. This morning, I'm finding a moon. Yeah. Because he's blocked under there. You've got a clot under there. You've got to get a fish. You've got to go to the hospital straight away. [00:53:24] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:53:24] Speaker A: Right. Before it becomes a heart attack or a different connection. [00:53:27] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:53:28] Speaker A: So James Finch. [00:53:29] Speaker C: Oh, there we go. All right. [00:53:31] Speaker A: Anyway, we became really good friends after that. And of course, then my son became a professional basketball coach. [00:53:36] Speaker C: Okay. [00:53:38] Speaker A: And he was. He was coaching Perry Lakes at the time. My son was. And James was there. [00:53:47] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:53:47] Speaker A: And he says, what's your name? So Charles Nicks says, Charles Nix. Were you related to Silver Nicks by any chance? And he goes, she's my mother. No, he said, he's that good about. He said, that's great. How is your mum? Where is she? Oh, she's coming in a minute. [00:54:02] Speaker B: All right. [00:54:03] Speaker A: I would go to every game, of course. [00:54:04] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:05] Speaker A: And it was good to see him, like. [00:54:06] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:06] Speaker A: Like, it's funny, I think told me then that, yes, I went to the hospital. There's also a clot that was. They had a traveling clot. [00:54:13] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:13] Speaker A: And he was heading to that direction. He said, you're lucky you came to the hospital because you could have been in serious trouble. [00:54:21] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [00:54:22] Speaker A: So it's incredible, you know, spirits are Amazing. [00:54:24] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:24] Speaker A: They do work with you. [00:54:25] Speaker C: It's. [00:54:25] Speaker A: You don't have to fear them. [00:54:27] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:27] Speaker A: You know. [00:54:28] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:28] Speaker B: No, it is, it is. It feels like a real big blessing to be able to. [00:54:32] Speaker A: On another. Don't. [00:54:33] Speaker C: What? [00:54:34] Speaker A: Everything that happens to you in your body, this happening for a reason. We're talking about that earlier. [00:54:39] Speaker C: Yeah, we were. [00:54:39] Speaker B: When we were locked. [00:54:41] Speaker A: You know, like the left hand side is all about the family, the close ones, those people that matter to you. And the right hand side is all the externals, like business acquaintances for people you meet, people that don't really matter to it, but they do affect you. [00:54:54] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:54:54] Speaker A: You know, so if something happening on your. On your right hand side that you know it's coming from the outside of your main line. [00:55:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:55:01] Speaker A: If it's happening on your left line, then you know that it's coming from something personal. You need to look into it and fix it because you got to live with that, whatever it might be. [00:55:08] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:55:08] Speaker A: You know, like if you got bad knees, you're scared of moving forward, for example. [00:55:12] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:55:12] Speaker A: You know, if you get a neck that's dislocated all the time, it's because you don't like facing the truth. [00:55:18] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:55:19] Speaker A: You know, if you get burning sensation as your throat, it's like you're. That means your throat chakra is blocked. So therefore there's something you're not saying. You're not speaking. You're not really saying what you mean or meaning what you're saying. [00:55:28] Speaker B: I lose my voice. [00:55:31] Speaker A: You could have really fix that. [00:55:32] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:55:32] Speaker A: You've got to be open in direction. [00:55:34] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:55:34] Speaker A: I mean, breast cancer is very well known that it's about not loving yourself enough. You're living, giving all your love away and you're not considering you. [00:55:42] Speaker C: That's. Yeah. [00:55:43] Speaker A: You know, you need to consider you. You know. [00:55:46] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:55:46] Speaker B: That's something I'm looking at these last. [00:55:48] Speaker A: 24 hours, you know, and if you look at that, if you, if you actually look the meaning of an area of your body that is affected by your emotions and that's what's become. Because a lot of people go to the doctor. Doctors. How many people go to the doctors and they feel unwell before they become physically ill, they go to the doctor. [00:56:04] Speaker B: And they're like, there's nothing wrong with you. [00:56:07] Speaker A: The doctors, they do a magnificent job, a beautiful job, but they can only diagnose it once it hits your physical body. But we do have other spiritual bodies outside that they get sick before your physical body does. So you get the warning then. So if you can actually start thinking, okay, why do I feel this way? Let's look into it. You could prevent an illness. [00:56:30] Speaker C: Yep. [00:56:31] Speaker A: And that's why people go into spiritual healing and meditation and. [00:56:35] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:56:35] Speaker A: Breath work or kinesiology, reflexology, all those beautiful modalities that are out there. If you find a genuine practitioner, you're home in house. [00:56:46] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [00:56:48] Speaker B: No, I think it's more than. Obviously everything is in layers, isn't it? [00:56:52] Speaker A: Is. [00:56:52] Speaker C: It is. [00:56:53] Speaker B: So you have to treat it in layers. [00:56:54] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:56:55] Speaker B: And so sometimes just treating the physical is not going to fix it. You've got to go to the root and the core of it. And I've been looking at things like that. I mean I've got frequency, I do frequency healing and different things like that. But like even just going through these breast cancer scare thingy and dealing with that, you know, today I went and got a referral for a mammogram after whatever. And then you just saying that that's, that's, that's the exact issue that I have. Was. [00:57:28] Speaker A: It does, it does. [00:57:29] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:57:30] Speaker A: Okay, let's take a step back. [00:57:32] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:57:33] Speaker A: Let's think. Okay. Why am I doing this? You know, you've got to really. I said sometimes we, we stay in situations or on obligations that we don't need to do anymore. [00:57:43] Speaker C: Yes. Yeah. [00:57:44] Speaker A: Why am I doing that? It's not my job. [00:57:46] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:57:47] Speaker A: You know, I was talking to my grandson. He, we went out to lunch today and it was so wonderful. And he's turning 21 in two weeks time. [00:57:54] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:57:54] Speaker A: So he, he, he said it's time for me to become an independent adult. So I want to come out of my mum and dad's Medicare card, which to a lot of people think that's nothing. [00:58:05] Speaker B: That's a big thing though. Yeah, I remember that. [00:58:07] Speaker A: It's like he went to Medicare today. He looked into it. He took his date of birth, he took all his information, he had it all changed. He's getting his own new Medicard ass off the 1st of September, which is his birthday. You're 21 now, so you become your own person. And he said, wow, I, I can't believe I did that. And I feel so good, you know. And he was saying it's just so important to become his person because he said, I still feel like a kid, but having that Medicare card, that is my Medicare and nobody else is in it. Just me. Is my Medicare got my name, my dad of birth, my number. It just gives me that identity. [00:58:47] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:58:47] Speaker A: That I am a person. I've got to start thinking of me. [00:58:50] Speaker B: Independence. [00:58:51] Speaker A: I don't have to rely on other people to make decisions. [00:58:54] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:58:54] Speaker A: In my life. [00:58:55] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:58:56] Speaker B: Sometimes the little things can become big things or. Or they're big to someone. [00:59:00] Speaker A: Yeah. [00:59:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:00] Speaker B: And it seems like nothing. [00:59:01] Speaker A: Yeah. You just put a deposit on a. On a block of land in a house. [00:59:05] Speaker C: Yep. [00:59:05] Speaker A: Which. The house would be built by August next year. And he said in all these little things that he's doing, he said, I, you know, that they're my responsibility in my life. And it's just. It's so good to see that it's actually not just doing it. He's taking that time to think, why am I doing this? [00:59:20] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:21] Speaker A: You know. [00:59:21] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:22] Speaker A: Which is so important. [00:59:23] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:24] Speaker A: Very important. [00:59:25] Speaker B: No, that's amazing. [00:59:26] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:27] Speaker A: You know, it's all about self connection. [00:59:29] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:29] Speaker A: Because you got to live with you, you know, your whole life. You've got to live with you. [00:59:32] Speaker C: Yeah. [00:59:33] Speaker A: No, and if you don't make yourself a priority, if you don't think of you, you're not going to be strong enough to handle anybody else. [00:59:38] Speaker B: I feel like you're calling me out on this one. [00:59:40] Speaker C: Hey. [00:59:41] Speaker B: Because this is exactly what I've doing. Been processing these last few days. It is a big thing. You know, I put so much into everything else that I've left myself like this, you know, and I think a lot of us do that. And then it takes just a complete burnout to just go, hang on a minute. [00:59:59] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:00:00] Speaker B: You know, and then there's no one there. Or, you know, all the people that you're helping and saving and everything. Where are they when you need it? So it's, you know, it's all about reflection and. And retrospect and doing what's right and. And filling your cup first before. [01:00:18] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:00:18] Speaker B: Because I've been trying to pull from an empty cup for a while now and it's. [01:00:22] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:00:22] Speaker B: I'm just now going, hang on, Jen, you got to stop. [01:00:24] Speaker A: It's so easy to help someone else out. [01:00:27] Speaker B: It is. [01:00:27] Speaker A: It's easy to help someone else. [01:00:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:00:30] Speaker A: To be there for someone else. [01:00:32] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:00:32] Speaker A: But then you've got to look after you. You got to be there for you because otherwise you're not going to have the strength to help anybody anyway. [01:00:39] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:00:39] Speaker B: I guess that I've been in that situation and this is something I've been thinking about these last few days, particularly. [01:00:46] Speaker C: I. [01:00:47] Speaker B: It's hard for me to say no and it's not. [01:00:50] Speaker A: I can relate to that. [01:00:51] Speaker B: You know, like you. You know what it's like to have no one or nothing. And be completely stuck or completely broken. So you kind of don't want to be that. You don't want to let anyone else go through that. But in saying that and I've been learning about becoming the, you know, the rescuer and, and yeah, you know, if you go and rescue everyone, you're depriving them of that lesson and that journey. And so even though it, you know, makes me feel good about myself, it's not really helping them. Certain things obviously, but not everything, you know. And so I've had to re evaluate how I get those feel good feelings about myself from helping people without making it wreck me and without. Without doing it for them. [01:01:38] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:01:39] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:01:40] Speaker B: You're not helping them if you, if you're not. If you do it for them. [01:01:43] Speaker A: That's right. You know, I mean, I go when people come for counseling and stuff like that and they sit there and I listen to them and I do listen to very, very attentively in that. But I don't give him solutions. I actually say to him, what, what are you going to do about it? [01:01:58] Speaker B: I did the same thing. You know, they get so frustrated, don't they? [01:02:01] Speaker A: They do. They're just like, can't you just tell me exactly? Yeah, I said I can't tell because I'm not you. [01:02:07] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:07] Speaker A: So the way that I would deal with each this situation may not be the same way you would deal with it because I'm not you and you're not me. [01:02:14] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:15] Speaker A: So we do gotta look at it our own way. [01:02:18] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:19] Speaker A: So tell me how you going to do, what are you going to do about it? How are you going to work with this? [01:02:24] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:25] Speaker A: You know, I might be able to support you in the journey, but it's got to come from you. [01:02:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:30] Speaker A: Because you have the key, we all have the key that we can open the door of happiness, of the future. [01:02:37] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:38] Speaker A: But we've got to learn to let go of all the negative thoughts and all the things that we carry. You know, some people tend to tell you the same story over and over and over and over again. [01:02:48] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:49] Speaker A: You know. [01:02:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:50] Speaker A: And at the end, you know, I got, I recorded that situation. Don't worry, you don't have to repeat it. I've heard it a hundred times. [01:02:56] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:02:57] Speaker A: You know, I want you to tell me the solution now. [01:02:59] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:03:00] Speaker A: Because I don't want to hear it again. [01:03:01] Speaker C: Yes. [01:03:02] Speaker A: You know, and some people think you're, you're being cruel, but you're not being. [01:03:05] Speaker B: But they get stuck in the storytelling. [01:03:07] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:03:08] Speaker C: Yeah, exactly. [01:03:09] Speaker A: It's like this. There was, there was a couple, you know, there was this particular guy was coming on, they said, I'm not happy with my wife, I'm not happy with my wife and I will do something about it, discuss it with her. He said, look, we decided we're going to have counselor, great counseling. And they came in and he was so nice and lovey dovey to his wife while he was there. And I said, hey, wait a minute, you make the booking because you told me you're not happy with your wife and now you're praising her. [01:03:36] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:03:37] Speaker A: So which is it, right? Are you happy with it or not? [01:03:41] Speaker B: Or is he not being honest? [01:03:42] Speaker A: You know, you got to be honest. If you, if you say something suited for. Together we can get through this, we can rectify that and you can become closer together. Yeah, but if you're not suited to each other, she can find more happiness and you can find happiness too. [01:03:57] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:03:58] Speaker A: But don't you come here saying that she's a beautiful person now. [01:04:02] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:04:02] Speaker B: When you make the appointment, you told. [01:04:04] Speaker A: Me yesterday that you weren't happy with that. [01:04:06] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:04:06] Speaker A: So which is it? Yeah, you know, and she goes, did you? And go, yeah, you know, there's things you do and says, well what do I do? Tell me. [01:04:15] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [01:04:17] Speaker B: You know, so maybe it was just trying to soften the blow first. [01:04:20] Speaker A: Yeah. But you know, not by making up a story of. [01:04:24] Speaker B: No. [01:04:26] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:04:26] Speaker A: So we gotta, we've got to be aware that we have the power to change our lives. [01:04:31] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [01:04:32] Speaker A: And sometimes we've got to say things we may not want to say. [01:04:35] Speaker B: Yes, I know, that's my, we owe. [01:04:38] Speaker A: That respect to someone else and tell them, look, I'm not happy about that. In. And this is just not acceptable. Like I use me as an example, right. My first husband, God bless him, may he rest in peace, he had the bad habit. He was a very social butterfly. So we'll go to the pub, right. And this was, this happened for 30 years. I never did anything about it actually. And I used to really get me on my nerves. We'll go out to the pub, we'll have dinner, we eat dinner and then he'll go in social and I'll be left there sitting at the table by myself because he's out talking to every Tom, Dick and Harry, you know. [01:05:12] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:05:13] Speaker A: And if he gets so annoyed and then at the end of the night I will drive home. Right. Because the non drinker drives. Right. [01:05:20] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:05:20] Speaker A: I would drive home and it's fine. The next time we'll do it Again. And this went on for 30 years. And it's something that I never fixed. I never fixed that. The whole marriage. The whole 30 year marriage. Because by the time we left there. And I would never discuss things like that in public or anything like that. So you wait until you go home to say, by the time I get home, I've forgotten about it. [01:05:41] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:05:42] Speaker A: We're back talking in the car and everything's good. So who cares, you know? [01:05:45] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:05:46] Speaker A: But I really hate it. But I never realized how much I hated it until me and Brad, my second husband, went out. Yeah, we went to the pub. He's one of. Him and Brett were good friends. So he was one of the guys that he'd be talking to. [01:05:59] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah. [01:06:00] Speaker B: He was one of the butterflies as well. [01:06:02] Speaker A: Anyway, I went, we sat on the bar, we had a meal, and I'll be back in a minute. I got it all. And he never came back for an hour, actually. Never came back. Actually, in about an hour and a half, I went looking for it. So I know exactly where he'll be. He'll be near the fire pit talking to his man. And I blasted him. But I was really blessing. I was really blasting my late husband. [01:06:25] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:06:25] Speaker A: Because as I said in. This is our first night that we went out together. [01:06:29] Speaker B: Oh, really? [01:06:30] Speaker A: I just blasted him. Like, really. I embarrassed him, really. [01:06:34] Speaker B: Oh, really. [01:06:35] Speaker A: But I was. It wasn't. [01:06:36] Speaker B: He was 30 years of built up. [01:06:40] Speaker A: And then I just went home. [01:06:41] Speaker B: And especially if he was your previous husband's best friend and he was one of the ones he was socializing with and you were chill with him. Then all of a sudden you go out for the first time and you're going off. He would have just not known what was happening. [01:06:54] Speaker A: Exactly. And I just blasted him. I just gave him 30 years of hate. And he just looked at me. He turned around and said something to. Kept talking to the guys, Right. [01:07:08] Speaker B: Oh, frick. [01:07:11] Speaker A: I went home. [01:07:11] Speaker D: That would have sent me a. [01:07:16] Speaker A: So I went home, you know, it's over. [01:07:18] Speaker D: Rude not even give you a response. [01:07:20] Speaker B: So you went home. I went home and he stayed. [01:07:22] Speaker A: And then he got home a little bit later. And I went to say, no, don't talk to me, because if I say something now, I'm gonna regret what I say. Yeah, okay. Just let me cool down. But there was no way I was going to respond to you in there. I didn't mean to turn around to ignore you. It was because I love you. And I said, I need to find another way to deal with this. [01:07:45] Speaker C: I can't Just. [01:07:46] Speaker A: Just bite your head off back because you bit my head off, he says, But I was shocked, he said, because I've never seen you do that ever in 30 years that we've been friends. [01:07:55] Speaker D: The whole time I've known you. [01:07:57] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:07:59] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:08:00] Speaker B: I thought you were cool with this. You were like this with Brad. [01:08:02] Speaker A: Exactly. I've never seen you lose you cool in 30 years I've known you. And I said, well, I. I just think I just unloaded on you and I just walked away. The next day we talked about it, and I said, well, you know, just remember, don't ever do that. [01:08:17] Speaker C: Yep. [01:08:18] Speaker A: You know, if you go out with me, you go out with me. [01:08:20] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:08:21] Speaker A: So where you go, I go. [01:08:22] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:08:23] Speaker A: Where I go, you go. The only place you cannot come with me is the toilet. [01:08:26] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:08:27] Speaker A: Apart from that. [01:08:28] Speaker B: I'm good with that. [01:08:28] Speaker A: I'm good with that. [01:08:29] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:08:30] Speaker B: Private business is private business. [01:08:34] Speaker A: Yeah. You know, it's like we. We do that. We do that to ourselves because we don't want to say. So we. We store it, store it, store it, store it. So now when actually see couples say, don't bottle it up. Don't wait until you get home when something's bugging you, say, can we go for a walk, please? [01:08:50] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:08:51] Speaker A: Be polite, though. Don't be your s. You know, just. [01:08:56] Speaker D: I'm going to pull a silver. [01:08:59] Speaker B: Classic Silver. [01:09:02] Speaker A: That's a little walk up. You're doing this, and this is getting. This getting on my nerves. [01:09:07] Speaker B: If you see me going off, I'm pulling a silver. I think we all need to pull a little bit of that, though, sometimes. Just let it go. Yeah, I think so. [01:09:18] Speaker A: You know, have you ever gone out to it. To, you know, near the ocean and really scream? [01:09:24] Speaker B: I don't think I've screamed. [01:09:25] Speaker C: I've done that. [01:09:26] Speaker D: That's pretty brutal, man. [01:09:27] Speaker B: You got to do that. [01:09:29] Speaker A: Oh, God. It was the ocean with the sand of the ocean. When you scream. [01:09:33] Speaker B: I want to do that on the way home, honestly. [01:09:36] Speaker A: Go there and just. Just scream. [01:09:38] Speaker D: Just can't really hear it when the ocean's crashing that much. You can barely hear yourself. It's just the ocean, really, so it's like you're one with the universe. [01:09:46] Speaker B: I need to do this. [01:09:48] Speaker D: I do hear her. [01:09:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:09:49] Speaker A: So healing. It's so soothing. [01:09:51] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:09:52] Speaker B: Yeah, I agree. [01:09:53] Speaker D: I've done it once, and I couldn't hear myself screaming, carrying on, because all I could hear was the ocean crashing. And it is. [01:09:59] Speaker C: It is. [01:10:00] Speaker D: It's like you're a part of that. [01:10:02] Speaker C: It's weird. Yeah. Oh, cool. [01:10:04] Speaker A: Well, what drive you to do that? Bad times. Good. [01:10:08] Speaker D: I always find myself at the beach when I'm a bit. Even since I moved these ways. [01:10:14] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:10:14] Speaker D: I like to go to the beach a lot just to clear my head and to think and. I don't know. I like the water. [01:10:21] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [01:10:21] Speaker D: There's something about the water. I don't know, just draws me to it. [01:10:25] Speaker A: I'm not an ocean person. I'm a river person. I prefer to go to a waterfall. [01:10:30] Speaker D: It doesn't matter where. It's just water. Just water, lakes, rivers, oceans. Anything that's with water. I don't know, it just draws me in. And I like to be near and I find a lot of the time whenever I'm near water, there's so many birds and I love birds. [01:10:44] Speaker B: So. [01:10:44] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. [01:10:46] Speaker D: It's like I always get to hear nature. [01:10:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:10:49] Speaker D: And that's what I love. [01:10:51] Speaker B: So. [01:10:51] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:10:53] Speaker D: But no, I totally agree with you. It is a bit powerful in a sense. [01:10:57] Speaker C: It's weird. Yeah. You should do it. [01:11:00] Speaker B: Well, I mean, sometimes the beach is right there. [01:11:03] Speaker D: You need it, you know? [01:11:03] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:11:04] Speaker D: That's why I take advantage of it as well and just go and sit as often as I can. I'll take my dog and walk to the beach and walk around and just to be near the water, to watch the waves crashing and stuff. I don't know why. [01:11:14] Speaker A: It's beautiful. [01:11:14] Speaker C: Yeah. It's. It's just. [01:11:15] Speaker D: It's healing. [01:11:16] Speaker B: Kind of puts things in perspective. [01:11:18] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:11:18] Speaker B: Size wise. And how small you are in the world. [01:11:22] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:11:22] Speaker B: And how big things are, you know, 100 rather than being all up in your head and everything. [01:11:27] Speaker A: Being big. [01:11:28] Speaker B: That's kind of why I was there yesterday. Sitting at the beach, watch the sunset. Beth missed it. She got there and she goes, I missed it. [01:11:40] Speaker A: I missed. [01:11:44] Speaker D: Pretty down about today. I was like. [01:11:47] Speaker A: I saw the most beautiful sunset in. In Bremer Bay a couple of weeks ago. [01:11:52] Speaker B: Oh, really? [01:11:53] Speaker C: Where? [01:11:53] Speaker B: I haven't been to Brma Bay many places. [01:11:56] Speaker D: Where's that? [01:11:57] Speaker A: Br Bay is between Albany and Esperance. [01:11:59] Speaker C: Oh. [01:12:00] Speaker A: That's why I've never been there. I mean, I used to go to Esperance in Albany. For the last 40 years. I've been to Albany. [01:12:08] Speaker D: I've never been to Esperance. [01:12:09] Speaker B: I've been to Albany once and I've. [01:12:11] Speaker D: I loved the sunset there. It was like nothing else I've ever seen over here. [01:12:18] Speaker B: Put it on my bucket list. [01:12:20] Speaker A: I think I've got a photo here of the sunset of Bremer Bay. [01:12:24] Speaker D: Yeah, so we can't show that. [01:12:27] Speaker B: You guys reckon you could talk while I go pee? [01:12:29] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:12:30] Speaker C: Okay. [01:12:30] Speaker A: Yeah, we can, because it's like actually very important. Like, Bremmer Bay is just. It's a little fishing town. The population, I think it's about 3,000 or something like that. So it's not very big, but it's just incredible. It's really, really incredible. They made a movie Blue. Blue Fish, I think it's called. They made a movie in Bremer Bay called Blowfish and you can see it on Netflix. [01:12:59] Speaker D: Oh, yeah. I'm gonna have a look tonight. I've got that place. [01:13:01] Speaker A: I'm pretty sure it's called. [01:13:02] Speaker D: Been watching the Rookie lately. [01:13:04] Speaker A: I will send. I will send a message to my friend that. See, that's. That's Brema Bay. It is just. That's the cloud. Oh, wow. It is just such a beautiful, beautiful place. [01:13:20] Speaker D: There'd be so many wild birds out there. [01:13:24] Speaker A: I mean, look, that's. That's the sunrise. Oh, that's beautiful. That's a sunset on the road. I just. It's just amazing. It's an amazing. Oh, that's the girl that invites me to Bremer, but she organized my appointments and everything down there, so we have a good time down there. [01:13:40] Speaker D: Oh, that's beautiful. Yeah, the water's so clear too. [01:13:44] Speaker A: It is, it is, it is. And the beach is just gorgeous. Yeah. So. But that's what it is, you know? And you gotta. You gotta let go. You gotta find a way that you find that it works for you, you know? But we should all have time to let go. [01:13:59] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:14:00] Speaker A: Some people just turn loud music and they sing out loud and they're letting go that way. Some people like to go to the ocean or somewhere with nature. Big one with nature. And just scream or. [01:14:13] Speaker D: Yeah, you're not gonna lie. A good scream is always. Is always the way to go sometimes, you know. [01:14:17] Speaker A: Yeah, it works for some people, but. [01:14:19] Speaker D: It depends what you connect to, I think. [01:14:20] Speaker A: Yeah, exactly. [01:14:22] Speaker D: Each individual connects different ways, you know, And I personally, I connect to music and the earth and the ocean and, you know, nature and animals and stuff. But music has always been a big part of my life. But yeah, everybody's different and everybody connects in different ways. And it depends what works for you. Yeah, I totally agree. [01:14:41] Speaker A: Yeah, I'm a big music person. I listen to. To music all the time. I never listen to the news or anything like that. [01:14:46] Speaker D: I haven't watched the news in about seven years. [01:14:48] Speaker A: Hey, I'm bad news and I can't. [01:14:50] Speaker D: Fix makes me emotional. There's always somebody dying or there's always a car accident or something, and it's sad and I hate it. So I don't have you. [01:15:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:15:00] Speaker B: I don't watch the news either. And I'm back. [01:15:03] Speaker A: And I have a girlfriend that she's obsessed with the news. Did you see? I says, do I watch the news? That's why I said, I don't want to know. Don't tell me. I don't want to know. I don't want to know. [01:15:14] Speaker D: I agree with you. I agree with you. Unless it's good news, something great's going on in the world, I don't want to know about it. Because now, nine times out of 10, when you watch the news, somebody's passed away. [01:15:22] Speaker A: There's that song called Newsweek. [01:15:25] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:15:26] Speaker A: You should look it up one day. [01:15:27] Speaker B: I will. We'll have to write down the songs that come up because then we can put them in and. And they're obviously coming up. [01:15:34] Speaker A: And it actually talks about. [01:15:35] Speaker B: There was a show called Good News. [01:15:37] Speaker A: There was, too. [01:15:37] Speaker B: Yes. [01:15:38] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:15:39] Speaker C: Yeah. All right. [01:15:40] Speaker B: So what did I miss? [01:15:41] Speaker A: Oh, so that's a beautiful picture. To find a way that you feel that it works. [01:15:47] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:15:48] Speaker A: On letting go. [01:15:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:15:49] Speaker A: With some people screen. Some people listen to loud music. Some people go for a walk. Some people might go. They just might vegetate. Some people just go to movies and fall asleep. [01:15:58] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:15:59] Speaker A: Go that way. [01:16:02] Speaker B: Beth, just. Beth, it. [01:16:03] Speaker A: Some people. [01:16:06] Speaker B: Best it up. We have a Silver and we have a. I wonder what my thing is. [01:16:13] Speaker A: I did it. [01:16:14] Speaker C: Beth. [01:16:14] Speaker B: You just Bethed it. [01:16:15] Speaker C: Beth. [01:16:22] Speaker B: Sorry, guys. That was really smooth, actually. I'm going to cut to some Santana and Rob Thomas with smooth. [01:16:31] Speaker A: Your voice. Your community station. You are listening to IPL radio. [01:16:40] Speaker B: Are you back on? And we're back. We're back on with all the things with Jen. Jen and Beth. And Silver's over there. Hello. On her phone. That's all right. That's okay. We came back on because the song finished. I. I had to. Well, the song had finished and I hadn't. [01:17:00] Speaker C: You know. [01:17:01] Speaker B: We've only got about 20 minutes left, so. Beth's progress on her dating app. We're all just sitting here. I'm so sorry. I feel so embarrassed. [01:17:12] Speaker D: I'm not sorry. [01:17:13] Speaker B: You just got your first pick. [01:17:16] Speaker D: What's not warranted was not asked for. Very skinny helmet. Looks a bit lopsided. I was a bit honest. I don't think he liked that. [01:17:29] Speaker B: Their response was savage. [01:17:32] Speaker D: It's okay. I let him know I wasn't gonna cry. Literally. [01:17:35] Speaker B: I think I'm going red for him. Like, I'm embarrassed for him. Like, he said that proudly. [01:17:40] Speaker D: He said that unwarranted. [01:17:41] Speaker B: He sent that proudly. And I'm like, that's your boy. Skinny penis. Can't believe this. [01:17:49] Speaker D: I'm so sorry. [01:17:51] Speaker B: So sorry. [01:17:52] Speaker D: Staffy's got bigger nuts than that, though. Got bigger nuts than that. Come on. [01:17:56] Speaker B: Okay, Back to this show. Back to the show. Oh, God. [01:18:01] Speaker C: I don't know how. [01:18:02] Speaker B: Silver, save me, please. [01:18:03] Speaker A: Right now I'm just trying to think what people have in their head that it makes them send photos like that in the first place. [01:18:11] Speaker B: I mean, please don't do it. [01:18:16] Speaker A: I really don't understand understand what they're trying to achieve by that. [01:18:19] Speaker D: It's even worse when they. [01:18:21] Speaker B: Shoe size. Like, he almost could put his. [01:18:28] Speaker A: It's. It's nature. Yes, it's nature. It's. [01:18:32] Speaker B: It was so shiny, though, like extra. [01:18:39] Speaker A: But, you know, that's. That's a desperate picture. It's a desperate picture. [01:18:45] Speaker B: He angled that like, so he could get thick. [01:18:49] Speaker D: It didn't look thick. It looks so very thin. [01:18:52] Speaker B: So savage. [01:18:53] Speaker D: Those fingers, like, it's a lot. I probably should have played. [01:18:56] Speaker B: I probably should have played another song. [01:18:59] Speaker D: Men, if you're listening, girls like girth. If those fingers touch around it, mate, it's a no go. Sorry. [01:19:06] Speaker B: Oh, Beth is savage. I'm actually embarrassed for that. [01:19:10] Speaker D: I'm embarrassed for myself. [01:19:11] Speaker B: Please don't name any names. [01:19:13] Speaker D: Send that to me. That's so shame. [01:19:15] Speaker A: Don't. Okay, you know, that's good. Change the subject. If you girls have ever really tried to do self sound healing and actually connect to your body and have that connection. [01:19:31] Speaker B: Yes. [01:19:31] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, God. [01:19:34] Speaker A: I mean, the power of the voice is so powerful. [01:19:36] Speaker B: It is. [01:19:36] Speaker C: Yeah, it is. [01:19:37] Speaker A: Of the thought a picture tells a different story. [01:19:45] Speaker D: Definitely tells a half a story. [01:19:50] Speaker A: Let's get back here with a. Back here. [01:19:52] Speaker B: Really didn't really. So, yeah, I've got the quartz chakra bowls, the singing bowls. [01:19:59] Speaker A: I'm talking about self sounding your own vibration. [01:20:04] Speaker C: Yes. [01:20:04] Speaker B: Oh, so how. How are you talking? [01:20:07] Speaker A: You make the sound yourself. Oh, you send it through your body. [01:20:10] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:20:10] Speaker A: You know, and there's different sounds that you can make for different parts of your body to be able to connect in that direction. [01:20:15] Speaker C: Have you ever tried it? [01:20:18] Speaker B: Yeah, no, I, I. Not with my own voice as such. I don't know, actually. [01:20:24] Speaker A: Well, that's what self sound. Yeah. You can only do it with your own voice. You can't borrow somebody else's voice. [01:20:30] Speaker B: I don't think I have. I don't even. I can't even think. [01:20:33] Speaker C: I'm too. [01:20:36] Speaker A: You gotta. [01:20:37] Speaker B: Can we clear my head of that vision? [01:20:39] Speaker A: Yes, please. [01:20:39] Speaker B: Let's do it. Let's do it, please. [01:20:42] Speaker A: To do that. So you've got a really. [01:20:43] Speaker B: That was scary. [01:20:44] Speaker A: You gotta breathe in, right? You've got to breathe through this nice and deep. Through your nose and out through your mouth. You just relax. [01:20:51] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:20:51] Speaker A: And this time when you breathe in, right, you breathe in as long as you can. And then you do a E, but with an M at the end. So you do E. And when you finish with the M and go. So I'll do one and then you can do the next one. Okay, so just do the first breath in, let go. And that relaxes your body. Ready for it? And second one. Go. [01:21:39] Speaker C: Wow. [01:21:41] Speaker A: And then you actually. [01:21:42] Speaker C: Wow. [01:21:43] Speaker A: Vibrate through your body. [01:21:44] Speaker B: Yeah, that was full on. [01:21:46] Speaker A: Try it. [01:21:46] Speaker B: How did you hold that note that long? [01:21:48] Speaker A: You just. I just think. [01:21:51] Speaker B: I don't know if I want to try. I'll do it with you. [01:21:55] Speaker C: All right. [01:21:56] Speaker A: Do it with me. Okay. We do one break. [01:21:57] Speaker B: I don't know if I could do it that long, though. [01:21:59] Speaker C: That's a. Yeah. [01:22:00] Speaker B: All right. [01:22:00] Speaker A: You do it for as long as you can. [01:22:02] Speaker C: Okay. All right. [01:22:05] Speaker A: I like. I like trying different things. [01:22:07] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:22:08] Speaker A: You know? [01:22:09] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:22:09] Speaker A: Okay. [01:22:10] Speaker B: Good to be weird. Yeah. All right, let's. Let's rock this. [01:22:12] Speaker A: I want you to breathe in and relax. So you breathe in through your nose. [01:22:15] Speaker C: Here we go. [01:22:17] Speaker A: And let go. [01:22:20] Speaker B: Beth's trying it too. [01:22:22] Speaker A: And then breathe in and hold. And then breathe in. [01:22:45] Speaker B: I did it. [01:22:47] Speaker A: How does your body feel? [01:22:48] Speaker D: It feels good, actually. [01:22:50] Speaker C: It does. [01:22:51] Speaker A: It's really good. And it cleans your mind just to clear your head. So if you find things that. Like we're listening before some people scream from. That's a good way. [01:22:59] Speaker B: That's actually really good. [01:23:00] Speaker A: It just. It is. It's amazing. [01:23:02] Speaker B: Just the release of it, but also the note and the. The vibration of my voice just doing that. [01:23:08] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:23:09] Speaker B: And the breath. That was. That was cool. [01:23:11] Speaker A: It is. [01:23:12] Speaker B: I will use that one. Thank you. [01:23:14] Speaker A: And I mean, that's only for the head. There's different sounds for different parts of the body. [01:23:18] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:23:19] Speaker B: You know, I. Yeah. No, I haven't done that before. [01:23:21] Speaker C: No. [01:23:22] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:23:23] Speaker D: Class does. [01:23:23] Speaker C: What is that? [01:23:25] Speaker B: Self sound healing? [01:23:26] Speaker A: Is that self sound healing? It's your own self sound to help you heal your body. Okay. I thought everybody did it, so. [01:23:36] Speaker D: No, no, I've never heard of that before. [01:23:38] Speaker A: Yeah, it's really good to me. [01:23:39] Speaker D: It sounded like a vocal warm up. Interesting. [01:23:41] Speaker A: It is. It's just really good, you know, and like before we do that, we normally if we're gonna go through the whole body, we do something starts to get you your vocal cords going. Good. So then you warm and then we start and do, you know the E, the o, the ah, the ooh. [01:23:56] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:23:57] Speaker D: See, it reminds me of vocal warm up. [01:23:58] Speaker A: Straight up. [01:23:59] Speaker D: It's really, really cool. [01:24:00] Speaker A: Yeah. Because you've got to get that going. You've got to have that relax. Yeah. You've got to really learn how to breathe deep through your nose and out through your mouth and let your oxygen go deeper and deeper and. Because the deeper you can take the oxygen, the longer you can go through the sound. [01:24:14] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:15] Speaker A: Which is amazing. [01:24:16] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:17] Speaker A: You know, some people even, you know, with. With sound healing before there was sounding bowls and singing, we used to do it love that way. [01:24:24] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:25] Speaker A: You know? [01:24:25] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:26] Speaker A: But it's like everybody's forgotten how to do it without the. Without the sounding balls. [01:24:29] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:30] Speaker B: Without the stuff. [01:24:31] Speaker A: Exactly. [01:24:32] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:32] Speaker B: You are the biggest. [01:24:33] Speaker A: When you're under a lot of stress and you want your body to really completely de stress and you do that. And like, you don't need anything. You don't need any tools. [01:24:42] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:42] Speaker A: Because that's the beauty of it. You know, we've been created complete that we can cater to ourselves in anything that we need within ourselves. It's just a case that we haven't learned how to use ourselves. [01:24:53] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:54] Speaker A: With us. [01:24:54] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:24:55] Speaker B: I think people go extremely external before they go into. [01:24:59] Speaker A: Yeah, we should go internal. We got to learn to do a lot more internal work. [01:25:03] Speaker B: Beth's gonna go internal. [01:25:05] Speaker A: Yeah. That's the kind of thing that we learn at the workshop. [01:25:11] Speaker B: Oh, okay. [01:25:12] Speaker A: Exercise internal. [01:25:13] Speaker D: Not delivery internal. [01:25:14] Speaker B: So this is available from February and. [01:25:17] Speaker A: Binning up to do that, we just ourselves. [01:25:22] Speaker B: Every word that's being said didn't clear my head. [01:25:25] Speaker C: Again. [01:25:25] Speaker B: I need to do that again. [01:25:28] Speaker A: No worries. [01:25:30] Speaker B: So what. What is the sound for? Say, so that's for your head, is it? [01:25:35] Speaker A: That's for your header. [01:25:36] Speaker B: What was the next sound note sound like? [01:25:40] Speaker A: The next sound is. [01:25:46] Speaker C: Okay. [01:25:46] Speaker B: And that would do. [01:25:48] Speaker A: That would do the throat and the lower part of it. [01:25:50] Speaker B: Like, let's see this one. [01:25:53] Speaker C: O. Oh. [01:26:08] Speaker A: Try it. You can't do it. [01:26:12] Speaker B: Do you want to do it? [01:26:13] Speaker C: Okay. [01:26:14] Speaker A: Why not? [01:26:14] Speaker C: Come on. [01:26:15] Speaker B: All right, let's try it. [01:26:16] Speaker C: All right. Okay. Okay. All right. Got it. [01:26:20] Speaker A: Breathe in. [01:26:21] Speaker B: And you don't do the M at the end of that one. You don't do the M. Just The Or. [01:26:26] Speaker C: Yeah. Okay. All right. [01:26:28] Speaker A: That you. Only you. [01:26:29] Speaker C: You. [01:26:29] Speaker A: The O is the only one that you don't do the M on. [01:26:32] Speaker B: Okay. And is this because the reason. [01:26:34] Speaker A: Because it's too close to an om. So. [01:26:36] Speaker C: Yeah, I was gonna say. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. [01:26:38] Speaker A: Okay. [01:26:39] Speaker B: Okay. [01:26:40] Speaker A: It's just an oh. [01:26:43] Speaker C: Oh. [01:26:44] Speaker A: And it's I, A, E. Oh, they're all the same. [01:26:48] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:26:48] Speaker B: Let's do. [01:26:49] Speaker C: You know. [01:26:52] Speaker B: I play with. Oh, the things. Let's go. [01:26:54] Speaker A: Okay. [01:26:56] Speaker C: Okay. [01:26:56] Speaker A: So we're going to do the All. Okay. [01:26:58] Speaker C: All right. [01:26:59] Speaker A: So you breathe and relax. [01:27:00] Speaker B: Let's do this. [01:27:04] Speaker A: And now you do. Do breathe and do. [01:27:19] Speaker C: Oh. [01:27:26] Speaker A: And you just feel the vibration go down. [01:27:28] Speaker B: I felt that vibration. [01:27:29] Speaker A: He's amazing. [01:27:32] Speaker B: It is. It's pretty good. [01:27:33] Speaker C: Yeah. That's good. [01:27:34] Speaker B: Okay. [01:27:35] Speaker C: Yep. [01:27:36] Speaker B: What about the sacral chakra one? [01:27:40] Speaker C: What? Ooh. [01:27:41] Speaker B: Yeah, of course it's O for. [01:27:43] Speaker A: It's O. And you finish with an S. Yeah. [01:27:46] Speaker B: I always like to finish with those. [01:27:48] Speaker A: Very appropriate for the sacred check. You're going to make sure your feet are flat on. [01:27:52] Speaker D: The legs are open. [01:27:54] Speaker A: You got to be grounding. [01:27:55] Speaker B: Your feet have got to be apart. [01:27:56] Speaker C: Hey. [01:27:57] Speaker B: For the sac. [01:27:58] Speaker A: Yes, they do. Yes, they do. Okay. [01:28:01] Speaker C: God. [01:28:02] Speaker A: So. [01:28:02] Speaker C: All right, Go. [01:28:03] Speaker B: Sorry. [01:28:03] Speaker C: Sorry. [01:28:03] Speaker A: Breathe in. What's the sound? And relax. [01:28:07] Speaker C: Oh. All right. [01:28:10] Speaker A: Goes in. Do this. [01:28:22] Speaker B: That's me. [01:28:27] Speaker A: Could you feel it? [01:28:29] Speaker B: I felt something. I'm ready for tomorrow. [01:28:36] Speaker C: You are? [01:28:40] Speaker B: So we can. Should we. [01:28:43] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:28:44] Speaker B: What do you call it? Videotape your. [01:28:46] Speaker D: Oh, I'm gonna videotape it. I'm gonna take lots of pictures too. [01:28:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:28:50] Speaker B: You'll be the first to know. We should do an audio recording of it actually happening. We can't. [01:28:54] Speaker D: Should I do those breathing exercises? [01:28:57] Speaker B: Talking about getting your nipples pin for. [01:29:00] Speaker A: The sack of lollipop. Well, you get it done. It. You know, it's probably. If you're ever getting a tattoo or a piercing, if you suck a lollipop while you're doing it. [01:29:08] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:29:09] Speaker A: It won't hurt as much. [01:29:11] Speaker B: I wanna suck on your lollipop. [01:29:13] Speaker D: I just used to squeeze the dinosaur. [01:29:15] Speaker B: That the eyeballs come out. [01:29:17] Speaker A: Yeah. [01:29:17] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:29:18] Speaker A: You can do that as well. I prefer to suck a lollipop. [01:29:23] Speaker D: That sounds like a good idea. [01:29:28] Speaker B: Oh, God. I'm getting some cool messages at the moment. [01:29:32] Speaker A: Anything you can share? [01:29:34] Speaker B: Pretty much. No. [01:29:35] Speaker A: Okay. [01:29:36] Speaker B: Actually, no. I have been getting some questions through messenger. [01:29:40] Speaker A: Let's just answer some questions. [01:29:42] Speaker B: Okay. [01:29:42] Speaker C: All right. [01:29:43] Speaker B: Hang on. Some for you here. Yeah, let's have a look. How far away can Selva read someone? Like, can you get. Can she. Or you get messages from people nowhere near where you are. [01:29:58] Speaker A: I like to hear the sound of the person's voice. [01:30:00] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:30:01] Speaker A: If they're complete. That's why, you know, in the radio when the people used to ring it as perfect. I just hear the voice. I think that would help connect to them directly. You know, it doesn't matter how far you are. [01:30:11] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:30:12] Speaker A: As long as I can hear your voice. [01:30:13] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:30:14] Speaker A: Yeah, I can hear your voice. [01:30:15] Speaker D: That's actually really strange you say that because I had a reading many, many years ago with some random lady in. In Thorne. Their name's Lisa. And she had a phone call, shout. [01:30:24] Speaker B: Out to Lisa and Thornley. [01:30:25] Speaker C: No. [01:30:26] Speaker D: Yeah, shout out to Lisa and Thornley. Beautiful lady. Beautiful psychic medium that gave me very insightful reading quite a few years ago. But I. I called her to book it and she could pick. She literally saw me. [01:30:40] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:30:40] Speaker D: Saw me from hearing my voice. [01:30:43] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:30:43] Speaker D: And she knew who to expect on her doorstep that day. And it really spun me out. I've never forgotten that. That where she told me that. So when you say that, it really relates to me. [01:30:53] Speaker A: It really works. Yeah. [01:30:54] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:30:55] Speaker B: That's pretty cool. [01:30:56] Speaker D: That's really, really interesting. [01:30:58] Speaker A: Yeah. But if. If you've been to a reading with me before, like, if you not have met you at least once on the physical, you can call me anytime. And I go, I'll. Send me a message and say, oh, yeah, I've got a lady that lives actually in Canada, and she lost a book. Book the other day. And she rang me up, so where's my book? So I said, it's actually there. And she goes, okay, thanks. And she looks right back. Yeah, I found it. And my. My girlfriend Penny rang me up. He says, sir, I lost my. My ring. And she never told me what ring it was. I said, okay, no worries. I'll think about it. So I realized, look, I haven't even. I haven't even given it a thought. I'm sorry, I haven't. Yes. But you give me two seconds. I said, hey, it's between your laundry. We're folding the laundry. It's inside your laundry that you folded. Go, like, check your linen press because you'll be that. I think that's where it is. [01:31:51] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:31:51] Speaker A: Anyway, she went on the towels and there it was. It was caught up in it. It was a ring with a blue stone, Right? [01:31:56] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:31:56] Speaker A: Yes. Yes. [01:31:57] Speaker B: All right. [01:31:58] Speaker A: I said, yeah, it's between that. [01:31:59] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, right. [01:32:01] Speaker B: Okay, that's cool. [01:32:02] Speaker D: I do wonder whatever happened to my 222 necklace in the last six months. That's absolutely crazy that you can do that. Something like that, eh? [01:32:10] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:32:11] Speaker D: I've lost so many things and have no memory of where I put them. [01:32:14] Speaker A: Down or they're in a safe place. [01:32:16] Speaker D: Nothing, you know, safe from you. [01:32:19] Speaker A: We always put things in a safe place. [01:32:22] Speaker D: Never go back to it. [01:32:23] Speaker B: Could it not be you would. Could you blow your knee out for a reason that the knee is sore? I don't know. Could it just be an injury? [01:32:33] Speaker A: It is an injury, but interests are created because of something that is led you to pay attention or something in life. Everything that happens in your life, it happens for a reason. So yes, before you can blow your interest, I mean, I've done that. I mean I used to. I used to be a soccer player, so I used to blow my knees often. All right. And. But then I used to say, okay, which knees? And then I would think, okay, what is it in my life that this made my knee weak. [01:32:58] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:32:58] Speaker A: Not to be able to do something that I do all the time. [01:33:01] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:33:02] Speaker A: Okay. And then I would heal that emotionally, you know, and then it wouldn't be as bad. It would heal a lot better and it'll heal a lot quicker. [01:33:10] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:33:10] Speaker B: Okay. [01:33:11] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:33:12] Speaker B: I think someone was sharing. There's a Maori culture thing. Water representative of mother Earth and the love for the mother. [01:33:19] Speaker C: That's. [01:33:19] Speaker B: That's some more information. I got messages about the Beth stuff. What stuff? If you've got small hands, it shouldn't be too bad. [01:33:36] Speaker D: Well, small hands comes with something else. Very small along with small feet. [01:33:40] Speaker B: Anyway. All right, so yeah, we've got a few there. What else have we got? [01:33:46] Speaker D: You small head handed men don't lose faith. [01:33:50] Speaker B: That's all I have to say. [01:33:51] Speaker D: There is some women out there that would like that. [01:33:54] Speaker B: You had the ball and got tackled. [01:33:56] Speaker C: All right. Yep, yep. [01:33:58] Speaker B: Okay. So the other ones are funny. I'm just trying to filter like what I can read out loud. Oh, gosh, no. Oh, look. Oh my God. We've only got like. [01:34:12] Speaker D: What happened? How quick did tonight go? [01:34:14] Speaker C: I know. [01:34:15] Speaker B: That's felt like we've got three minutes. [01:34:19] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:34:19] Speaker B: Like I can't believe it. That's fantastic. [01:34:21] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:34:21] Speaker B: That sucks. [01:34:21] Speaker D: That was so quick. [01:34:23] Speaker B: It did well. It didn't help. We're outside for half an hour. Sandwiches. That was awesome, actually. [01:34:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:34:32] Speaker A: Thank you for having me on a Tuesday night. [01:34:34] Speaker D: Thank you. [01:34:34] Speaker A: I thoroughly enjoyed it, being a guest. [01:34:37] Speaker B: Thank you. [01:34:37] Speaker A: I enjoyed it. I hope to see if I can work something and do a show on Thursday night. [01:34:41] Speaker B: On Thursdays. Yeah, that'll be awesome. Thank you. And thank you everyone for listening to all the things with all of us and hopefully they tried that self sound healing. [01:34:56] Speaker A: I hope they do because yeah, I'm. [01:34:58] Speaker D: At home myself later. [01:34:59] Speaker A: Yeah, the Thursday show. I do want to make it that it is more on what I do in educating people and things like that. So yeah, I do take it a little bit more serious. [01:35:10] Speaker B: Yeah, no, we've had a little bit of fun tonight. [01:35:14] Speaker D: Have met Salva and learned and listened to all the things that you've been able to share with us and I really, really appreciate getting to know you and I would love to get to. [01:35:22] Speaker A: Know you some more. So yeah, I would love to do more work with you girls. I mean it's absolutely, really funny. But I think we'll pick the phone line out of the, out of sight next time. [01:35:33] Speaker B: Yeah, yeah. But Beth's phone needs to go out of the studio. [01:35:38] Speaker A: No, I loved it. I loved it because we, we both, we're three of us are crazy as one another and it's good because you gotta have laughter. Laughter is good healing. It's good for your soul. It is, you know and we, we do talk about some serious like, you know, the respect and all that. We didn't cover a good thing but we did it with fun. [01:35:55] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:35:56] Speaker A: And I think, I really do love that. [01:35:58] Speaker B: I think you know, and because the radio is about mental health and things like that, laughter is, is so good for the soul and, and like quite often I will have flat days or days where I'm completely drained and coming here is kind of like my therapy. So sometimes I do, you know, serious things and so it's just good to be able to have a little bit. [01:36:18] Speaker A: Of fun and because you know, you're working with you, you doing the healing work and that yourself, you know, you're working with people all the time. Yeah, you did. You need that down time that you're doing something that is not connected to your work in a sense even though it is. [01:36:30] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:36:31] Speaker A: But you're doing it with, with fun and laughter and just delivering you and it's a healing, healing for you. Yeah, I mean I love it. I mean I love doing all the radio shows. I love them because you never know. I mean I've always, I've never done a non call show before. Yeah, all the shows I've done, they've always been. [01:36:49] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:36:49] Speaker B: So we've been chatting about something about that. So it's really good. [01:36:53] Speaker A: It's good to talk to people. You never know who they're going to ring in, what questions are going to go because whatever someone will ask, ask a question for themselves, but they're probably another 100 people out there that have got the same situation. [01:37:03] Speaker D: 100%. [01:37:04] Speaker A: Yes. At the same time. [01:37:08] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:37:09] Speaker A: You know? [01:37:09] Speaker C: Yeah. No, that's. [01:37:10] Speaker B: That's good. So that's something. [01:37:12] Speaker A: When you go and do nights that I do a lot of stage work and talk to people in general, they. [01:37:16] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:37:17] Speaker A: They say, God, I thought you were talking to me. But there's a few people say, I thought you were talking to me. [01:37:20] Speaker D: The way I see it, in that situation, out of the one person, out of all of those that ring up and actually ask that question, all of those people get. [01:37:29] Speaker C: Yeah. [01:37:29] Speaker A: An answer. [01:37:31] Speaker C: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [01:37:31] Speaker D: That they're waiting for. And in some sense, you might have been able to save someone's life. [01:37:36] Speaker A: Yes. [01:37:37] Speaker B: More than one. [01:37:37] Speaker C: Yeah. Yeah. [01:37:39] Speaker D: Really rewarding. [01:37:40] Speaker A: So it's worth it. That's beautiful. I've loved it. I thoroughly love to thank you for inviting me. [01:37:44] Speaker B: Thank you for coming sooner. Thank you to everyone listening and, yeah, I hope you enjoyed the banter of all the things that we did tonight and all the things Beth is going to be doing later. Here's my everlong as my last song. And good night, everyone. [01:38:07] Speaker A: Good night. Bye. Your voice, your community station. You are listening to IPL Radio.